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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
1 day ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
Saturday
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
A Little Reminder 🦋
by daydreammemories
Last post
November 2nd
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Anxiety Buddy System!
by fuzzyLemon
Last post
Saturday
...See more Hi All! This is a thread to find a buddy as we navigate anxiety! You will set goals (little ones) with each other and check in as often as you like! Offering support to each other, encouraging and motivating each other and celebrating too! Please post what you're looking for in a buddy or reply to someone else's post 🥰 After that you could make your own thread e.g. Fox and Bob's Buddy Thread where you can post to each other! I hope that all makes sense and you're excited to find a buddy, I know I am! 🍋
Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
Saturday
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
Conquering Anxiety: Learning from others
by Hope
Last post
Friday
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. This is week 7 of our Conquering Anxiety series. Please complete the earlier post if you have not yet! This week we will be learning from @fearlessSail5693, a teen member who has generously agreed to share their own experience in dealing with anxiety and how they managed to make progress.  At what point did you start this journey and what steps did you take early on? I started this journey when I was tired of feeling anxious and scared every day. I was being crushed under the weight of being unable to live freely and that's when I decided to bring a change. Initially, i asked for advice and help and found out what method works for me the best  What challenges did you face and how did you overcome them? Initially, I wasn't able to stop ruminating and feeling anxious and was about to give up. There were days when I kept doubting if my phobia/anxiety is ever going to end or not. But I kept hoping and believing that I could do it! Eventually, I learned my way through it. Even I learned what words would trigger my anxiety and instead of avoiding them completely, I slowly used them myself so I could grow out of it. The key to this whole process is just trusting yourself  What are your tips for people who wish to better manage their anxiety? Keep your hopes high and believe in yourself that you can and you will manage your anxiety! There will be some ups and downs but don't let them discourage you. Don't think that it'll be gone in a day or two, be consistent in whatever you do and slowly you'll start seeing results. Stay optimistic! What methods/habits were helpful for me to get over my anxiety I tried to avoid rumination by not paying attention to it much and just agreeing with whatever my brain kept telling me. I tried Leaves on a stream meditation every day consistently which helped me tremendously I also worked on controlling my breath so whenever I felt extremely anxious, I tried to maintain my breathing pattern and I started going for walks which kept my mind clear of any anxious thoughts even if temporary  Thank you for sharing your experience with us! The task of the week! (Please stick to the prompts based on your account type) For members * Does any of the points mentioned by sail resonate with you?  * Can you think of anything sail did that may be beneficial to apply in your life? For listeners * How can you support someone who is struggling with anxiety and wishes to use exposure therapy to overcome it? * You are welcome to share words of encouragement with sail.  Both members and listeners can ask sail further questions by tagging them. Sail will answer the questions they feel comfortable to answer.  ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: Exposure Therapy
by Hope
Last post
Friday
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. It is a new week and that means it is time for another post in the Conquering Anxiety series. Now comes the post as mentioned earlier on exposure therapy. So far we have been exploring how anxiety impacts our lives, reflecting on what things can be like if we can overcome it, learning about the cycle of anxiety,  practicing tools that can help us while we confront our anxiety, and exploring the role of diet and exercise. These posts acted as a foundation for our post of the week so if you have not taken part in all those, please follow the order of the series.  Today we will talk about exposure therapy! Why exposure therapy? Exposure therapy is highly successful for people dealing with anxiety, with 60-90% of people reporting no or mild symptoms after treatment. Adding CBT, relaxation techniques, and other treatments can make it even more effective (Data taken from EBBP.org) What is exposure therapy? Simply put, it is a treatment method in which people are equipped with coping tools (like the ones we covered earlier) and asked to confront their fears. The trick however is to evaluate where you stand with your specific fear and just push a bit past that. For example, if you are terrified of driving and never touched your car after your accident or an unpleasant incident, start by just sitting in the car for 5-10 minutes, you should not drive it on a highway the first day because that is way past your comfort zone.  While getting out of the comfort zone is crucial it should be done within reason and with the support of coping tools so that the person benefits from the experience. So you are picking a battle that you can win and you are going in armed!  Here are key mistakes to avoid.  * Picking a task that is way beyond your current level (You will not go for a 10-mile run if you have never run in your life, similarly, we should build our tolerance to these challenging tasks, bit by bit) * Going in with no coping tools (Coping tools help you stay in the moment and aid in regulating your nervous system) * Not being consistent with your efforts. Pick something small but keep on working in the direction of conquering your anxiety, and make it a habit.  📺Watch a video on the exposure Hierarchy [https://youtu.be/n2rKVj75P3M?si=YHk9t8nTEMFqQ2-F] Here is an example of what exposure hierarchy looks like.   Source: Stork, M. B. (n.d.). Exposure therapy for social anxiety: A practical guide to lasting change  Task for members * Pick something you currently experience anxiety around and wish to conquer and create an exposure hierarchy for it  based on the information shared both in the video and the image above. Share with us your steps and tell us what step can you take this week towards conquering your fear.  Task for listeners * Share one resource on exposure therapy from a reputable source. Please make sure its total reading time or if its a video, its under 5 minutes.  * Respond to one member on this thread with encouragement and support.  Further Reading Navigating the Comfort, Discomfort, and Panic Zones: A Guide to Growth [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day15NavigatingtheComfortDiscomfortandPanicZonesAGuidetoGrowth_319488/] ❗Disclaimer! Check with your therapist or other health care provider to see if exposure therapy is the right choice for you.  📌I am looking for users who have done some work on managing their anxiety and are open to sharing what worked for them with us. This will be included in our learning from others post. Please reach out in PMs if you would like to contribute to that post.  ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: The role of Diet and Exercise
by Hope
Last post
Friday
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. This is week 4 of our Conquering Anxiety series. This week we are talking about two underutilized tools when it comes to managing anxiety and these are diet and exercise.  Let's assume you own a car. You do not put the right fuel in the car, then you go long periods without even starting the car, when you do take the car out, you go out in rough terrains with the wrong fuel and the car that has forgotten how it works. Would you be surprised it's not functioning as intended? I don’t think so.  Human beings are so much more complex than a car, but logic dictates that us not having the right diet (physical and digital) and not exercising our bodies will make it harder for us to function well. But we often neglect the role these factors play in our struggles with mental health. Make no mistake, you can have a perfect diet, exercise, and live out in the woods and still be anxious or depressed but some people benefit greatly from fixing these foundations so this topic is worth being talked about.  Diet The food we consume When it comes to the topic of diet about food, we will not go into the nitty gritty of which diet is superior and which one should be avoided at all costs. These choices are rarely that simple. However usually when people report that they are feeling better on a certain diet, there is an overlapping factor that most popular healing diets focus on whole foods, eating home-cooked meals, and being more involved in the process of making your food. The quality of the food you consume can impact your mental health just as it impacts your physical health.  Here is what to keep in mind when it comes to choosing your diet * Include foods that your body likes (whatever you can digest with ease, works well for your body) * Avoid regular consumption of foods that make you feel lethargic or uneasy (this could be cake for some and broccoli for others) * Plan, don’t wait for last-minute meal cooking. Who has the energy? Try meal preps and figure out backup options. Stick to realistic things based on your energy levels.  * See this is a lifestyle change, unless medically necessary, you can still enjoy the things that don’t work for you in moderation, as part of a balanced diet. * Consider reducing caffeine consumption if you have noticed it to worsen your anxiety. You may consider the same with your sugar and alcohol intake.  Your digital diet! Let's not forget how easy it is to overindulge in content that makes us feel terrible. Social media can be quite the mixed bag, you can start your scrolling in a good mood and put down the phone 20 minutes later with a new worry.  Important points to consider * The content you consume is part of your overall diet. It greatly impacts your mood.  * Most of the content out there is biased and heavily filtered. You are not getting the straight facts Most of us know we should reduce the time we spent on the web on things that are not directly related to our jobs/educaton or other such needs. But how do we do it? Actions you can take now to get back in control of your digital diet * Do not pick up your phone first thing in the morning. Get an alarm clock if you must. Spend the first 30 minutes of your day doing anything else other than being on a device. Bonus points if you can do something like a short walk, make your breakfast etc. This is setting the mood for the day.  * Maintain healthy boundaries with your phone. Reflect on the times when your phone is not a necessity. Examples of such situations: * You are going for a walk with someone else who is carrying a phone * You will be working on your homework for the next 1 hour that requires no phone use * You are eating lunch * In such situations, before you start this task/activity, put your phone in a drawer or a cupboard away from the place of activity. Do not take it out until you genuinely need it for something of value.  * Consider a nondevice activity 30-60 minutes before bed. You can read a physical book, you can meditate, you can color, you can complain about not having your phone, or whatever helps you get the habit started!  * Uninstall apps that do not benefit you at all. Replace the time you spend on them with something else that is beneficial and enjoyable for you.  Exercise Exercise helps to regulate your mood, it is a form of distraction, a way to exert your energy into something productive.  Physical exercise Here are some factors to consider when using exercise for managing anxiety or general stress levels * Consistency is important but little is better than nothing.  * Start where you are and with what is doable. For some this means walking for 10 minutes, for others it means taking the stairs * Include micro movements/exercise snacks into your routine. Do a 100 steps every 3 hours, or park your car a block away. Create opportunities for movement.  * For stress management and anxiety levels, it may not be ideal to do exercises that stress you out. Avoid picking up exercises that you dread. Don’t like going to the gym? Take some short walks instead.  Mental Exercise Sounds like a weird concept at first in relation to anxiety management but the reality is, unknowingly we have trained our minds to think the worst, indulge in our worries so it makes sense to give ourselves opportunities to think a bit differently.  Some mental exercises to consider * Gratitude journal (You can start your day by writing down 1-3 things you are grateful for, bonus points if you do it first thing in the morning) * Challenging cognitive distortions (At the end of the day, think of any distressing repetitive thought and challenge it, what are the facts supporting it, what are the odds, what evidence is available against it, what is a more balanced way of thinking about the situation) * Leaves on the stream meditation or other types of meditations that allows you to detach from your thoughts and view them as neutral * At the end of the day, write down one thing you did well today.  In summary, we want to be mindful or our food and digital diet and we want to add regular physical and mental exercises. Here is an example of how one person can include these 4 things in a day  * Start the day by saying out loud what you are grateful for (time taken 30 seconds) - Mental exercise * Go for a short walk after your breakfast/lunch/dinner (Time taken 15 minutes) - Physical exercise * Get yourself a veggie tray and a rotisserie chicken after your grocery shopping trip instead of a take out lunch (No additional time taken) - Food Diet * Ditch your phone 15 minutes before bedtime for starters (Time saved, 15 minutes) - Digital Diet 🔦Your task Draft a realistic plan that includes at least 1 task/activity you will do that covers all 4 types (Food and Digital Diet, Physical and Mental Exercise). You have been provided with an example above.  Please follow through with your plan for a minimum of 7 days. You will be asked about your experience with it in the series evaluation form at the end of the series.  Now remember change can be uncomfortable and frustrating. It sucks to have your phone in a drawer when you would much rather distract yourself with it, maybe you don’t want to uninstall that one app that is reducing your joy but you are capable of doing hard things and the interesting thing about doing so is that it gets so much better, the more you exercise control.  Further Reading 7 Neuroplasticity Exercises for Anxiety [https://acognitiveconnection.com/neuroplasticity-exercises-for-anxiety/] Have you heard of exercise snacks? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/motivation/ExerciseMotivation_2522/Haveyouheardofexercisesnacks_322309/] What We Eat: Food and Diet Choices (or how to enjoy breakfast salad) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/GlensNookCommunity_547/WhatWeEatFoodandDietChoicesorhowtoenjoybreakfastsalad_264292/] Limiting our screen time! Prevention is better than recovery [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/HopesCorner_2162/LimitingourscreentimePreventionisbetterthanrecovery_313611/] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: Coping Skills
by Hope
Last post
Friday
...See more Hi everyone! Thank you for following our Conquering Anxiety Series. We are in week 3! Last week we covered the cycle of anxiety. Please review the post here if you have not yet. The way this series is planned, it is important to follow the posts in the right order to benefit from the series. So if you stumble upon a random post, I recommend going back to the master and catching up in the right order.  In the last post, we talked about the cycle of anxiety! How the choices we make can weaken or strengthen the cycle. But the reality is, just knowing that we are doing the right thing does not make it any easy. It is still so hard to stand up to anxiety. This is why coping skills exist! These are ways you can make your anxiety manageable, and activate your parasympathetic nervous system. They should not be used with the intent to run away from anxiety as that is only going to strengthen the cycle of anxiety. Instead, think of them as your support system while you tackle your fears.  Here are some effective and simple coping strategies Grounding Techniques The 5-4-3-2-1 Method This is one of the most used methods where you ground yourself. Here is how it works: Look around you and identify 🔎 5 things you can see around you (clock,laptop, phone etc) 📲 4 things you can touch around you or are currently touching  (your phone, floor etc) 📢 3 things you are currently hearing (fan, AC, birds chirping, traffic etc) 🌼2 things you are smelling (coffee, your perfume etc) ✨1 emotion you are feeling (Happy, sad, anxious) It is a good way to take your mind off your intense feeling of anxiety and helps you focus on what is in front of you.  Diaphragmatic Breathing Also known as belly breathing or abdominal breathing. The best way to understand how to do it is through watching a video such as the one linked below.  📺Watch a video on this here [https://youtu.be/t4aupp_YO9c?si=ZJXI45CrhJd9G9xq&t=128] If you find this challenging to do while sitting up, try it while lying down and it is a lot easier to do! Once you get used to it, it becomes easier to do it sitting up. This technique can help relax you during times of distress but you should not wait for anxiety to kick in and instead make it a point to practice this for a couple of minutes day and night and make it a part of your routine.  The 4-7-8 Method These numbers may be easier to remember and use compared to the first numbers technique as this is relatively simpler. We are again focusing on our breathing like the last method, however, it's fine if you can’t do it through your belly just yet!  Here is how you do this * Let go of any air you are holding (empty your lungs of air) * Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds * Hold up to 7 seconds * Exhale through your mouth, through the lips, and make a whoosh sound (whoosh sound is optional, it's okay if you can’t) * Do it for 4 cycles! Remember that this is what we want to work our way up to, it's fine if you can’t hold for 7 seconds yet or exhale in a controlled way, with practice this becomes easy, just do what you can! The second thing to note is that when we get anxious air feels scarce, and some people don’t want to take deep breaths, in that case, you may not like the Diaphragmatic Breathing in times of heightened anxiety but this 4-7-8 method can work as you don’t have to take deep breaths, just follow the second's rule, focus on that instead of how deep the breath is or where it is going.  Now you have these three techniques, make it a point to practice them again and again so that they become second nature to you and when you do feel the anxiety rising, you don’t have to try and remember what the tools were. Some individuals may prefer one or the other and that's okay, find what works for you! Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Technique Leaves on a stream We have learned how to ground ourselves and reduce the intensity of the anxiety we are dealing with. However to be able to do that we need to understand that thoughts are just thoughts, just because you think something does not mean it's true. You can view your thoughts without passing judgment or engaging with them.  To practice this skill, there is a meditation called ‘Leaves on the Stream’ 📺Watch the Video here [https://youtu.be/Ml-yuYraZkA?si=flVd2HS1dKoKF9oz] ❗Tasks for you * Go through all three of the grounding exercises and complete them.  * Completes the leaves on the stream meditation Share with us how these exercises made you feel and one way you can incorporate at least one of these into your daily routine Further Reading * Diaphragmatic Breathing [https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/9445-diaphragmatic-breathing] * 7 deep breathing exercises to help you calm anxiety [https://www.calm.com/blog/breathing-exercises-for-anxiety] * How to use 4-7-8 breathing for anxiety [https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/324417#summary] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: Cycle of Anxiety
by Hope
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Friday
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are doing well. Last week we talked about what anxiety is and how it can impact one’s life. You can participate in the first post here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/Resources_412/ConqueringAnxietyIntroductiontoAnxietyanditsimpactonlife_327723]This week we will dive into the cycle of Anxiety! We often talk about anxiety but I have not seen the cycle being talked about that often it is an important pattern to understand to improve your anxiety.  Here is the anxiety cycle visualized The cycle of anxiety, as illustrated in the graphic from The OCD & Anxiety Center [https://anxietycoach.mayoclinic.org/anxiety/anxiety-ocd-cycle-module/] Here is how it looks in action: * Public speaking: The speaker fears judgment, avoids presentation (temporary relief), but misses the chance to gain experience and the anxiety persists. The next time the same opportunity is presented, the fear is stronger.  * Driving: A person fears driving in busy places and avoids them initially but over time the idea of driving on busy roads feels completely unacceptable. What started as hesitance, becomes a deep-rooted fear.  Please take two minutes to watch this video on the anxiety cycle 📺Click Here to Watch the Video [https://youtu.be/D46Y-LDbFWY?si=-70GJA-zjv-Q2yej] So are we doomed then?  No, the interesting thing about the anxiety cycle is, that just as you can feed and strengthen your anxiety, you can also do the opposite. Let's look at the already given above examples where we learned that if we avoid something we are scared of, we strengthen the feelings of anxiety associated with it. So if we wish to weaken the intensity of these feelings, we have to do the opposite! We have to face what we fear (this will be covered more thoroughly in the coming posts, we are just dipping our toes in the idea of facing our fears at the start of the series) So what do we do when we are faced with anxiety? You do the thing you are scared of. I know it is easier said than done but this is an effective method.  For example, if you are a new driver who is scared to park in busy areas, you do exactly that! But we don’t go into these situations without our handy grounding tools to help us get through it! These will be covered in the posts to come.  For this post, we are simply learning about the cycle of anxiety and reflecting on how we have strengthened and weakened it in our lives.  Questions for reflection It is preferred that you complete the series on a member account but to accommodate anyone who wishes to use a listener account, I have divided the questions into Member and Listener categories.  (Members Only) Please do not answer these on a listener account * Reflect on an area of life where you have struggled with anxiety think about the cycle of anxiety that has existed surrounding that topic and share with us what that cycle looked like for you.  * Think of something you were once anxious about doing but now you either feel reduced anxiety surrounding it or do not feel anxious at all. Do you think you knowingly or unnowlingly broke the cycle? (Listeners Only) * Think of something that can be generally anxiety-provoking and give us two examples, where one path leads to more anxiety and another weakens the cycle.  Further Reading  * Understanding the cycle of anxiety [https://theocdandanxietycenter.com/understanding-the-cycle-of-anxiety/] * Free Anxiety Course [https://youtu.be/Kucxlrh74sg?si=FpK7CLdfqlhB4inv] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: Introduction to Anxiety and its impact on life
by Hope
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...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. It is time for our very first post in the Conquering Anxiety series. This is an introductory post. For most people who deal with anxiety, you likely do not need an introduction therefore we are only briefly talking about this topic.  What is anxiety?  NHS UK defines anxiety is a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, that can be mild or severe. It is normal to feel anxious from time to time such as before an exam. However it is an issue when your anxiety starts to hinder you from living your life. When you do not show up to your exams because you are anxious, when you no longer want to meet people because of how anxious you feel etc.  Why does anxiety exist? Because it is helpful in reasonable situations, it protects us from immediate dangers. Usually it encourages flight or fight state where you either wish to fight the situation or flee to save yourself from the immediate danger. Duke University professor Mark Leary put it, “A deer may be startled by a loud noise and take off through the forest, but as soon as the threat is gone, the deer immediately calms down and starts grazing. And it doesn’t appear to be tied in knots the way that many people are.” The challenge for most of us is that the stressors are usually not immediate and even if they are the solutions are not as simple as the deer’s example. When we start to feel anxious about things that are out of our control or are way in the future, so often that it disturbs our life, then we need to put a stop to it.  When your anxiety stops you from living your life or disturbs your routine where you go out of your way to avoid certain things and do other things to avoid worsening anxiety then it is worth checking with a professional about the possibility of an anxiety disorder.  What areas of life can be impacted by anxiety? We are specifically talking about the kind of anxiety experienced by someone who has an anxiety disorder. You will have heard of many different ways anxiety impacts but lets look at some broad common experiences.  * Physical sensations like stomach aches, fast beating heart, excessive sweating, and feeling hot or cold.  * Experiencing worry, excessive stress, and ruminating over things (rumination is obsessive thinking about an idea, situation, or choice especially when it interferes with normal mental functioning) * In social life, people can withdraw from social situations to avoid heightened anxiety.  * Relationships, if you are often on edge and experiencing anxiety, the disturbance it causes can impact your relationships.  * Work and study, you may do poorly on work and/or study.  Almost everything can be impacted but it can vary from person to person, therefore we have a wide list of anxiety disorders.  What are some common Anxiety disorders? People often talk about anxiety in general but this is an umbrella term and there are quite a few categories of anxiety.  * Generalized Anxiety Disorder (Perhaps the most common one and the one people think about when we say anxiety).  * Panic Disorder (panic attacks being the main reoccurring symptom) * Social Anxiety (Trouble socializing) * Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (Often misrepresented in media, compulsions are one of the main symptoms of the disorder) * Phobia-related (The list is extensive but the underlying factor is the inability to continue with daily life because you are terrified of X or Y) It is important to understand that labels are only as helpful as the help they lead to. To some, it can feel validating to receive a label and for others it may be devastating. It is best to leave the assignment of such labels upto a qualified professional. If you feel like you have an anxiety disorder, please reach out to a trained professional.  This series will tackle anxiety in general, the principles can help people across any anxiety disorder as anxiety is the main factor in all of these disorders, just the specific focus of it tends to differ.  Questions for you. Please note you note you need to answer these questions to be eligible for the certificate at the end of the series.  * When did first notice anxiety disrupting your day to day life? * If you could do one thing without feeling anxious, what would you pick? The above questions require talking about personal experiences which is not possible on a listener account, listeners, you can instead tell us about your key takeaways from this post. Further Reading What is anxiety? [https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/generalised-anxiety-disorder/overview/] The Evolution of Anxiety: Why We Worry and What to Do About It [https://jamesclear.com/evolution-of-anxiety] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Online one one counseling
by BradleyK
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October 30th
...See more It's been nearly three months since my breakdown. I have made a lot of progress, but I think it's now time for private counseling. What are your opinions of this sites private online counseling?
New Series is here! Conquering Anxiety
by Hope
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October 17th
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you have been doing well. It is time to launch our third series! We have covered the following topics already! * Learning about cognitive distortions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/HopesCorner_2162/Learningaboutcognitivedistortions_313974/] * Building Self-esteem Series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/BuildingSelfesteemSeriesEndingOnMarch312024_321259/] I have been searching for what to introduce next and I have come across many posts and group conversations where people have again and again talked about the challenges they experience because of their unmanaged anxiety. That is why our topic for this series is ‘Conquering Anxiety’. Many report feeling significantly better after applying the techniques we will cover in this series. Think of this series as the ultimate walkthrough for managing anxiety. We will talk about methods that have worked for people and I hope we can also hear some success stories. So if you feel weighed down by your anxiety, not sure how to effectively reduce its intensity, this is a series I highly recommend. This is hard work, this is why I encourage you to partake in this series so we can all go through this path together! Things are less scary when we are in it together.  The methods, and techniques presented in this series are proactive ways of dealing with anxiety and taking power away from it. That is why I have named it 'conquering anxiety' as opposed to managing anxiety (which was my initial pick). You can take back the power and this series will show you the way but only you can do the work!  Anyone who completes the series with us will get a certificate to show for it! Here is how you qualify * Respond to all posts of the series before the series's announced end. This will be either end of June or early July. It will be announced close to the end of the series in June.  * Complete all exercises relevant to the series. You will need to keep track of all the exercises you did on a Google Doc/word document so you can later submit it in a form to avail of the badge.  You can of course take part in the posts as per your liking, skip a few or skip exercises but the above guidelines apply if you wish to avail of the certificate attached to the series.  What can you expect from the series? The series will cover the following topics, there maybe some changes to the topics included as per the need of the participants like we introduced an additional post (Facing fear of failure) in our building self esteem series.  * Learning by doing: Think of this series as a workshop. There will be little benefit to reading these posts if you are not applying them.  * Exposure therapy: There are many ways people approach conquering anxiety but this series is focused one of the most effective methods out there which is exposure therapy! Will it be hard? Yes, can you do hard things? Absolutely! I understand if you are not ready to explore that just yet but you should know, this will be the central focus of the series.  * Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): We will cover an ACT method that will helps one detach from their thoughts.  * Grounding Techniques: Short, to the point memorable techniques to help you stay in the moment and activate the parasympathetic nervous system * Focusing on what matters: We will not spend too much time on figuring out the whys and whens and hows of anxiety, we are focused on reducing it even if we don’t know why we are anxious.  * Learning from others: We will hear the stories of people who have successfully reduced their anxiety. Please reach out to contribute to the post if you wish to be featured.  * Master resource in the making: I hope that when this series is finished, it includes all applicable knowledge of managing anxiety available on cups and some from other sources in one space that can be linked to anyone who wishes to conquer their anxiety.  Please use your member account to participate in the series. If you do not have one or really want to use Listener account, you will bear the responsibility of ensuring you do not overshare on a listener account. I expect the series to wrap up before end of June with an average of one post per week and a total of less than 10 posts.  If you have resources that you have found effective in helping people with anxiety, send them to me via PMs.  ❗Disclaimer! While the content to be covered in this series will be based on research and people's lived experiences in figuring out their anxiety, If the content of the series clashes with the directions of your therapist or other such healthcare providers, please follow their approach. View this as a general resource, not an alternative to professional counselling.  Sign up for the taglist here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] You can view all posts as they get added here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety Series! It is a wrap
by Hope
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July 5th
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. Thank you for following our Conquering Anxiety Series. The goal of this series was to provide you with actionable steps you can take to improve your anxiety greatly. I hope the topics covered have benefited you.  The reality is that many different topics can be covered about managing anxiety from more coping skills to other therapy methods. Still, the goal of this series has been only to provide information that works well for many people and keep the posts limited to whatever can be applied.  Here is a summary of what we covered in this series * Brief Introduction to anxiety and how it impacts life * Cycle of Anxiety (How avoidance can strengthen anxiety and facing your fears weakens it) * Coping Skills (Leaves on the stream ACT meditation, 5-4-3-2-1 ground technique, and Diaphremic breathing techniques) * Diet and exercise’s role in anxiety management * Exposure therapy (what it is and how it looks like in action) * Panic attacks and how to tackle them * Learning from others who have undertaken the journey What should you do now? Apply what we have learned! This series was never about theoretical learning, every week we took small steps together toward conquering our anxiety. This is just the start! Keep on taking steps on your exposure hierarchy ladder and remember how it would feel to be able to do things you are scared of! A lot is at stake here to live freely and fulfill your potential.  The deadline for completing all posts (this includes all the activities given in the posts based on your account type) is July 5, 2024 Once you have completed everything, remember to submit this form to avail your certificate.  📌Open Series Completion Form Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1c5HmJF56HmooNhksu9p_QMzeqztMI2egBB8HreaRhvQ5uA/viewform] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] Deadline extended on June 28, from June 30 to July 5, 2024. 
Social Anxiety Disorder
by NVTita88
Last post
May 31st
...See more The fear of interaction with other people that brings on self-consciousness, feelings of being negatively judged and evaluated, and, as a result, leads to avoidance are the recognized as Social Anxiety. It is the fear of being judged and evaluated negatively by other people, leading to feelings of inadequacy, inferiority, embarrassment, humiliation, and depression. If a person usually becomes (irrationally) anxious in social situations, but seems better when they are alone, then "social anxiety" may be the problem. According to the epidemiological studies, in the USA, have recently pegged social anxiety disorder as the third largest psychological disorder in the country, after depression and alcoholism. It is estimated that about 7% of the population suffers from some form of social anxiety at the present time. The lifetime prevalence rate for developing social anxiety disorder is 13-14%.

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Anxiety

Coping with Anxiety Growth Path by Cheery Mango

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