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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

cristlecares
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When you can't look at the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark💜... (Did you know that you can't breath when you're smiling😮🌻?? Try it and see😮) (Expect late replies to your msgs due to my off cups commitments🌻💜 I'll try to reply back to your messages as soon as I can😇 Thank you so much for understanding 🌻) If you want to have a chat with me then please state the topics (please look at the topics I am not comfortable listening to, Thanks) you want to talk/share or if you are a listener looking for a mentor,  then please let me know🌻💙 ------------------------- Heyloooo🌻 This is cris😄 Nice to meet ya Amazing hooman bean💙 My roles :  Smile spreader ( Peer Appreciation Team member)🌻💙 Listener sharing circle host❄️ Peer support🌻✨ Doorkeeper 🚪😇 Room supporter ( Newbie hub, Mindfulness center and 50+ community)😃 ATL ( Verified Adult & Teen listener)💙 Chatroom/Listener mentor🌻 Chat Support (CS)💜 ------------------------- I am not comfortable with issues related to sexual health/relationships/self harm/abuse/domestic violence/addiction/eating disorders. I hope you will understand🌸 ------------------------- Even if you don't sleep, Dawn will break as you gaze over it.. Things will change, Things will end, things will begin It's never "Until here" but always "From here"  Even if you lose your way, cry and scream, it'll all eventually stop.. That's why even if it is scary, you can keep on living... When the sun rises, you can start walking again... - Mafuyu (given)🌻 ------------------------- If you wanna appreciate your fellow listeners/members please use this form👇 Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] If you want to become the part of peer appreciation team, apply here👇 Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] ------------------------- Amazing Chat Support Twinnie : @Star001✨💙 Awesome Listener Twinnie : @Comphi🌼💚 Lovely Chatroom Mentor Twinnie : @BlueRivercares 💐💙 ------------------------- Take care of yourself🌸💙 Have a nice time in here😇🤗 Take some cookies too🍪🍪🍪🍪
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StargirlTina
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(Note: I’m currently not able to accept any members who personally reach out to me and I apologise for not responding instantly. However, I read all your messages and would try my best to reply as soon as I can! Update: As of now my schedule is really hectic and due to this and some personal issues, I'll be unable to listen to members much or be present in the community. I might however try to respond and check in every 2-3 months as possible.) Hey there! I am Tina,here to listen to your problems and to help you feel better! 💜💙💚💛🧡💖 Here is a good song dedicated to you!  https://youtu.be/BFkTu8Y1KLs Feel free to tell me about anything and know that I wont judge you! (I aim to help people get more clarity on whatever they are experiencing) "No matter what it is that you're going through, know that I'll always be here for you"  Your happiness means so much to me..🧡 Have a great day!  Lots of love and strength to you! (Ps: I am also training myself in CBT and incorporate it in chats in an effective way, building my listening style to make it even more helpful! ~) Y O U A R E    A M A Z I N G !! IMPORTANT: I do not take self-harm or sexual issues related requests and I am sure you will find a good listener for any such requests. My roles on 7cups: Peer supporter, Listener chatroom supporter, Been a quality mentor in the past, Also have been a Part of The Peer Appreciation Team, Listener Verifier Team and Anonymous Evaluations Team. Thank you so much for reading this!🧡 A special thank you and shoutout (with cookies 🍪) to my typo twin emo for the cutest gesture of making me a colourful pfp 💃🦋:∆  @emotionalTalker2260 (will be missed in the community greatly)   ~27/08/2022
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whimsicalHope
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Hey there! I am an active listener here. Drop a message n I'll try to get back to you when I can
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Happy2Help18
L Supporter 8 201
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I have a lot of personal lived experience in mental health. Personally suffer myself with complex mental health. From Bpd, mixed anxiety, depression, CPTSD, ASD, ADHD, panic disorder and agoraphobia. Second hand experience in dealing with schizophrenia and physchosis, aswell as manic depression and bipolar. I also have lived experience within work stress, family stress, financial difficulties, LGBTQ, Boundaries, Self esteem, eating disorders and more. Take a look at my badges for reference. I've helped others through dark times, anxiety, addiction and other issues. You are not alone.  I'm studying physchology with counselling degree and I am in my 3rd year of studying. I hope one day I can truly make a difference. I'm here to listen and help. :)
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GoldenRuleJG
L Pinnacle 10 6360
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🤍Back 🤍 Any of mentees welcome to reconnect! I’d love to know how you’re doing and others too! FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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themightyhealer
L Advanced 2 462
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Welcome reader! I am ready to hear your story, go ahead tell me what is going on with you! It does not matter what your story is about, you can talk to me about "anything" and when i say "anything" i mean it (there are no taboos for me. Thus, be yourself, please!) I will try my best to help you out so i hope you can count on me to give you a hand and make you feel better. I hope to hear from you soon.  SPANISH Bienvenido lector/a! Estoy listo para escuchar tu historia, adelante cuéntame que sucede contigo! No importa que tipo de historia sea la tuya, puedes hablar conmigo de "cualquier cosa" y cuando digo "cualquier cosa" es así literal. (No hay tabúes para mí, así que se tu mismo, por favor!) Intentaré lo mejor posible de ayudarte y espero que puedas contar conmigo para darte una mano y hacerte sentir mejor. Espero saber de ti pronto.
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AshleyBxt
L Explorer 2 317
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Main topics I focus on: -Maternal parenting -Babysitting -Female issues -Sexual issues -Spiritual issues (It may sound harsh but with spirituality, I mainly focus on women) I do not help with relationship issues, I am not trained, or someone who is experienced with it at all, I am also uncomfortable with issues about relationships Understand that I'm happy to speak about sexual issues, but not issues about romance or dating Hello there! I'm a college student with a profound interest in psychology, and my dream is to become a compassionate and understanding listener. As a new listener in this unique profession, I'm thrilled to connect with individuals like you on a deeper level and provide a safe and intimate space to explore your issues. Your insights and feedback are precious to my growth in this role, and I sincerely appreciate them. Please know that I approach each topic with utmost sensitivity and respect, whether related to intimacy or family matters. I understand that these areas can sometimes intertwine, and I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you choose to share, embracing the sensual aspects of your experiences. Following our initial session, your feedback is greatly appreciated, even if you initially feel bashful. Your insights will play a crucial role in shaping our future conversations and enhancing the intimate support I provide. I aim to establish a strong and trusting connection with you, one that fosters growth, healing, and the exploration of sensuality within the realm of emotional support Ill try to always be available for a session! 05d20bded4341438f0bceb302eb2be0fbefceda5f2688e1af9463b5bad653fb276 Remember always to keep an eye out and keep your guard up! JG9LHH3WY
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LetsCherishLife
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(Deutsch: Siehe unten) I only take chats within my topics.  ​Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like a panic attack, etc., please message me. There's no need to read the rest of the profile.  Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 28-year-old female from Germany, and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with. I hope I can help you with some things based on my experience, professional university knowledge, and over six years of experience as a Listener here. I understand you well, and maybe I have suggestions, techniques, or skills to help you. For example, I'm familiar with living with chronic pain, self-harm (stopped a few years ago), and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures. I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime to possibly learn from each other in managing or getting them under control better. In the following, I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help, I will try my best to do so. If I had to describe myself as a Listener, I would say I'm primarily supportive, reassuring, and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding, I still tend to be somewhat challenging. I assure you that you have my greatest support if you choose to work with me, and I will be here for you through whatever struggle you may face. My favorite saying I took from the saw movies, which I enjoy (don't worry, I'm not a creep), is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE," and I hope I can help you do that too along the way. Send me a personal request by chatting with me or leaving me a message if: - you want to learn to live better with chronic (physical) pain/ disease, especially such that gets worse in flare-ups, or you want to know how to best support a person close to you who suffers from this (1) - you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (autism and ad(h)d included) (2) - you want to quit self-harm (3) - you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4) - you want to talk about psychological, non-epileptic/ dissociative seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them or talk about any other kind of dissociation or dissociative or psychosomatic disorder (5) - you want to chat about (C)PTSD and how it affects your life and find coping strategies that work for you (6) - you want to chat about parenting: I don't have any own kids and not so much practical experience yet, but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, especially for children with disabilities, in my future job, so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain some first experience. (7)    - you want to chat about guilt or forgiveness. I am curious about what they involve and I'd be interested in discussing them. Depending on the situation, though, I might decide that I am not the right Listener for you at some point. (8)   - you want to chat about a personality disorder (any kind). I am curious to learn more about it, how it affects people's lives, and how they manage life with it. Yet, I am not very experienced with this topic, so it would be more active listening than suggestions. (9) - you want to learn to manage, accept, and understand your thoughts, emotions, and psychological needs. (I might decide that I am not the right person depending on what they are related to, and the chat would be more focused on the thoughts, emotions, and needs themselves and identifying them rather than what causes them.) (10) - you want to chat about faith, religion, spirituality, etc. If you wish, I might share my beliefs, but I will not force them upon you. We can try to find out what you believe or how you could solve a conflict that, for example, makes you question your faith. (11) - you have general questions about mental health, want to figure out what's going on for you, what the next steps could be, what you could do to improve your allover well-being, or if you want to find out which topic(s) the right Listener(s) for you should cover (12) - you want to discuss something related to communication or violence/abuse (any form, active and passive position) to reflect on yourself generally or regarding specific situations, or you want to discuss how communication and violence are related. Depending on the exact issue, I might not be the right Listener for you. (13) - you want to ethically or morally reflect on or position yourself in general or regarding a particular situation. (14) - you want to change a particular generally controllable (own) behavior by analyzing causing and motivational factors and looking for different ways to manage these. I have the most experience with this method regarding self-harming behavior, but I want to see if I can apply it to other topics and behaviors as well (15) If you send a personal request, please start the chat with (a) code number(s) from 1 to 15 (which you see on the list, next to the thing(s) you want to chat about) to show you have read this. I do provide long-term support as well! Let me know if you wish that, so I can see what I can offer. I offer chats related to other topics like work stress if the focus is on one of the topics listed above, e.g. work-induced PTSD, communication and/or violence, or behavioral issues at work - own behavior only.  Please note: While I have my own and professional experience with some of these topics, I am not a fully trained professional. I am in education for a job where I work with people and help them, for example, through counseling. Still, here I am only a Listener and not a Therapist. That means I can't advise you on the ultimate solution. Yet, I am glad to provide suggestions where I feel it's appropriate and consider your options together if you want to. If I am offline (red), you can still message me, and I will get in touch when I see it. If I don't take your request, feel free to message me because I might have forgotten to log out, but I will get back to you when I see it. ​ Ich spreche auch Deutsch. Themen:     - chronische Schmerzen oder Beeinträchtigung bei Betroffenen und Angehörigen, - selbstverletzendes Verhalten, - Panikattacken, - dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle oder andere dissoziative Störung, - Trauma (PTBS), - Genesung/ Erholung/ Rehabililitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, - Erziehung/ Elternberatung, - Schuld und Vergebung, - Persönlichkeitsstörungen, - Umgang mit Gedanken, Gefühlen und psychologischen Bedürfnissen, - Glaube und Religion, - allgemeine mentale Gesundheit, - Kommunikation und Gewalt, - ethisch-moralische Selbstreflexion und Positionierung, - Verhaltensanalyse und -änderung (eigenes Verhalten), - Andere Themen dürfen gerne beinhaltet sein, solange der Schwerpunkt auf den genannten Themen liegt, z. B. Arbeitsleben: berufsbedingte Traumatisierung, Kommunikation und Gewalt oder (eigenes) problematisches Verhalten im Beruf. Ausschließlich andere Themen auf Anfrage, wenn sonst niemand für einen Chat auf Deutsch verfügbar ist. 
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CupOfJoy891
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Hello! I’m Aubree 💖 I'm here to offer a safe, caring space where you can feel heard and understood. Whenever you’re ready, let’s chat 🫶🏻
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unique73
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“Asking for help is never a sign of weakness. It's one of the bravest things you can do. And it can save your life.” - Lily Collins  Hi there! I am unique73 (as my username suggests), I also go by Aanya, and I am passionate about helping others who may be struggling with mental health problems. I believe that sometimes the most powerful way to help someone is simply to listen to them. I also believe that reaching out and asking for help is one of the bravest things a person can do. I am a compassionate and empathetic listener with a deep passion for mental health and wellness.  Having struggled with my own mental health challenges in the past and still struggling (manageable) I understand the importance of having someone to talk to who can provide a safe and non-judgmental listening ear. As a listener, I am committed to providing a safe and supportive space to share your feelings and thoughts.  I have more than 2 years of experience in listening on 7 cups and supporting others outside of cups too, whether it’s been as a friend, a family member, or simply a listening ear for someone in need. I have had my fair share of life and yet to experience a lot more. I get that everyone is unique and everyone’s journey of life is different. I am open to listening to your life experiences, views, struggles, insights, anything. I am also open to casual chats as long as they are appropriate and abide with the site guidelines. I understand and relate to not being able to talk and still need someone to be there for you, I assure you that I can be your companion in silence too. <3  If you feel I can provide you the space you need, feel free to reach out. I am available to chat mostly on weekends around afternoon (IST time zone). I keep my status online (green) if I am available to take a chat, if my status is busy (orange) my replies will be late, I try to give my undivided attention to the person I am listening at a time, and if my status is offline (red) I am not logged in to the website, you may expect my replies within 48 hrs. Looking forward to having a conversation with you.  Take care and have a great day/night/evening ahead.    “Your acts of kindness are iridescent wings of divine love, which linger and continue to uplift others long after your sharing.” ― Rumi
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Littlefairy28
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Hello buddy! I am glad you found me here. I know sometimes life doesn't turns out the way we want it to but that's fine it's life. I will listen to you whole heartedly and you can share anything with me without thinking. I assure you that I will be the best partner for you here like other fellow listeners here. I don't take sexual issues (apologies for that). Have a good day ahead Cheers!!
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Simbathelioncub
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Greetings, lovely souls! I'm Simba, a dedicated aficionado of human connections and a firm believer in the power of respectful dialogue. 🌟 👂 As a passionate listener, I find immense joy in tuning in to the narratives of others. Your stories, experiences, and perspectives are not just heard but cherished. My ears are wide open, ready to absorb the symphony of your thoughts and feelings. 💖 Embracing kindness and empathy, I navigate through life with the mission of fostering positive interactions. Every conversation is an opportunity to learn, grow, and spread the beauty of respect. Let's build bridges of understanding and create a world where kindness reigns supreme. 🌱 Outside the realm of conversations, you can find me sketching, painting and doing all sorts of art related stuff and you can find my some of my arts here in the hobby zone. Life is a grand adventure, and I'm thrilled to embark on it with an open heart and an unwavering commitment to treating others with the utmost respect. Join me on this journey of connection, understanding, and shared humanity. Together, let's make every interaction a testament to the incredible power of empathy. 🌍✨ #KindnessMatters #ListenerByHeart #RespectfulSoul
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