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Here to help and be there as support or a form of comfort to anyone who needs me to be.

Note: Do not send me a message if you intend on flirting or intend to engage any kind of sexual conversation. 






























































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Empathy and Compassion
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 October 9th
...See more Empathy is the ability to imagine oneself in the place of others to gain a sense of what they're feeling. When you are empathetic, it is easy to accumulate and demonstrate compassion. For instance, if someone is feeling upset and frustrated, you may empathize and feel the same. You may even take it one step further in being compassionate towards them by offering to listen and being a comforting presence.  In a world that consists of hardships and pain, the application of empathy and compassion can facilitate significant change and heal so many hearts. When experiencing a difficult time, it's natural to have the desire to want to feel and be understood. I think of empathy and compassion as a warm hug that cultivates that feeling, as well as the feeling of safety. When implemented together, they produce an inner sense of calmness and peace. Empathy and compassion also allow us to build a sense of rapport and trust with others. They communicate the message that you're not alone and make room for an external perspective that's fresh and inspiring.  Empathy and compassion are traits that come naturally to me as I was led by example and taught as such whilst growing up. Both traits enable me to establish and develop strong connections with others and hold a space in which they feel heard and supported. It brings me immense joy to have that ability. In addition, empathy and compassion encourage personal growth, in consideration that they increase my self-awareness and ability to manage conflict.  It is important however, to bear in mind, that empathy and compassion aren't solely reserved for others; displaying empathy and compassion towards yourself is equally as important. In fact, when you apply them towards yourself, it becomes easier to extend the same courtesy to others.  Here are some questions for consideration:  * Do you think that you can have empathy without compassion or vice versa? Feel free to explain your reason.  * In what ways can you cultivate empathy and compassion towards others?  * How does empathy and compassion impact your life? Please share any personal experiences, if you are comfortable and would like to. 
Openness and Learning Mindset
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 November 13th
...See more As a kid, it's typical of us to be curious about the world. We'd frequently ask questions and look at things in wonder of how they came to be or what they are. It was because of that curiousity, that we were able to learn and grow. As an adult, having an openness and learning mindset entails being vulnerable and accepting of change; it's how we evolve overtime. When we challenge ourselves beyond our abilities and skills, only then can we truly learn.  Imagine you have a lock inside your mind, holding your abilities hostage. Eventually, you find a key and unlock it, thereby leaving those abilities vulnerable. Well, what if that lock and key was actually you? You can either be the lock that considers your abilities to be unchangeable or fixed, or you can be the key that leaves yourself open to experience and growth.  Let's think about this as two distinct concepts: a fixed mindset vs. a growth mindset. With a fixed mindset, you believe your intelligence and capabilities are set in stone. As a result, you avoid challenges, give up easily when faced with problems, view positive feedback as criticism, etcetera.  Conversely, when you believe that your intelligence and capabilities can be improved and/or developed, you're able to adopt a growth mindset, which results in being receptive to feedback and challenges, viewing the success of others as inspiration, accepting problems as opportunities to persist and learn, and more.  I used to be scared of challenging myself, as I would consider it as leaving myself open to judgement and criticism. Additionally, I had a fear of failure. It wasn't until I intentionally embarked on a self-development journey, that I realized the importance of moving beyond my comfort zone. I discovered that when I challenged myself, I was able to leave myself open to new experiences, and even if I had failed, it was not a setback, but rather a stepping stone to either try a different approach or move towards a new direction. Consequently, I was able attain self-improvement and increase my self-confidence and skills. When I find myself resistant to change, I use the affirmation, "I embrace challenges because they allow me to grow". It reinforces the idea that continuous learning and growth is possible.  I now invite you to reflect and share your thoughts on the following:  * What makes an openness and learning mindset essential to your growth?  * What are some barriers that prevent you from having an openness and learning mindset?  * How can you practice having an openness and learning mindset? 
Random Joys
Positivity & Gratitude / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 September 10th
...See more What are some random things that bring you joy or bring a spark to your day?  Some of mine are (in no particular order): sweet treats, handwritten cards, the sound of the ocean, sunsets, cats, the smell of new books or candles and the smell and sound of rain. 
Recent Watches
TV & Movies / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 September 30th
...See more What movie or show have you watched recently and enjoyed? You can also share why you enjoyed it, if you want to. 
Keyboard Game
Icebreakers and Games / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 July 6th
...See more Choose any of the 3 words that pop up above your keyboard until a sentence forms. It doesn't have to make sense, so have fun with it.  I'll go first: Brandon is going to say he gifted his son to his house. 
Today I'm grateful for...
Mindfulness Center / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 April 1st
...See more Whenever we're plagued by overwhelming thoughts and emotions, it can be difficult to have gratitude. So, let's stop and take a second to reflect on what we're grateful for, using this prompt.  Today I'm grateful for having sustenance and the privilege to choose what I want to eat or drink.  What are you grateful for? Please share🤍
Soothing your Inner Child
Anxiety Support / by hopefulDew435
Last post
 May 15th, 2023
...See more At times, when I'm feeling anxious I like to journal my thoughts as they come and address my inner child with compassion❤️I've honestly found it to be quite healing and liberating in a sense. What are some ways or one way in which you soothe your inner child?
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