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by theriverissinging
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 August 4th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Eating Disorder Support Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?30c2f12674c3d76b794a13ccbe111c5a]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words “Please add me.” To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words, “Please remove me.” Taglist to be used for check-ins, discussions, events and announcements. ------------------------- we'll be compiling the latest taglist through a process outlined here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SuggestionsandProblemSolving_383/TeaCakeCompilingautomatedtaglists_291762/] every time we make a post.
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Binge eating
by lpau1
Last post
 November 24th
...See more Hey…I’m 17 yo I have binge eating disorder and I'm currently going to therapy..but l feel like I'm just lying to myself that I'm feeling better ... i have no control over food and i feel like I'm nothing without food :/ i have 360 lbs and I can't stop. One day I will just die eating I don't know what to do anymore to stop this addiction I feel like I'm a liability And I'm so tired to hear just some sweet words..i need some real advices i just need someone to talk with
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Eating in secret
by Oceanridinghorses2
Last post
 November 21st
...See more After something horrible happened in our family, I started to hide food from everyone and binge eat all the time and I hate myself and I can't stop. I just feel so sad and alone. 
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stop bingeing
by jhyeee
Last post
 October 15th
...See more i wanna know how to stop bingeing because i basically binge every day and it’s really bad. i feel super bloated and like i can’t breathe after. i used to be a gymnast and i don’t have great body image. tips on stopping?
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Hiding food.
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 August 12th
...See more After my father almost passed away from a horrible accident last year, I was scared and started hiding food to help me to be okay with how I was feeling and now I can't stop hiding food from everyone and binge eating. I feel that something is wrong with me. 
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Podcast, conversations, etc
by Colo820
Last post
 May 30th
...See more Hi! I'm currently struggling with binge eating, I've already gained <edit> (<edit> lbs i think) and I really think that it would really help me to hear other people talk about that. I don't really know why or how but maybe by just normalising it and accepting that it is a problem, etc, i guess. But yes, I don't really know.  If you know any I would be really happy if you could share it with me. Thank you very much!!
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Binge Eating
by KristenHR
Last post
 May 24th
...See more Binge Eating seems to have a lot of shame around it.  People sometimes think that binge eating can just be controlled by stopping eating so much.  If this were true, there wouldn't be a need for treatment for it.  Common symptoms of Binge Eating disorder per NEDA [https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/warning-signs-and-symptoms/] are: * Engages in episodes of binge eating large amounts of food in a short period of time, often in secret (eating in a discrete period of time an amount of food that is much larger than most individuals would eat under similar circumstances) * Feels lack of control over ability to stop eating * Experiences shame, guilt and despair after binge-eating episodes * Steals or hoards food in strange places * Creates lifestyle schedules or rituals to make time for binge sessions * Disruption in normal eating behaviors, including eating throughout the day with no planned mealtimes; skipping meals or taking small portions of food at regular meals; engaging in sporadic fasting or repetitive dieting Here is a screening tool [https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/screening-tool/] to see if you may have an eating disorder.  There are treatment programs that do focus on Binge Eating Disorder, though most treatment programs put all eating disorders together because most eating disorders have various symptoms but the underlying issues are similar, and treatment is similar when dealing with underlying issues. There are some types of treatment that are used for Binge Eating. CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), which focuses on our thoughts and beliefs, which help to address what we are telling ourselves and what we believe about ourselves. DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) which focuses on helping us to cope in 4 areas - mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation and Interpersonal effectiveness.  Using the tools found in these four areas can really help to manage emotions and stabilization of emotions and even healthy relationships that may be difficult due to the eating disorder or other reasons. Binge episodes may be triggered by stress, dieting, negative feelings relating to body weight or body shape, the availability of food, or boredom, symptoms of PTSD or other symptoms.  There are many reasons that individuals develop Binge Eating, but there is a high correlation between Trauma and Binge Eating, PTSD, Substance Abuse, Depression, Anxiety, and Borderline Personality Disorder.  Not everyone develops these, but many individuals cope in many ways and show co-occurring psychiatric diagnoses with their binge eating. Some books available that you would want to determine if they are appropriate for you: Overcoming Binge Eating by Dr Christopher G. Fairburn The DBT Solution for Emotional Eating: A Proven Program to Break the Cycle of Bingeing and Out-of-Control Eating by Safer, Adler and MassonBinge Eating Disorder:  The Journey to Recovery and Beyond by Pershing and TurnerIntuitive Eating:  A Revolutionary Anti-diet Approach by Tribole and ReschCrave:  Why You Binge Eat and How to Stop by Bulik ------------------------- What thoughts or questions do you have about Binge Eating Disorder?What treatment programs have you been to that offer Binge Eating Disorder Specialized treatment programs separate from other types of eating disorders?What resources are you looking for?
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Achievement
by lovingHuman5959
Last post
 May 11th
...See more Yesterday i stayed up for like 4 hours not sleeping battling my mind, but i did not end up binging. Literally fought my mind so hard, was insane, ugh
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i can’t stop binge eating
by notharinn
Last post
 May 6th
...See more I grew up as the fat kid and in high school i decided i wanted to loose weight. and i succeeded, i underate and lost ton of weight. suddenly ppl started complimenting me and i felt pretty so i felt this pressure to keep this identity as a skinny person. i dont know when it started but i began binge eating. and as time goes, it keeps getting worse and worse. the intensity of the binges become worse and it becomes more frequent. it used to be once a month, then it became once a week, then it was once a day and now its twice a day! i dont know what to do. the thought of becoming my old fat self again terrifies me, but yet i continue to binge. will this ever stop? will i ever get better? do you guys have any suggestions on how i can recover?
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i cant stop overeating
by niceOwl5018
Last post
 April 21st
...See more I am obese at 17 5'2 and <edit> . I always feel bad after consuming junk food. and I carry on doing so, repeating the cycle. each day, after which I make an effort not to eat Either put it in writing why I shouldn't eat, or quit doing this, that, etc. But it's all for nothing. I just can't stress myself out to not eat whatever is available, after all, I live with my family. I've been training for the past two years, but despite this, I haven't noticed any really big changes—overeating is still a problem. I'm exhausted from these sugar and junkie cravings, and I can't stop my mind from storing them. however, if I had no money I give shoplifting a shot and then regret it. I have no idea how to stop my cravings, and none of the media's advice has ever been able to help. I feel like I'm failing myself right now, and I'm not sure what to do. Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation as me but has succeeded? If yes, tell us how you think Yaal overcame it.
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Out of Control :(
by secretJar5982
Last post
 January 31st
...See more this is the first time i am actually stating that i think i have a problem with binge eating. i find myself trying to share this with safe friends or my partner or my therapist, but i have never fully vocalized this truth. my partner is gone on a business trip for the next 2 weeks and has already been gone 1 week. i'm afraid how out of control i'm going to get with my eating while he's gone because i do my binging at night and sometimes with alcohol and sometimes with THC products - but always with one of the two. i used to blame my binging on any impairment that i would have from the substances, but i now think this is more about a method by which to process my stress and big emotions. i haven't given them a proper outlet, and so now i'm eating them, and numbing myself out with food and substance - in private - to escape. how do i get help for this, where do i go and what do i say? i'm.... scared.
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I dunno what to name this
by NaomiF08
Last post
 January 28th
...See more I don't know how to move forward. I've felt really terrible about my own body image for a long time, and i've kind of descended into a depressed slump. I kept trying to count my calories in a desperate attempt to bring my weight down but failing. I keep getting stressed about things and stress eating, and then feeling fat and disgusting. Finally, about 30 minutes ago, i did research on eating disorders, and i found two different online tests. I took them, and both said i have a severe Binge Eating Disorder. I just feel so sad and so stuck. It weighs down on me and i don't know what to do. I want to talk with my parents, but I feel so ashamed, and i don't want to hurt them. They are really kind, but we have been going through a lot lately, and I don't want to burden them with anything else. I just don't know
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How do y'all deal with cravings and portion sizes? (BED)
by Michelh1996
Last post
 November 27th, 2023
...See more Hi, I was wondering if there's any people with experience in dealing with cravings, portion sizes and managing this when it comes to binge eating? I have been struggling with this myself and I feel like most the time, the only way to stop a craving and move on is to give in to it. I know that even if you manage to stop one, there might be a next one to fac the next day or next week. But at least you won one fight right ;) So, yea, curious to see if anyone has tips or tricks about experience of dealing with these moments on you mind and with giving in to them, also on the level of giving in (like a bit or too much)!

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