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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

hopefulDew435
L Connoisseur 7 1107
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Here to help and be there as support or a form of comfort to anyone who needs me to be. Note: Do not send me a message if you intend on flirting or intend to engage any kind of sexual conversation. 
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InternalAcceptance
L Exemplar 3 3856
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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LittleBirdie30
L Marvel 14 3876
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I am not currently taking any chats. Please reach out to another Listener at this time. Thank you. Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Jenna
L Epitome 19 5956
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Hello and welcome! I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or simply need a space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Topics I support Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, LGBTQ+ PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Terminal Illness ------------------------- What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. ------------------------- Online - This indicates I am available to support you. Busy - This indicates that I am online, but I am already in a chat or not able to reply right away. Offline - This indicates that I am not online or taking chats at the moment. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Listener Quintuplets blithesun94, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates
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ChromaticFinss
L Intermediate 6 221
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"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming."🐟 Feel free to PM me if my status is green 💚 My usual chat duration will be 45 minutes💛 How about spreading smile on someone today? Ready? Check here 👇 https://forms.gle/QEni2At39ZMApELr6 A big thanks and keep Swimming!
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izzyy528
L Advanced 7 473
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Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
Hey there I'm Izzy, welcome to my profile! 👋 *Due to a higher demand in my personal life as well as focusing on my upcoming exams, while also meeting team quotas for my roles on 7 Cups, my response times may be slower for the time being. Thank you for understanding.* Sometimes talking and opening up can be difficult to do, and that's okay! I can't promise to fix your problems, but I can promise to be here and offer a friendly listening ear for you to talk to and share your story!  I have a genuine passion for supporting others, and I am committed to establishing a secure, inviting, and non-judgmental space for our conversations. Whether it's something troubling you or simply what's on your mind, feel free to reach out at any time. Your messages are always welcome, and I'll respond as soon as possible.  If you'd like to discuss a topic that necessitates a bit of research or if you prefer a specific scheduled time, feel free to book me HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/14OfE8l_C4SGjmjAxWyfW27hITjBQsCxqjEUtBOQInLA/viewform?edit_requested=true] then message me letting me know that you have.   Please feel free to message me anytime and I will get back to you as soon as possible 💙 ------------------------- 👂What to expect👂 ✨I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for you to share your story and feel heard. I'm here to listen and support you, in a warm and welcoming space where you can freely express yourself. Whether you're facing challenges, experiencing emotional distress, or simply need someone to talk to, you don't have to go through it alone. Your feelings and experiences matter, and I'm here for you. ✨ ✨In our conversations, my primary goal is to provide a supportive, confidential and non-judgmental environment where you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings. I prioritize listening attentively, ensuring you have my undivided attention. I approach each conversation with empathy and compassion, following your lead and using open-ended questions to help you think deeply and understand yourself better. ✨ ------------------------- Colours of Availability:  💚 Green: I'm online and currently taking new chats. Feel free to message me and I will respond shortly 💚 🧡 Orange: I'm online, but I may be busy with other members or listeners right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will respond when I am free 🧡 ❤️ Red: I'm currently offline or unable to take chats right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will reply the next time I am online ❤️ ------------------------- When it comes to these specific chats: I'm currently not taking chats on Sexual health and Cancer/chronic pain/diabetes/disabilities as I do not feel confident enough providing the support you deserve with these topics. I don't mind briefly discussing these topics if they come up alongside another topic; I want all members to get the best possible support and I believe that I am not experienced enough to support someone with these specific issues. ------------------------- My roles on 7 Cups: • Listener verifier • VL Project Agent and Mentor Leader • SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team) • Peer Supporter • Forum supporter for the Student Support community • Member welcoming team • Listener care team • Listener coach • Teen quality mentor ------------------------- Please do not message me asking for advice or for a diagnosis...I am a trained listener, not a therapist, I'm here to listen and support you, not to give advice or a diagnosis. Any inappropriate chats will be blocked and reported. Thank you for reading my bio! -------------------------
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DanCat1128
L Maven 5 593
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means.  Roles: 😺 Room Supporter (Newbie hub) 😺 Peer Supporter  😺 Chat Supporter  😺 Chatroom Mentor  😺 ATL 😺 Quality Mentor  😺 AE team  😺 Academy Mentor (Ldp and Qlp programs) Fun facts: 😊 Cocoa is my cat  😊 My mom is a high school teacher  😊 I'm part of a did system 
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Ivy229
L Discoverer 5 356
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*Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups - Verified Listener  -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) -Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) -Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) -Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: - 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) - 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) - 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  -ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides -ALL Currently Offered Training Guides -ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) - Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) - Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) -Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024)
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kenzolena
L Paragon 7 3820
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Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ 🚨 Currently my memory is acting up duo to health related matters so I might not remember all correctly 🚨 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  ————- ♡ ————- Remembering Courner ————- ♡ ————- Fly high Blazer, 9 Oct, 2024 ✝️🤍🕊 currently not fully active duo to my loss ————- ♡ ————-♡————-♡ ————- A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. ——- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ——— =-Roles-= 🍄I am able to edit and delete forum posts (forum key badge) 🍄 🍃 Leading Mindful Minutes 🍃 🦋 Sub-Leading Kahoot Sessions Team 🦋  🤍Leading Welcome Committe 🤍 🍂 Part of the Kahoot team 🍂 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🫂 Chat Supporter 🫂 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🌈 Global Moderator 🌈 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 💜 (teen) Quality mentor 💜 🔥 Teen transitioning mentor 🔥 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🌟 Spot 🌟 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 👩‍🎓 Completed the Leadership Development Program 👩‍🎓 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] ————- ♡ ————- Listener Twin ————- ♡ ————- @lightandhope51 - She is awesome pawesome and truly a dear person to me. ————- ♡ ————- Quote Courner ————- ♡ ————- when our light starts to dim we sometimes need someone elses to help bright up ours ❤️  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” ————- ♡ ————- Status meaning  ————- ♡ ————- Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2-5 working days. Updated on 9th of September, 2024
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Arie3
L Connoisseur 10 578
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Hey, I'm Arie :) Currently not taking member chats (but if my status is green, feel free to pm)  I do not take domestic violence and autism spectrum or age regression topics.  ∆ Please refrain from just giving a 'Hi'. State the reason why you need to talk.  *  If I do not reply within 48 hours, please message me again as I may have missed out :)  ⋆。゚☁︎。⋆。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆ My roles on 7 cups: - Teen Quality Mentor/Star https://www.7cups.com/listener/training/mentors/  -  - Listener Coaching Team https://rb.gy/dlxyx9 [https://rb.gy/dlxyx9] - Requesting Coach form - Leadership development program Mentor https://rb.gy/6pxof9 - LDP POST ~ Listener Verifier https://rb.gy/yhy9u9 - Post on verification - Internship Mentor   - Active Listening Test 2 Grader - Safety Patrol Team  https://rb.gy/oecsm6 [https://rb.gy/oecsm6] - Application for safety patrol - Chat supporter   ~ Mindful minutes Host ~ Welcome Committee  https://rb.gy/if4cqn - Application -  Doorkeeper ~ Peer supporter -  Verified Listener * Past roles - Kahoot sessions host Graduated From Internship with Honors Graduated From QLP with Honors ------------------------- ( ˶˘ ³˘(⋆❛ ہ ❛⋆)!♡ ( also don't judge me by my bio cause it's pretty vague lol, just text me and I guarantee we both will have a great chat 😋)  ∆ If u read till here, I want you to know that you're loved and you're not alone in this <3
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Averyjr23
L Specialist 7 679
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello, I'm Avery or Ave whichever you want to call me and welcome to my profile! Here as you chat with me you will find a non-judgmental space and only a kind hearted chat!  I hope you have a wonderful week! :) ------------------------- * My chats are only an hour long, but we can also schedule something later! * ------------------------- Topics I am comfortable discussing/can take on  Depression Relationship Stress Family Stress Anxiety Breakups Panic attacks Social anxiety Self harm  Addiction  ------------------------- * I can discuss some chats that are not listed, but please be respectful if I don't feel comfortable with that topic. *  * I can also do offline chats and live chats. * ------------------------- My roles here at 7cups  Verified listener  Peer support  Room supporter  Listener chatroom supporter Listener Verifier Team Chatroom Mentor Active Listening 2 grader ------------------------- My availability  Monday - Thursday ( 4:00pm to 9:00pm MST ) in EST is ( 6:00pm to 11:00pm EST )  Friday night ( 7:00pm to 10:00pm ) MST in EST is ( 9:00pm to 12:00am ) Saturday ( I am offline )  Sunday ( 10:00am to 2:00pm MST ) in EST is ( 12:00pm to 4:00pm )  ------------------------- My listener twin! :) Kristynsmama   AuRewolf  Amyfastfoodthe72 
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Brahmm
L Proficient 8 480
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You must be the change you wish to see in the world. When you are not happy, try to make others happy and it just might make you happy. Love is necessary for a healthy life. We think to live a healthy life, just like food and water. I practice daily by loving everyone around me. Hatred grows more hatred, forgiveness brings love and peace. Nothing is impossible. The word itself says ‘I’m possible! Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.
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