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by MistyMagic
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words “ Please add me. ” To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Reply button in this post and write the exact words, “ Please remove me. ”
Support discussions
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 August 23rd
...See more THREAD CLOSED Thanks everyone for submitting your ideas about discussion topics!  Hello everyone, we hope you’re all doing okay. 💙 Today, we would like to give you an update on discussions taking place in the 50+ and mindfulness community. At the moment we are in the process of working on discussion templates and also creating new ones for discussions in future. Soulsings [http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings], adventurousBranch3786 [http://www.7cups.com/@adventurousBranch8786]and me, amiablePeace77 [http://www.7cups.com/amiablePeace77]  want to offer you the best options possible and for this we need your help. Please submit possible discussion topics in this thread, example Dealing with feelings of loneliness. Kindly let us know as well what discussion times fit you best. Kindly also give us feedback on the how the discussions have been going and what you would like to see changed. We kindly ask you to use constructive criticism and avoid being critical and we can work on it.  We appreciate your help 🙏 www.7cups.com/@soulsings [http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings]amiablePeace77 [http://amiablepeace77]adventurousBranch3786 [http://www.7cups.com/@adventurousBranch8786]
Celebrating 5th Cupversary adventurousBranch3786
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 24th
...See more Hello everyone!  Please join me in celebrating 5 years of @adventurousBranch3786 wonderful presence on 7 Cups!  In the past, adventurousBranch has supported everyone in their role as room supporter with incredible kindness and professionalism.   We are grateful to have you in the community and appreciate you being a great room supporter and teammate.  Happy 5th cupversary @adventurousBranch3786.  We hope there will be many more to come! <3 Please join this celebration and share some love with branch! 
Independence Day
by adventurousBranch3786
Last post
 October 12th
...See more Happy Independence Day to those who celebrate in the United States! What can we do as individuals to become more independent ourselves? Examples: Setting boundaries and learning what we have control over.
Casino
by faithfulSpring5057
Last post
 August 8th
...See more A Gaming room/casino is now in my area that is my new hobby.
Celebrating 5th Cupversary adventurousBranch3786
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 24th
...See more Hello everyone!  Please join me in celebrating 5 years of @adventurousBranch3786 wonderful presence on 7 Cups!  In the past, adventurousBranch has supported everyone in their role as room supporter with incredible kindness and professionalism.   We are grateful to have you in the community and appreciate you being a great room supporter and teammate.  Happy 5th cupversary @adventurousBranch3786.  We hope there will be many more to come! <3 Please join this celebration and share some love with branch! 
New chatroom moderator MindfulJourney22
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 24th
...See more Time to celebrate! 😊 I am very happy to announce that MindfulJourney22 has joined the 50+ team as a chatroom moderator. Please join me in congratulating and welcoming them to the team! So, let’s give them a round of applause! 👏
Celebrating SunShineAlwaysGrateful's 7th Cupversary
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 10th
...See more Image by S. Nadler on Unsplash Hello everyone! 😊 Please join me in celebrating 7 years of @SunShineAlwaysGrateful amazing presence on 7 Cups! SunShine stands up to their name by always bringing cheering up everyone with their amazing posts and compassionate attitude. 💙 We appreciate you for being a wonderful Community Mentor! You show an amazing commitment. We are truly thankful to have you in the community.  Thank you for all the support you offered in these 7 years. Happy 7 cupversary SunShine!   We hope there will be many more to come! <3 Please join this celebration and share some love with @SunShineAlwaysGrateful
Happy Canada Day!
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 July 2nd
...See more Image by H. Rivera on Unsplash Happy Canada Day to everyone who celebrates it!  On the first of July of ever year, Canadians celebrate Canada Day, which marks the day Canada became a sovereignty of Great Britain in 1867. Prior to 1983, however, Canada Day was called Dominion Day. Everyone, can you name one fun fact about Canada? 😊 Kindly click here and fill out this short form to add or remove your names from the taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/50plus/Checkin_1704/50OverTaglist_289721/] UPDATED TAGLIST 6/17/2024 1st part  @00WHY00 @1Marg1 @24963534 @24Help1 @4Rainbow42 @5catsandme @8Khaleesi8 @allen99 @ArinDee @Actuallynobody017 @adaptableOcean4193 @adventurousBranch3786 @adventurousSugar1991 @affableowl5126 @affectionateCat9553 @affectionatePear7889 @agreeablestrawberries1285 @ahaller @ahds2k @ahel58 @akbj @AKmarshmallow @Aksabode @alan254 @alanapiana1970 @alleywood13 @amanda @ambitiousNectarine1482 @Amelia763 @Amelia2324 @amiablePeace77 @amiableTortoise2797 @AmiYumi @amusingcranberry1537 @AmusingJet302 @anderly @andy @Angelface50 @AnnieIsMe @aquaCake3636 @ARIBA5 @Artemis13579 @AshcloudMac @Aspace4u @Awesomesummer1628 @ayeyaeyaaaaaaaa @azureblueheron @azuladragon34 @Baby1120 @ballooningSloth @BaltimoreSpring @bamafan96 @Barltik2065 @Beanno @beautifulsoul 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Cheri’s Connection Corner - Slow Down & Reflect on JOY from our Past 🙌🙌🙌🙌
by SunShineAlwaysGrateful
Last post
 June 24th
...See more Happy weekend to all in the 50+ Community!! 🙌🙌🙌💕💕💕💕 I hope this weekend finds you well. Sometimes in life it gets hectic and a weekend flies by too quickly! Let’s slow down and reflect on moments of JOY!  Through the years sometimes we don’t appreciate how beautiful our memories are until we look back and reflect on the moments that brought you JOY. ✨✨✨✨ It could be a tradition in our family as a child or music we loved and danced to or items that we used growing up or  a show we watched that brings back memories. We remember the good experiences, our personal history and the people that shaped our lives.  Browse the questions and answer any that you prefer to answer any and all responses welcomed.  ✨What are your favorite memories of childhood that make you smile?  ✨What items remind you of the past that may no longer be used today or have changed a lot?  ✨What are your favorite music or shows from long ago? ✨What fashion of hair trends that you remember?  ✨What games did you play as a child?  I am from eastern Canada 🇨🇦 and some of the items listed in the comments may be common for some areas around the world. See comments for memes and quotes that make me smile about life from my past that I can relate to … chime in if you recall it too! 
Men's Mental Health Month: Challenging Stereotypes and Encouraging Support
by MindfulJourney22
Last post
 June 20th
...See more June is  marks Men's Mental Health Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about  the mental health challenges faced by men and promoting  support  & healing for them. However, despite the increasing recognition of Men's mental health issues, there are still pervasive stereotypes and stigmas that hinder many men from seeking the help they needs. Some of the stereotypes  given below-: * Men must be tough and stoic. From a young age, boys are often taught to suppress their emotions and "tough it out." This ingrained belief that expressing vulnerability is a sign of weakness can prevent men from acknowledging and addressing their mental health struggles. The pressure to maintain a facade of strength can lead to isolation and untreated mental health conditions. 2. Seeking help is a sign of weakness. In many cultures, there's a stigma attached to seeking help for mental health issues, especially for men. Admitting to needing support is often perceived as a failure to handle problems independently. This misconception can prevent men from reaching out to friends, family, or mental health professionals for assistance, exacerbating their suffering in silence. 3. Men don't experience mental health problems as often as Other genders. Another prevalent myth is that men are less susceptible to mental health issues than others. However, research indicates that men are just as likely to experience conditions like depression, anxiety, and PTSD. The difference lies in how men are socialized to cope with these issues – often through avoidance rather than seeking help. 4. Real Man Doesnt talk about feelings. There's a harmful notion that discussing emotions is unmanly or emasculating. Men may fear being perceived as weak or vulnerable if they open up about their feelings, leading them to bottle up their emotions instead. This lack of emotional expression can have detrimental effects on mental well-being and interpersonal relationships. Challenging stereotypes about men's mental health requires a multi-faceted approach that involves individuals, communities, and society as a whole. Here are some strategies to challenge these harmful beliefs and promote a culture of support and understanding: * Educate and Raise Awareness: Providing education about men's mental health issues and the impact of stereotypes is essential for breaking down misconceptions. Through workshops, seminars, and educational campaigns, we can increase awareness and foster empathy and understanding. * Encourage Open Dialogue: Creating safe spaces for men to openly discuss their feelings and experiences is crucial. Initiating conversations about mental health in casual settings, such as workplaces, schools, and social gatherings, helps normalize the discussion and reduce stigma. * Challenge Gender Norms: Addressing rigid gender norms that dictate how men "should" behave is key to challenging stereotypes. Encouraging boys and men to express a full range of emotions and rejecting the notion that vulnerability is a sign of weakness promotes healthier attitudes towards mental health. * Lead by Example: Individuals who openly prioritize their mental health and seek support set a powerful example for others. Sharing personal stories of overcoming challenges and seeking help can inspire others to do the same and reduce feelings of shame or embarrassment. * Promote Diverse Representations: Highlighting diverse representations of masculinity in media, literature, and popular culture helps counteract narrow stereotypes. By showcasing men of all backgrounds and experiences who prioritize their mental health, we can challenge harmful narratives and inspire positive change. * Foster Supportive Environments: Creating environments where men feel safe, supported, and valued encourages them to prioritize their mental health. This includes fostering supportive friendships, promoting work-life balance, and advocating for mental health policies in workplaces and communities. By implementing these strategies and collectively challenging stereotypes about men's mental health, we can create a more inclusive and supportive society where all individuals feel empowered to prioritize their well-being.   ------------------------- Here are few questions below feel free to answer!  Q. What strategies or coping mechanisms have you found helpful in navigating societal expectations around masculinity and mental health? Sharing your experiences can offer valuable insights and support to others facing similar challenges. Q.Have you encountered any barriers or obstacles when seeking support for your mental health? How did you overcome these challenges, and what advice would you offer to other men in similar situations? Your experiences may provide valuable guidance and encouragement to those who are hesitant to seek help. Feel free to tag anyone who might be interested in this post!
Cheri’s Connection Corner - Pride Month 💜💙🩵💚💛🧡❤️🩷🤍🩶
by SunShineAlwaysGrateful
Last post
 June 3rd
...See more Hello 50+ Cupsers LGBTQ+ & Allies unite in a celebration about PRIDE month💜💙🩵💚💛🧡❤️🩷🩶🤍 Pride month is all about Happiness and Togetherness, welcoming everyone regardless of who they love or how they identify.  It’s time when people come together to celebrate being themselves, spreading love and acceptance. Pride makes sure everyone feels valued and respected.  Answer any question(s) and share positive vibes for Pride month.  Are you in the LGBTQ+ Community or an Ally? How does being over 50 impact your perspective on Pride month and LGBTQ+ rights?  What role do older individuals play in supporting and advocating for LGBTQ+ equality during Pride month?  How can Pride month celebrations be made more inclusive and welcoming for people over 50 within the LGBTQ+ community?  What advice would you give to younger generations about navigating both aging and embracing their LGBTQ+ identity? 
Happy Mother's Day
by bryanmager
Last post
 May 12th
...See more Happy Mother's Day
New Forum Supporter pamharley003
by amiablePeace77
Last post
 April 3rd
...See more I am very happy to announce that pamharley003  has joined the 50+  team as a forum supporter. Please join me in congratulating and welcoming them to the  team! So, let’s give them a round of applause! 👏 👏 👏
May The Force Be With You May 4Th
by SunShineAlwaysGrateful
Last post
 January 27th
...See more May 4, or, "May the 4th Be With You," marks a celebration of all things Star Wars. As most fans know, the fourth day in May became Star Wars Day because of the turn of phrase, "May the force be with you," used by Jedi masters in the movies. Are you a Star Wars fan? What movie or series are your favourites? Do you celebrate this day by dressing up?

Welcome, friends, to the 50 & Over Community Online Community at 7 Cups of Tea. This is a place where anyone dealing with 50plus issues can meet with others and share ideas and community together. The name of our community is “50plus” but the community is open to all people, adults and teens (teens in forums), that are interested in discussion topics that people midway through life face and beyond.

We are here for serious and lighthearted discussion, for dealing with challenges and having fun. You are not alone; we are all here with you 💙

Main Forums: Discussions Schedule and Topics , New Member Welcome ----   Check In ----   Games, Quizzes and Fun  ----  Wellness and Health   Challenges We Face   ----  Enjoying Life Hobbies, what gives us joy, creativity, ideas, poetry, art, music  ----   Team Tools and Announcements   ----   Welcome, friends, to the 50 & Over Community Online Community at 7 Cups of Tea.

Please let us know what works for you and other ideas you have that will make 50plus a supportive place for you.

Please respect others opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. If something occurs that seems objectionable, message me and send link soulsings  

For more detailed information about how to behave in the forums and in 7 Cups in general:(these are copy and paste until the Dev Team fixes links permissions)

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Community Guidelines

Here are the guidelines for the 50plus Sub Community at 7cups to ensure a safe and supportive environment for everyone.  Here are Community Guidelines

Fifty Plus Forum Guidelines 

https://www.7cups.com/forum/50plus/QAsDiscussionsResources_1770/50communityforumguidelines_305799/?post=3280924


50plus is a place where anyone dealing with 50plus issues at this time of life can meet with others and share ideas and community together. We are here for serious and light hearted discussion, for dealing with challenges and having fun. You are not alone, we are all here with you.

Please let us know what works for you and other ideas you have that will make 50plus a supportive place for you.

Please respect others opinions, even if we strongly disagree. There is no right or wrong answer here. Please avoid conflict or arguments. If something occurs that seems objectionable, please send a message to with a link so they can easily find the spot.   http://www.7cups.com/@soulsings

Please refrain from religious talk that is about the benefits or details of your religion. This includes talking about religious figures in your religion, the consequences of not believing in your religion, the detriment of any other religions, and any other religious talk that may state the exclusive benefits of your religion or may trigger others that have other beliefs.

For more detailed information about how to behave in the forums and in 7 Cups in general:

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