Saying hello, looking for a friend
Hello everyone! Have a great monday, im a new mom with a 7 months old, she just recovered covid and got discharged from the hospital. She get fussy all day so night time is when i can have some time for myself, i wanted to make some friends since i literally have none
i wish to have someone likeminded & patient with me as i have bpd and anxiety. Thank you ❤️
hello and welcome forceful, we'll be glad to help you whenever you need
I have EUPD (BPD) and have no friends either.... Except my cat. How to make friends is one of the greatest mysteries of life.
And greatest challenges too 😅🙌🏻
@searchmoon
Whew the social challenge.. trying know how someone will react or whens to much that you are telling someone ✧ \ ( > o < ) ノ ✧
I’m not sure how to make friends to be honest. I’ve tried mom groups but my anxiety gets the best of me every single time.
@forcefulOceann You are a stronger mom, I hope your baby is getting better.
@forcefulOceann
Hi! Welcome. I'm also a mom and depressed and anxious mine is turning 19 (oh my gosh i cant believe 8 just said that!) But I've been there, by myself. I would love to get to know you and maybe we have something in common.
I feel like we have the same energy lol Idk why and I'm sorry if this is weird or something but I felt that I had to say that I think we can relate to eachother! 😆
@forcefulOceann - wow, Im so glad that your little one has recovered! Welcome home to her!
I know what it is like to have a very sick baby and struggle with your own mental health. I have been there, and walked through some dark days during that time. Please reach out to me or another listener if you'd like to chat 1-1 about what you are thinking and feeling. Take care, and rest when you can!!!
-Purple
I’m so glad you are reaching out! I remember how lonely it can be being a new Mom! We are all here for you!
Hi forcefulOceann
congrats on becoming a mommy!! Motherhood is the hardest, tiring, frustrating yet most rewarding job there is! I’m a mom of 4, though my kids are ages 8-15. I had a very hard time transitioning to motherhood. I had Post Partum Depression before it was acceptable to talk about. That was such a dark time. But I am so thankful to say I made it through!
My husband has BPD so I am familiar :) my husband teases me that I have “BPD type 3” because I also have some symptoms of hypomania.
im here if you want to chat!
@reliableSky3269 thank you for sharing a small part of your story. I am sooo glad you made it through to the other side of PPD. Many moms don't get the help and support they need at such a crucial time in their lives. Look at you, surviving and encouraging others! Great job!
Ty @purplelady568 💗
Hi
Hope u r doing well.
We can connect in the evening hrs at 10pm
If that's fine with u
@forcefulOceann how are you doing?