EmotionsListener
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Epitome 15
Rating
Number of ratings46
Number of reviews39
Listens toTeens & Over 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceJun 2, 2020
Last activein last week
GenderFemale
PathStep 58
People helped143
Chats11,015
Group support chats2,244
Listener group chats275
Forum posts1,422
Forum upvotes3,156
Bio
***Please note: I am not currently available for 1-on-1 support chats. With my roles as a community mentor leader, group support mentor, and chatroom moderator I will be focusing my efforts primarily on community teams, forums and group support activities.***
It's not a community without 'u'!
About me:
Others have described me as an empathetic individual who strives to be objective, motivational, and empowering. I do firmly believe that if you challenge yourself to look at a situation from a different angle you will see options you have overlooked, and that sometimes even unpalatable solutions need to be seen for what they are, possible solutions. I aim to offer a respectful and non-judgmental ear, keeping in mind that my personal values and beliefs are just that: Mine and need only apply to me/my life.
I am a member of the LGBTQ+ community, some of the labels I use, or have used, to describe(not define) myself include but are not limited to, lesbian, homoromantic asexual and demiromantic. While I am open to and accepting of all members of the LGBTQ+ community, I feel my personal experience makes me most suited to supporting those who relate to or don similar labels.
Now entering my 40's I have had experiences with a variety of issues from early childhood to present. I have found this can enhance my natural ability to empathize while still offering alternate perspectives. I primarily provide support for and am most comfortable with topics I have indicated in my profile. There are certain topics that I do not take chats involving, namely drugs, alcohol, detailed discussion of sexual topics, or any which contravene the rules of 7 Cups.
Now entering my 40's I have had experiences with a variety of issues from early childhood to present. I have found this can enhance my natural ability to empathize while still offering alternate perspectives. I primarily provide support for and am most comfortable with topics I have indicated in my profile. There are certain topics that I do not take chats involving, namely drugs, alcohol, detailed discussion of sexual topics, or any which contravene the rules of 7 Cups.
"No matter what we have come through, or how many perils we have safely passed, or how imperfect and jagged our life has been, we cannot in our heart of hearts imagine how it could have been different. As we look back on it, it slips in behind us in orderly disarray, and, with all its mistakes, acquires a sort of eternal fitness, and even, at times, a poetic glamour." – Randolph Silliman Bourne
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Feedback & Reviews
Thanks for putting up with me.
Again, I don't know how she puts up with me and my mess. I am forever grateful she does and right now I am forever in debt to her kindness and compassion. I don't think I would know what to do without her guidance. Thank you so much for your support and understanding.
You are an incredible listener who I owe many thanks to. You seem so dedicated to trying your best to support me and for that I will forever be grateful. You show you care with how you speak to me and making sure that this is something I need at the moment. You’re very patient and put up with my back and forth of opening up a ton and not feeling okay with opening up and not many people can handle that. I appreciate your understanding and empathy you show toward me no matter what I seem to express that is bothering me or how it may make me feel. You’re very good at not making me feel judged, and you talk about things that help me understand what you’re saying even if I don’t always communicate that directly. Thanks again for your support and making me feel like I finally found someone who is willing. It means more to me than you will ever know.
Wonderful person.
Emotions have to be one of the most amazing people I have ever met. I can't believe how much support and kindness she showed me. She treated me like a real person with real feelings and struggles. It's almost surreal how much she cared about me. What I appreciated most was how careful and empathetic she was with her support. She wasn't afraid to ask difficult questions or take her time to explain things thoroughly. I don't know how I'll ever be able to thank her for everything she did for me today.
very helpful and nice
Super helpful and kind and genuinely cares
Kind, well-spoken and compassionate
Very empathetic, and down to Earthy.
she is great i feel like i can open up in her and let it all come out
Really thoughtful insightful listener
The best mod, listener, and friend forever. Whoever doesn't know emo is missing out 😘
Amazing listener! They are always there for me and truly understand what I’m going through. I’m so grateful for everything they have done, thank you so much! You mean so much to me!
Great listener, she really related well to me and made my day a bit brighter.
You're a really good listener emo
Best person ever ❤
Beautiful person, great listener!
Thank you so much....you are so nice
Really good listener. They really care about you. I feel great after talking to them.
They were very nice! They helped me come up with a new communication method
Really good listener, understanding and responsive. Helped me out a lot.
This listener always puts the member she is listening to first and refrains from judgement, unnecssary/harmful advice, but rather asks the member how they might best be able to solve their issue. Personally, I have found this has helped me to take responsibilty of the issues and empowered me to take action to solve them. 5/5 definitely.
Always here for me, really understands me like no one else does. Makes me feel sane.
Great person, she keeps me sane
She is absolutely lovely and caring and friendly and supportive. Especially with LGBTQ concerns.
She's really sweet and very good to talk with about lgbtq issues.
Emotion is really helpful an such a good listener and a genuinly good person!!
So sweet and caring
A really compassionate listener. Understood me well. Totally recommend!
Really supportive and understanding! I can't thankyou enough for the support you offer - You always check in on me and provide a safe space! Thankyou! From one Empath to another You are Awesome!
Lovely person. Makes space for my emotions and is so gentle.
Truly amazing person heart of gold
Best listener you could ever ask for. She really gets you and helps you figure things out and what not 20/ 10 !
Amazing listener and super supportive and kind and really knows how to make you feel cared for
Amazingly kind and compassionate listener with a heart of gold who is generous with their time. A great addition to the site.
improving my situation
thankyou so much for everything and protecting me helping me and keeping me safe you such a kind and caring supportive listener/friend thankyou
Such an amazing listener. She really listens and comforts and offers ideas to overcome struggles and makes a safe place to hide and find safety in the midst of a storm
Super supportive and understanding, really caring and made me feel safe and understood. Thankyou so much for being such an amazing listener xx
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