Do you cry
I feel like crying. I want a shoulder to cry on.I am 48. Shame..I should be a support , not a burden
Im 43 and for some reason my tears no longer comes out. I just feel numb, like i no longer cares about anything including myself. Sigh*
I am 43 also, I find myself crying when I feel victimized, or powerless to do anything or when I feel used, and controled or manipulated against my desires and also when I specifically asked for respect or for my boundaries not to be crossed. It is certainly a reality but at times, this type of thinking is also based on perception. I have come to the realization that it is how I perceive a situation to be that will really impact me. This is a space that other people should not be able to touch; they really cannot or should not be able to cross that line. They can cross that line in other ways, physically, but I have to come to the realization that people who do this are not thinking about others; even if it is done intentionally and maliciously, they are the ones responsible
Sometimes you are busy supporting other people that you have no one to support you.Crying makes you human.Don't be ashamed of being human.You can only fill other's cups when your cup is full.Hope you find someone.
@searchingformi
We have emotions, and it's normal to express and reveal them. Crying is not a burden and there is no age limit. I understand you. It's totally okay to cry. Sometimes it's just an emotional outburst that needs to be expressed. Sometimes it's better for you to adjust your emotions after expressing them. Everyone has their own unique value at any age! Please don't be sad because of others' malice. Please believe that you are not a burden!
I'm here to support you!
@searchingformi You don't just have to be someones support. Everyone needs someone. you just need to find your someone who would support you the same way you would support them. Its okay to cry. hoenstly.
@searchingformi
I understand your pain. I haven't been able to truly cry myself for a long time now. But know that God loves you.
Age doesn't matter.Whether you are young or old it is fine to cry.You are a human and you have emotion.Its not good to hide and repressed your emotion.You are not a burden.Cry it out let it out its fine.You are fine.Its fine to cry.
Never a burden, we’re always here to listen. Hope your day gets better ❤️
@Tierrv , it is my 1st time here and I cry every day. I lost my husband on April 24, 2021 and miss him every day and cry every night that he's gone. I know it's very very hard to lose someone and we would have been married 50 years this year and now he's gone. I don't know what to do but I do need to speak to someone but I don't know how to do it come can you help me Question of the?
@searchingformi you can talk to me if you need.
@searchingformi hello! Trust me you are not a burden, the fact you are a part of this community of people that are helping each other shows your value alone, never mind all of the other positive things you bring to those around you.
Its okay to cry, it doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes we just need to get it all out!
Much love, feel free to contact if you want someone to chat to.
