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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Chiara1204
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Hey there, I’m a 25 year old counselling student and have an open mind and heart towards anyone going through tough situations. I’m *quite literally* here to listen and I hope you can find some comfort in our conversations! Hope you reach out :)
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🌞⭐🌛 Be proud of your place in the cosmos 🌞⭐🌛 Things you should know before sending me a message: - When I accept a chat I always make sure that you have at least 40 minutes of my undevided attention. - If I don't feel comfortable with your topic, or I feel that another listener could help you better, I will redirect you to put out another chat or refer you to the listeners database. Check my profile for the topics that I'm comfortable providing support for :)
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Melissa Bergquist

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Buffalo, NY
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My name is Melissa and I am empathetic and supportive to all those with whom I work. I have a passion for the field of mental health and I find real meaning in this work.
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Claudette Pretorius

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Licensed Professional Counselor, MA Counselling Psychology
Cape Town
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I know how overwhelming it can feel when you're having a tough time. I offer clients a space that is non-judgemental and empathetic whilst navigating these times together.
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Tara Davis

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Psychologist, Doctorate in Counselling Psychology
London
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I have worked successfully with a wide range of difficulties. Nothing is more important than developing a warm, compassionate relationship with someone you can trust
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ToniJayne
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Hi, I'm Toni (she/her/they)   Thank you for reaching out today, count it as a self-care success! (Go you!) ------------------------- If in urgent need of a listener, please click here: ⏩Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=0&find=&sort=availability&category=&ageGroup=&listType=&gender=&religion=&country=&language=] ⏪ ------------------------- I bring compassion, acceptance, empathy, respect & curiosity to every session. Exploration, expression & brainstorming are key elements of my chats and my approach to mental health. Aligned with GMT. When Offline: Please drop me a message, I will respond as soon as possible, this may take some time as I have infrequent activity. More about me: ⋆ Proudly NEURODIVERGENT: AuDHD & Dyslexic. ⋆ 3+ years working in NHS Talking Therapies. ⋆ BSc in Psychology from Cardiff University.  ⋆ Has lived experience with long-term depression, anxiety & panic disorder. ⋆ Has several hidden disabilities and long-term health conditions including: Autism, Fibromyalgia, PCOS, Chronic Migraines, Dyslexia, POTS, IBS, Chronic pain, ADHD, Asthma, Vasovagal syncope, Acne, Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder... ⋆ Hobbies & Interests: Manga/Webcomics, Cats, Skincare, YouTube, Art, Reading, Driving, Gaming, Fantasy, Crafts, Science, Alternative Music & Learning. My roles at 7cups: ✧ Verified Active Listener ✧ Intern Graduate! With Honours ✧ Former Room Supporter (Mindfulness, 50+, Positivity & Gratitude) ✧ Former Safety Patrol Team ✧ Past ON-SPOT Sharing Circle Host (Listener & Member)
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ClosestThingToGod
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The closest thing to God you'll ever talk to.
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Merridith
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I’m here to listen to what ever is happening in your life
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MistyMagic
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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand. I will be able to soon. So stay tuned!  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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Mya000
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Hello there! I'm a 24 years-old female Verified Listener for Adults, a Community Mentor for Women’s Issues Community, a Forum Supporter for the Anxiety Support Community, and a Doorkeeper.   I speak both French and English and focus on providing a safe, supportive space for those who need it. I’m not currently taking new chats, and I don’t handle chats related to sexual issues or grief. I am feminist and I strive to ensure all interactions are respectful and free from discrimination. Thank you for your understanding!   I’m also happy to co-host the Women’s Circle every Saturday at 12 PM EST in the Support Session Room for Adults. You're always welcome to join us there!
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minswagilious
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I will not help you as a listener. I'm going to help you as a friend. Only available on weekends!
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⭐️Proud of the fact that I convinced 7 cups to create the autism spectrum support topic and helped create it ⭐️ I'm a shoulder to lean on and and ear to speak into. I love theater art and creativity :-)
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"We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Sahara. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here. We privileged few, who won the lottery of birth against all odds, how dare we whine at our inevitable return to that prior state from which the vast majority have never stirred? [https://genius.com/8850406/Nightwish-the-greatest-show-on-earth/Spoken-professor-richard-dawkins-we-are-going-to-die-and-that-makes-us-the-lucky-ones-most-people-are-never-going-to-die-because-they-are-never-going-to-be-born-the-potential-people-who-could-have-been-here-in-my-place-but-who-will-in-fact-never-see-the-light-of-day-outnumber-the-sand-grains-of-sahara-certainly-those-unborn-ghosts-include-greater-poets-than-keats-scientists-greater-than-newton-we-know-this-because-the-set-of-possible-people-allowed-by-our-dna-so-massively-exceeds-the-set-of-actu] There is grandeur in this view of life, with its several powers, having been originally breathed into a few forms or into one. And that whilst this planet has gone cycling on according to the fixed law of gravity, from so simple a beginning endless forms most beautiful and most wonderful have been, and are being, evolved." [https://genius.com/8850412/Nightwish-the-greatest-show-on-earth/Spoken-professor-richard-dawkins-there-is-grandeur-in-this-view-of-life-with-its-several-powers-having-been-originally-breathed-into-a-few-forms-or-into-one-and-that-whilst-this-planet-has-gone-cycling-on-according-to-the-fixed-law-of-gravity-from-so-simple-a-beginning-endless-forms-most-beautiful-and-most-wonderful-have-been-and-are-being-evolved] - Richard Dawkins
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Connection,  Compassion,  Community When we connect, we can heal.  I am here to listen, you are not alone, you have a friend.❤️ I am open to taking chats regarding most topics, except for chats about Sexual Health matters. Thank you for understanding. I am a 7 cups internship honors graduate, a forum moderator for the ADHD community, and an Internship mentor 😊 Drop me a message and I will put on some tea!  My time zone is CET  P.S I love cats, nature, reading, music, cooking, travel and art. 😻🌳📚🎵🍕🗽🎨
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Zinodka
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I have always had a passion for supporting others. Being there for someone is more than just "telling people what to do" - it's actively listening, offering alternative perspectives on a situation, empathizing to alleviate isolation/loneliness, validating one's experiences, and giving them a safe space just to "be" Since a very young age, I have realized a career in therapy is my calling, and have thus aligned my education along this track with the ultimate goal in eventually becoming a licensed therapist. This is why I think being a 7 Cups listener is a privilege and an amazing opportunity to do something before then. As a member of this site as well, I also have personal experiences with stressful situations and circumstances, and I aim to use that wisdom to support other members during our session. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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