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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Aurelius121
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* Leadership scouts. I am currently not looking to advance any further than I have on 7 Cups of Tea. I prefer to remain on the front lines, and it is all I personally have time for at the moment. Thank you for your interest. SCHEDULING. - I usually only have time to volunteer on 7 Cups once or twice a week. Since I am an ATL, I prefer to see if a teen is in need of assistance on Saturdays. I usually speak with adult members on Sundays. - I typically do 45 minute sessions with members. - If I am working with you, please note that I am on Central Time. (CT) - I usually have an opening to volunteer on 7 Cups somewhere around 5 PM Central Time. - My schedule gets complicated in November and December. I have less time for 7 Cups during those two months. INTERACTIONS. - I am always marked as offline because I receive requests while marked as available or busy. I am only able to help one person at a time. It would be neat to do two or three, but that is beyond what I am capable of. - If I do not receive a response for ten minutes, I will assume the discussion has concluded or ask a member to submit a new chat request. - If we have agreed to work together and you would like to reschedule our next meeting, please let me know as soon as you are able. I will need to refer you to a different Listener if our schedules do not match up. - If we have agreed to work together, I am interested in helping you move past whatever obstacle is currently blocking your path forward. Venting is fine, and it is best to vent constructively. Something might not be ideal, but there is a way to make it tolerable. It might not be the preferred way, but it is better than not doing anything at all or letting the problem stew until emotions boil over. - I usually provide support documents for the members I listen to. These are summaries of what we discuss. They can be used to reflect on our session or provide a different Listener with a quick version of what you are currently going through. METHODOLOGY. I am a proponent of individual psychology. Cognitive behavioral therapy, Stoicism, and existentialism also interest me. A member may vent about their circumstances or someone who has wronged them, but I am mainly interested in what they intend to do going forward. All of us have goals we are pursuing either consciously or subconsciously. If possible, I prefer to identify those with the member. BIO. Life is inherently difficult, but we can find a way through it. I earned a Bachelor's of Science in psychology, and stopped college to go on to make very poor decisions for 12 years. I got tired of being lazy in 2021. Over the course of a few years, I dropped fifty pounds, overcame several lifelong fears, and went on to have a far more dynamic range of the human experience. If it is within my ability to help someone in the same manner that I was assisted, then that is something I must do. I believe everyone has the answers they seek, but sometimes they need help finding them. ~ ~ ~ With my physical health in order, I sought to get my mental health in order at the start of 2023. I read books, articles, and watch videos related to self-improvement while taking notes. I then put these notes into an app called Flashcards World and study them when I have a moment. Here are some resources that I found quite valuable. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. The Courage to Be Disliked by Koga and Kishimi. How to be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use by Randy Paterson. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Escaping Ordinary on YouTube. Admiral McRaven's address to the University of Texas at Austin Class of 2014 as edited by MotivationHub. ~ - ~ * Quality Listening Program Graduate - July 2024 * Adult/Teen Listener - August 2024
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GentleHealingInitiative
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˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .      . ✦     ˚     . ★⋆.    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚      .  .   ˚ .             ✦  Welcome! It’s not always the easiest step to reach out for help when you are experiencing life’s struggles. I’d like to congratulate you on taking a step forward by just being here on 7 Cups.     ˗ˏˋ ★ Your presence here matters. ★ ˎˊ˗ Hello and a warm welcome once more to my profile! Currently, I am unable to take any personal requests. My sincerest apologies. If you are looking for an available listener, please browse: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ While browsing, listeners will indicate if they are available by the green dots on their profiles. Also, feel free to view their profiles to know if they are accepting new chats. I appreciate your patience and understanding. I hope you receive the support you readily deserve. ˗ˏˋ ★Thank you for visiting. ★ ˎˊ˗    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚      .  .   ˚ .             ✦
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beckybush
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Just recently retired, and interested in helping others who are seeking help.  I have had a lot of personal hardships of my own making, now I am very stable, very happy, and grateful. I believe it is from my bad experiences, derived from my poor choices, that can help me be a good candidate to offer assistance to those who perhaps just need somebody to talk to.  I am eager to help out, and I have an open schedule.
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Ivy229
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If I’m not online and/or busy, then please feel free to leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. If we have not talked previously, please share a little about what/why you are sending me a message instead of just writing only hi, hey, how are you, the specific questions you are inquiring about and how I can best assist you in your message. Thank you for understanding and respecting this request.  *Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support, Mentorship, And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: * Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences * Certified Peer Recovery Specialist (CPRS) * Certified Recovery Support Specialist (CRSP) * "Hope Dealer"         a powerful and uplifting phrase often used to describe someone who spreads positivity, encouragement, and hope to others, even in difficult times. It's a term that highlights the impact of inspiring and motivating others to keep going, focus on the good, and believe in a brighter future. * "Survivor Provider"   One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and that will be someone else's survival guide. ~Brene Brown     Every read someone's story and think, "This is exactly what I needed to hear today?" Your story will do that for someone else.   There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. ~Maya Angelou       It's important that we share our experiences with other people. Your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else. When you tell your story, you free yourself and give other people permission to acknowledge their own story. ~Iyanla Vanzant ------------------------- Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world ------------------------- INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups * Verified Listener  * Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) * Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) * Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) * Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) * Quality Listening Program (QLP) Mentor (As of December 19, 2024) * 7 Cups Internship Mentor  (As of January 6, 2025) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: * 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) * 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) * 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  * ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides * ALL Currently Offered Training Guides * ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) * Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) * Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) * Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024) Awards I Have Received @7 Cups * Academy Awards December 2024    Forum Workshop Series I Have Completed with Certificates * Learning About Cognitive Distortions * Building Self-Esteem! * Conquering Anxiety! * Conquering Your Goals
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TogetherForeverAlways
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Peacefulgardens
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Welcome, my name is Naira. I believe that one of the most effective ways to make healthy changes is to focus on building up self-compassion and understanding.  At 7Cups, in addition to earning verification, I have also completed the Quality Listening Program and Community Track Internship with Honors. I'm open to conversations on a variety of mental health topics as long as they remain appropriate and respectful.  Please keep in mind that responses to support requests may take up to 24 hours. ------------------------- Helpful Resources It is important keep in mind that listeners like me are volunteers, and we do not have the same responsibilities or expertise as licensed therapists or counselors. If you are in the United States and interested in booking an appointment with a trained therapist or counselor, some additional ways to find affordable options are Open Path Collective [https://openpathcollective.org/], Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us], Psychologist Locator [https://locator.apa.org/], and your local National Alliance of Mental Illness chapter [https://www.nami.org/findsupport/]. I believe in advocating for people seeking mental health care which is why it's important to help make this process more accessible. Although I am okay with discussing self-harm and we even have a self-harm recovery community forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfharm/], listeners must refer anyone actively at risk of harming themselves or others to crisis resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].  7Cups offers a variety of self-help guides here [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php/] for anyone wanting information on a specific topic. Listeners aiming to expand their skills can read all training guides offered here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/ListenerSupportResourcesandMockChatGuidesMasterList_228279] and here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training/].  My profile icon is photography by Cy Twombly.
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enigmaticpanda4152
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Hello! I'm passionate about cooking, finding solace in meditation, and lending a compassionate ear to those in need. As a volunteer listener, I aim to create a safe space for individuals to share their thoughts with a stranger, providing a confidential outlet for their emotions. Let's embark on this journey together, where your words find a welcoming space to be heard and understood.
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Aputik
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Any concerns, worries, obstacles, or impossible challenges are better off your chest. Within this safe space we will untangle the line of thoughts, feelings, and emotions.  Drop me a line to discuss whatever is on your mind, we will explore it, accept it, and figure out how to make you feel better and what's the right action for you at the moment. =)
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Maebyb
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💙I have worked in the education and health care fields for most of my life and now am so excited to help people in a different way.  I have great respect and admiration for everyone on 7 Cups the members and listeners make it a very special community and I value what everyone has to share. 
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🌺🌺🌺🌺 Members Not accepting personal requests. Connect with available listeners here: Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 About me Academy Mentor Leader with 7 Cups Academy.   Academy Mentor with the Internship Program. Active Listening Test 1 Grader. Available on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. 𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 Thank you for stopping by my tiny patch of digital real estate.  🌺🌺🌺 Petitesouris updated 11.13.2024
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Connection,  Compassion,  Community When we connect, we can heal.  I am here to listen, you are not alone, you have a friend.❤️ I am open to taking chats regarding most topics, except for chats about Sexual Health matters. Thank you for understanding. I am a 7 cups internship honors graduate, a forum moderator for the ADHD community, and an Internship mentor 😊 Drop me a message and I will put on some tea!  My time zone is CET  P.S I love cats, nature, reading, music, cooking, travel and art. 😻🌳📚🎵🍕🗽🎨
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RainbowRosie
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Hi there and welcome, 😀 I’m Rosie, a verified listener and I’ve been here on 7 Cups for four years. As I’ve gone through some difficult times myself, I know just how good it is to have someone you can talk to.  As I’m passionate about mental health I’m here to listen and be there for you. Please be reassured I'm non judgemental and want to help make you feel supported and heard. LGBTQ+ friendly 🌈  If I’m not online then please feel free to leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. My only ask is that you please share a little about what it is you’d like to chat about in your message, thank you.     PLEASE NOTE:  I’m here to listen and chat…NO sex chat.  I do accept casual chats. I'm not comfortable with sexual health related topics. As I follow the community guidelines, I do expect you to as well. If you need immediate support, please browse for a listener who is online. Thanks Rosie 🌹 Graduate from the; Quality Listening Program Leadership Development Programme Inner Development Goals Course 🌹 7 Things about me; I’m an animal lover, especially dogs and have two myself  I love dark chocolate I prefer baking to cooking  I’m a proud LGBT+ ally I work and am also a pt carer for my lovely mum who’s in her 80s I’m a coffee lover and could just drink one now  I like to laugh…so do it as much as I can 😀 ******* 🌹 One of my favourite quotes; When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hold on. 🌹 A few things I remind myself of; ‘Staying positive doesn’t mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days, you know that there are better days coming’. ’Everyone you meet is going through something that you have no idea of. If you can’t help then at least be kind’. ‘To get a rainbow you have to first deal with the rain’ 🌈 ******* 🌹 When away from 7 Cups I find the following helpful to relax;  Reading, swimming, walking my dogs or sitting out in the garden with a nice cuppa. Crisis Resources Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis, it's important to reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you:  Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868  International Association for Suicide Prevention  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  UK  Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123  Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141] or text 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders Ind [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php]ia 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🌹🌹🌹 🌹    
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