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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

CrashListens
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Thanks for checking out my profile. Sometimes all we need is someone to talk to. I've been around off and on since 2015, trying my best to use my own lived experiences to help others through their hard times. I’m a 24 year old happily married woman, raised in California and have found a forever home in Canada. Although knowledgeable and educated on all of my topics listed, I am most familiar with CPTSD, depression, anxiety, and ASD, as I share these diagnoses myself. Please do not message me looking for any kind of sexual/ romantic/ intimate interactions. Open to long- term member/ listener connections.
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Minervaaa
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Sventek
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, per 7 Cups' sitewide policy. NO EXCEPTIONS, ZERO, NONE. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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sddmvg1907
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My name is Sangeeta. I am 18 years old and deeply interested in psychology. I am fascinated by people and a deeply empathetic person that likes to feel like I can lend a helping hand to those that are not doing well. I understand and advocate that sometimes it is nice to talk informally to a stranger when you are not exactly in that stage of talking to a professional. I want people to know that they are not alone. I enjoy learning new things about people and also broadening my views and perspectives by interacting with other people. I am a sensitive individual and will very happily put the needs of others first. 
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EmotionsListener
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***Please note: I am not currently available for 1-on-1 support chats. With my roles as a community mentor leader, group support mentor, and chatroom moderator I will be focusing my efforts primarily on community teams, forums and group support activities.*** It's not a community without 'u'! About me: Others have described me as an empathetic individual who strives to be objective, motivational, and empowering. I do firmly believe that if you challenge yourself to look at a situation from a different angle you will see options you have overlooked, and that sometimes even unpalatable solutions need to be seen for what they are, possible solutions. I aim to offer a respectful and non-judgmental ear, keeping in mind that my personal values and beliefs are just that: Mine and need only apply to me/my life.  I am a member of the LGBTQ+ community, some of the labels I use, or have used, to describe(not define) myself include but are not limited to, lesbian, homoromantic asexual and demiromantic. While I am open to and accepting of all members of the LGBTQ+ community, I feel my personal experience makes me most suited to supporting those who relate to or don similar labels. Now entering my 40's I have had experiences with a variety of issues from early childhood to present. I have found this can enhance my natural ability to empathize while still offering alternate perspectives. I primarily provide support for and am most comfortable with topics I have indicated in my profile. There are certain topics that I do not take chats involving, namely drugs, alcohol, detailed discussion of sexual topics, or any which contravene the rules of 7 Cups. "No matter what we have come through, or how many perils we have safely passed, or how imperfect and jagged our life has been, we cannot in our heart of hearts imagine how it could have been different. As we look back on it, it slips in behind us in orderly disarray, and, with all its mistakes, acquires a sort of eternal fitness, and even, at times, a poetic glamour." – Randolph Silliman Bourne
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GentleKiteFly
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Hello! I am GentleKiteFly! I would like to help you all with your needs if you give me a chance :D I'm a great listener and would love to tell you about my past struggles and to help you with yours! I like to paint and play piano. If you need any  help on issues ask me because I know how to fly a kite ;D and I'll teach you how to fly yours too!
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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sleepysalem
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hi! Im Salem! im here to listen! taking chats when I am able.
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InsightfulPhoenix
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix some even call me Phoe!🤗 I am married, part of the LGBTQ+ community as Nonbinary Demisexual with She/They pronouns. I have toddler who is ASD possible ADHD. I have Adhd/Autism/PTSD/DID and my husband Aspergers and ASD. We are Neurodivergent strong.  I have an INFJ-A personality, which is also the same personality that Joan of Arc had. I am often told I have too big a heart😂! Now that you know more of me,I hope this brings you comfort.  A quote I live by is "Never ask a person more than once who they are, they told you who they were the first time"  ❄️Former Roles❄️ Newbie Hub Moderator  ❄️Current Roles❄️ P.D Moderator  Quality Mentor Trauma Room Moderator  Women’s Issues Forum Supporter  A.E Team  Peer Appreciation Team/Smile Spreader  LCT
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Peacefulgardens
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Currently not taking new support chat requests since I'm already supporting multiple members. I can still provide referrals and more resources so please let me know if you're interested in that. ------------------------- Welcome, my name is Naira. I believe that one of the most effective ways to make healthy changes is to focus on building up self-compassion and understanding.  At 7Cups, in addition to earning verification, I have also completed the Quality Listening Program and Community Track Internship with Honors. I'm open to conversations on a variety of mental health topics as long as they remain appropriate and respectful.  ------------------------- Helpful Resources It is important keep in mind that listeners like me are volunteers, and we do not have the same responsibilities or expertise as licensed therapists or counselors. If you are in the United States and interested in booking an appointment with a trained therapist or counselor, some additional ways to find affordable options are Open Path Collective [https://openpathcollective.org/], Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us], Psychologist Locator [https://locator.apa.org/], and your local National Alliance of Mental Illness chapter [https://www.nami.org/findsupport/]. I believe in advocating for people seeking mental health care which is why it's important to help make this process more accessible. Although I am okay with discussing self-harm and we even have a self-harm recovery community forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfharm/], listeners must refer anyone actively at risk of harming themselves or others to crisis resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].  7Cups offers a variety of self-help guides here [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php/] for anyone wanting information on a specific topic. Listeners aiming to expand their skills can read all training guides offered here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/ListenerSupportResourcesandMockChatGuidesMasterList_228279] and here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training/].  My profile icon is photography by Cy Twombly.
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LotusFury
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...❗Bio Construction In Progress❗... If u see 🟢 It means that I'm online and I accept chats :)  This 🟡 It means I'm a little busy, I can still take chats, I'll just will take me more than usual to respond  Red 🔴 means that I'm offline, If you have something important to say, feel free to write it in the chat, I will answer as soon as possible Areas Where I Can Offer Support: Anxiety ADHD/Autism Spectrum Depression Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) Eating Disorders Exercise Motivation Family Stress General Mental Health  Obsessive compulsive disorder(OCD) Self-harm Social Anxiety  Areas Outside My Expertise -Adoption/forest care -Alcohol/Drug abuse -Bipolar  -Borderline (BPD) -Chronic pain -Diabetes  -Grief -Personality disorder  -PTSD -Schizophrenia  I Don't feel comfortable talking about:  ×Breakups ×Domestic Violence  ×Panic attacks ×Relationship stress ×Sexual Health  ×Weight management  ------------------------- >I oscillate between obsession and disinterest<
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HopefulWrench
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Hi! I am 24, a compassionate listener, and love cats.  SCHEDULE I am currently taking long term requests for listening! All times listed are in Eastern Standard Time (EST.) M-F: 9am-5pm Sa/Sun: 10am-3pm Please send a message to request recurring sessions 💗
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