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Saying hello, looking for a friend

forcefulOceann April 10th, 2023

Hello everyone! Have a great monday, im a new mom with a 7 months old, she just recovered covid and got discharged from the hospital. She get fussy all day so night time is when i can have some time for myself, i wanted to make some friends since i literally have none


i wish to have someone likeminded & patient with me as i have bpd and anxiety. Thank you ❤️

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dynamicPenny4940 April 10th, 2023

hello and welcome forceful, we'll be glad to help you whenever you need

CatDude April 10th, 2023

I have EUPD (BPD) and have no friends either.... Except my cat. How to make friends is one of the greatest mysteries of life.

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searchmoon May 12th, 2023

And greatest challenges too 😅🙌🏻

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Impancake June 5th, 2023

@searchmoon

Whew the social challenge.. trying know how someone will react or whens to much that you are telling someone ✧ \ ( > o < ) ノ ✧

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akay06 April 13th, 2023

I’m not sure how to make friends to be honest. I’ve tried mom groups but my anxiety gets the best of me every single time.

perl20 April 14th, 2023

@forcefulOceann You are a stronger mom, I hope your baby is getting better.

MeowgicalCaticorn April 14th, 2023

@forcefulOceann

Hi! Welcome. I'm also a mom and depressed and anxious mine is turning 19 (oh my gosh i cant believe 8 just said that!) But I've been there, by myself. I would love to get to know you and maybe we have something in common.

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mstickley88 April 14th, 2023

I feel like we have the same energy lol Idk why and I'm sorry if this is weird or something but I felt that I had to say that I think we can relate to eachother! 😆












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purplelady568 April 19th, 2023

@forcefulOceann - wow, Im so glad that your little one has recovered! Welcome home to her!

I know what it is like to have a very sick baby and struggle with your own mental health. I have been there, and walked through some dark days during that time. Please reach out to me or another listener if you'd like to chat 1-1 about what you are thinking and feeling. Take care, and rest when you can!!!

-Purple

Heart4art April 20th, 2023

I’m so glad you are reaching out! I remember how lonely it can be being a new Mom! We are all here for you!

reliableSky3269 April 23rd, 2023

Hi forcefulOceann

congrats on becoming a mommy!! Motherhood is the hardest, tiring, frustrating yet most rewarding job there is! I’m a mom of 4, though my kids are ages 8-15. I had a very hard time transitioning to motherhood. I had Post Partum Depression before it was acceptable to talk about. That was such a dark time. But I am so thankful to say I made it through!


My husband has BPD so I am familiar :) my husband teases me that I have “BPD type 3” because I also have some symptoms of hypomania.


im here if you want to chat!

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purplelady568 May 8th, 2023

@reliableSky3269 thank you for sharing a small part of your story. I am sooo glad you made it through to the other side of PPD. Many moms don't get the help and support they need at such a crucial time in their lives. Look at you, surviving and encouraging others! Great job!

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reliableSky3269 May 12th, 2023

Ty @purplelady568 💗

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May 10th, 2023

Hi


Hope u r doing well.


We can connect in the evening hrs at 10pm

If that's fine with u

reliableSky3269 May 12th, 2023

@forcefulOceann how are you doing?