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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

AshBlossom27
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Hey there and welcome! Glad you found me on 7 Cups. I would love to assist in any way that I can, however, there are a few things to address:  - If what you wish to discuss is an issue related to sex or pleasure (or try to RP in any capacity) I am not the listener for you. My own relationship with sexual topics is complicated, as I am ace (asexual) and get very uncomfortable with anyone going into detail on those things. Please do not reach out just to tell me that my sexuality is not valid. Though, if you want to talk to me about sexuality, I am more than happy to listen!  -  There are subjects listed in which I have personal experience and am comfortable helping you with, however, there are also those I don't have the knowledge base to aid with or am uncomfortable speaking with (again, sexual topics and abuse). Please take those into consideration if you send me a personal request.  - If at any time you feel as though a different listener would be better, let me know and you are more than welcome to find another. I will not be offended, as not everyone connects with the first person they try to talk with. Understand that I will do the same if I feel I am not qualified or a situation arises that brings me discomfort. Thanks for the read! And, I hope we can help you out here! Ash (she/her)
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ImPuLsZ06
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       I take personal requests for depression, anxiety and breakups mostly, but I will do my best to support you in whatever you're going through.       Hi there! I'm here for you, for people who are struggling, trying to make them feel better. I've been through some dark places myself and I know how it feels, so now I can understand people better. Also, I'm a verified listener and am fascinated about Psychology. Feel free to contact me whenever you need, I'll always do my best to support you. Let's have a chat! For romanians: putem vorbi în română, bineînțeles, nu este nicio problemă. Trimite-mi un request personal sau contactează-mă direct printr-un mesaj. Voi răspunde cât de repede posibil. “There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.” ― Laurell K. Hamilton Please send me a personal request or PM me directly. I will reply as soon as possible.  
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DavidEss
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Hi! I'm from the UK. I'm very happy to reply to your messages when I'm online (like a text chat) , or for us to arrange a 45min session - your choice! For a session let me know when you are free, days, times, and your time zone, and we'll set something up. I am a senior, and I particularly enjoy working with adults (not teens) who are sincere about their own personal development.   I should tell you that I work with most people well, but I do have some doubts about online-only romantic relationships (I don't think they are a substitute for physical contact, basically, and can even be a way of avoiding intimacy), so if that is what you want to talk about, that's fine, but do please be aware of my views (Difficulties in online romantic relationships come up a lot on 7C, and, in my view, there are good reasons for that). My hobbies include reading, playing and listening to music, meditation and TaiChi. I also waste a lot of time,  which you can help me fill usefully ! I am spiritually minded, and I do not believe any religion or atheism is the one true way. I am happy to answer  your questions about this, however this quote may help you to "place" me, if you need to. There are three truths which are absolute, and which cannot be lost, but yet may remain silent for lack of speech.  * The soul of man is immortal, and its future is the future of a thing whose growth and splendor has no limit.   *The principle which gives life dwells in us, and without us, is undying and eternally beneficent, is not heard or seen or smelt, but can be perceived by the man or woman who desires perception.   *Each man and woman is his own absolute lawgiver, the dispenser of glory or gloom to himself; the decreer of his life, his reward, his punishment.  These truths, which are as great as is life itself, are as simple as the simplest mind of man. Feed the hungry with them. (The Three Truths - from The Idyll of the White Lotus by Mabel Collins) I have no connection whatever to any other DavidEss on the www, this username is unique to Sevencups..I would also like to emphasise that I have nothing to advertise or promote apart from my presence and awareness :) .
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IsaGuzNa90
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I am a yogui, who is fascinated with the mind-body practices to improve the connection and wisdom about myself. I like the idea of a mental health that integrates mind a body. To do that I believe in the tools from oriental mind-body practices like conscious movement, breathing and attention. I am an active listener by birth and I have enjoyed every second of my work as a yoga teacher :)
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Hopeprovider6771
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Welcome to my profile 🦋  🪷Hey there! I'm hope and I’m 16 years old I'm here to listen without judgment and offer a friendly ear to anyone who needs it,I believe in the power of empathy and understanding, and I'm committed to creating a safe and supportive space for you to share your thoughts and feelings🪷 I'm passionate about psychology and I love looking for new friends  ------------------------- Please note that I'm not comfortable with any of these topics : -sexual health issues  - relationship stress  - Men’s issues  -family stress  -LGPTQ+ issues  - self harm   as i don’t feel confident enough to talk in these topics and I don’t want to make any of you uncomfortable I want you all to have the best support on your journey on 7cups  Thank you for your understanding  Or else you are always reach me out 🤗 I believe in respecting boundaries, and I want to ensure that we both feel comfortable during our conversations  Colors of availability : * 🟢:green ; means I’m available and ready to take chats  * 🟠: Orange ; means I’m a little bit busy or talking with someone ( feel free to drop me a message and I will certainly respond) * 🔴: red; means I’m not available at them moment for taking any Chats but leave me a message and when I will be available I will certainly reply  ------------------------- My roles in 7cups🪷; * Verfied listener  * internship mentor  * Kahoot sessions host  * room supporter in ED community (eating disorder) * doorkeeper * In the welcome committee team PM track  ------------------------- Remember you are not alone in experiencing problems we are all here for you ! Don’t give up ! -------------------------
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allnaturalUnicorns70
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I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!  If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
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Mya000
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Hello there! I'm a 24 years-old female Verified Listener for Adults, a Community Mentor for Women’s Issues Community, a Forum Supporter for the Anxiety Support Community, and a Doorkeeper.   I speak both French and English and focus on providing a safe, supportive space for those who need it. I’m not currently taking new chats, and I don’t handle chats related to sexual issues or grief. I am feminist and I strive to ensure all interactions are respectful and free from discrimination. Thank you for your understanding!   I’m also happy to co-host the Women’s Circle every Saturday at 12 PM EST in the Support Session Room for Adults. You're always welcome to join us there!
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Remina
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor.  I accept new members. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours? My Listener Twin -> Fenrisulfr
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RoxyFantastic
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To be awesome is a choice not a consequence.
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CalmRosebud
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PLEASE NOTE: No chats from new people! Sorry, I cannot give you the attention you deserve. 𓇢𓆸♡ Hi, I'm Rose🌹. ♡ (^=˃ᆺ˂) 𓇢𓆸 If I have talked with you in the past, you can try messaging me, but no guarantees on when I will respond. I will now respond to messages from you if we have had contact before. Asynchronous chats. Sorry, but my schedule does not permit scheduled chats at this time. I will occasionally take an hour here and there at the spur of the moment to host a Sharing Circle. I hope you’re well. Take care.
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Riveter
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Hey there! Welcome to my profile. I’m Riveter, and I look forward to chatting with you. 🙂 I joined 7 Cups 🍵 as a listener in December 2024. Chat topics I’m most comfortable with include student/work stress, sexual health, LGBTQ+ issues, and family/relationship stress. Chat topics I’m unable to take are eating disorders, weight management, addictions, dissociative disorders, and grief. Outside of Cups, I work professionally as a data scientist 🧑‍💻 in the education research sector and have a background in analytics and mathematics. I'm currently also a PhD student 🧑‍🏫 and enjoy talking with people and learning about different lived experiences. Beyond work and student life, I'm a musician 🎷 and a writer ✏️. I enjoy reading 📚, and I also regularly practice yoga 🧘 and take group fitness classes 🤸. I'm the oldest sibling of three, and I'm married with three cats 😺😺😺, several fish 🐟, and a snail 🐌.  I joined as a listener because I found support here as a member and wanted to give back, so I'm happy to hear you out and give you a safe space to share what's on your mind. My communication style is pretty flexible. I don’t mind you scheduling a set time to meet with me or just sending offline messages, so long as you respect that I may not always respond super quickly, whichever dynamic works best for you. However, if you need undivided attention, I do ask that you please schedule a time with me. I appreciate, in advance, you understanding and respecting my boundaries!  If you feel like I could be a good match for your listening needs, please leave a message, and I'll get back to you when I can!
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MsBhavnaSingh
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☕Keep Your Wellness Cup Full By Taking Care Of Yourrself Everyday!   ☕7 Cups of Tea, by Lu Tong (795 - 835 CE) The first cup kisses away my thirst, and my loneliness is quelled by the second. The third gives insight worthy of ancient scrolls, and the fourth exiles my troubles. My body becomes lighter with the fifth, and the sixth sends word from immortals. But the seventh—oh the seventh cup— if I drink you, a wind will hurry my wings toward the sacred island.☕ Hello! Miss Bhavna Here! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a Verified Active Listener and I like to support people experiencing diverse issues and stress. I do have many thoughts which I can call my own ~not one thought, not one word, not one experience~ I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. I'm currently accepting Long Term Members but it MUST be mutually agreeable. All my conversation are held in stricted confidence! I reserve the right to not listen to rude or disrespecting members. As for me, I spend a lot of time thinking either about self-care, passion projects, helping others, reading, writing or else travelling and snapping. As part time I'm voluntarily working with 7 Cups Community❣️ so my schedule can be pretty unpredictable⌛️ 🟢If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat.  🟠If I'm busy, then send me message and we can set up a time to connect. 🔴If I am offline please now that I will be answering PMs within 24-48 hours. I am accepting long term members, based on the aforementioned, let me know if you need a long term listener and we can set up a time to talk, once/twice a week up to 1.5 hours, as the case may be. You are safe here. Enjoy your stay!😊 *Note: Verified Active Listener, I am here to help!  📑Personal Specializations Include: ADHD Anxiety Bipolar Disorder Chronic Pain Depression Financial Stress Managing Emotions PTSD/Trauma Self-Harm Work-Stress Mindfulness How am I doing? I am always hoping to improve and learn in my role here. Please share feedback for me HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfHpfRb4bdstQY9J21qBtDCVmk7Ceb7fRYyyqeKc1WJGdshMg/viewform]! All Welcome! I am thankful for my struggle, because without it, I wouldn't have stumbled upon my strength. ~Alexandra Elle The powerful message you communicate to everyone reaching out to 7 Cups is “You are not alone.” PS: Please leave me a message if you'd like to chat, and I'll get back to you as soon as I can - that can sometimes take up to a week, so please be patient with me. That 'Send message' button right there, you just go ahead and press it. If I'm not available, I am unable to take live chats, but I would love to set up a time with you.  
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