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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Ivy229
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If I’m not online and/or busy, then please feel free to leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. If we have not talked previously, please share a little about what/why you are sending me a message instead of just writing only hi, hey, how are you, the specific questions you are inquiring about and how I can best assist you in your message. Thank you for understanding and respecting this request.  *Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support, Mentorship, And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: * Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences * Certified Peer Recovery Specialist (CPRS) * Certified Recovery Support Specialist (CRSP) * "Hope Dealer"         a powerful and uplifting phrase often used to describe someone who spreads positivity, encouragement, and hope to others, even in difficult times. It's a term that highlights the impact of inspiring and motivating others to keep going, focus on the good, and believe in a brighter future. * "Survivor Provider"   One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and that will be someone else's survival guide. ~Brene Brown     Every read someone's story and think, "This is exactly what I needed to hear today?" Your story will do that for someone else.   There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. ~Maya Angelou       It's important that we share our experiences with other people. Your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else. When you tell your story, you free yourself and give other people permission to acknowledge their own story. ~Iyanla Vanzant ------------------------- Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world ------------------------- INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups * Verified Listener  * Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) * Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) * Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) * Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) * Quality Listening Program (QLP) Mentor (As of December 19, 2024) * 7 Cups Internship Mentor  (As of January 6, 2025) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: * 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) * 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) * 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  * ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides * ALL Currently Offered Training Guides * ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) * Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) * Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) * Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024) Awards I Have Received @7 Cups * Academy Awards December 2024    Forum Workshop Series I Have Completed with Certificates * Learning About Cognitive Distortions * Building Self-Esteem! * Conquering Anxiety! * Conquering Your Goals
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ToniJayne
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Hi, I'm Toni (she/her/they)   Thank you for reaching out today, count it as a self-care success! (Go you!) ------------------------- If in urgent need of a listener, please click here: ⏩Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=0&find=&sort=availability&category=&ageGroup=&listType=&gender=&religion=&country=&language=] ⏪ ------------------------- I bring compassion, acceptance, empathy, respect & curiosity to every session. Exploration, expression & brainstorming are key elements of my chats and my approach to mental health. Aligned with GMT. When Offline: Please drop me a message, I will respond as soon as possible, this may take some time as I have infrequent activity. More about me: ⋆ Proudly NEURODIVERGENT: AuDHD & Dyslexic. ⋆ 3+ years working in NHS Talking Therapies. ⋆ BSc in Psychology from Cardiff University.  ⋆ Has lived experience with long-term depression, anxiety & panic disorder. ⋆ Has several hidden disabilities and long-term health conditions including: Autism, Fibromyalgia, PCOS, Chronic Migraines, Dyslexia, POTS, IBS, Chronic pain, ADHD, Asthma, Vasovagal syncope, Acne, Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder... ⋆ Hobbies & Interests: Manga/Webcomics, Cats, Skincare, YouTube, Art, Reading, Driving, Gaming, Fantasy, Crafts, Science, Alternative Music & Learning. My roles at 7cups: ✧ Verified Active Listener ✧ Intern Graduate! With Honours ✧ Former Room Supporter (Mindfulness, 50+, Positivity & Gratitude) ✧ Former Safety Patrol Team ✧ Past ON-SPOT Sharing Circle Host (Listener & Member)
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Remina
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor.  I accept new members. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours? My Listener Twin -> Fenrisulfr
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TogetherForeverAlways
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Sventek
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, per 7 Cups' sitewide policy. NO EXCEPTIONS, ZERO, NONE. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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dtanushree
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“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” – Henry Ward Beecher Would you like to appreciate a fellow listener/member? Click on this button below 👇and appreciate them for spreading love, compassion and kindness in their own unique ways in this community. Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Chats which I do NOT take: Loneliness Sexual health Self harm *Please pm me to schedule a chat* Warning: If you're here for inappropriate chats, you're on the wrong site. This place is not for those purposes. Thank you for reading my bio. You're always welcome to pm me and I'll try to reply you as soon as possible. I hope you find all the help you need on cups.  🍁 About me: I'm a Listener since 2018. I've been in to many leadership roles. Now I only focus on being a listener here. I love to listen without judgement, validate your feelings and be there for you as a friend. 🧸 *sends bear huggss to all those who need one*
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Peacefulgardens
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Welcome, my name is Naira. I believe that one of the most effective ways to make healthy changes is to focus on building up self-compassion and understanding.  At 7Cups, in addition to earning verification, I have also completed the Quality Listening Program and Community Track Internship with Honors. I'm open to conversations on a variety of mental health topics as long as they remain appropriate and respectful.  Please keep in mind that responses to support requests may take up to 24 hours. ------------------------- Helpful Resources It is important keep in mind that listeners like me are volunteers, and we do not have the same responsibilities or expertise as licensed therapists or counselors. If you are in the United States and interested in booking an appointment with a trained therapist or counselor, some additional ways to find affordable options are Open Path Collective [https://openpathcollective.org/], Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us], Psychologist Locator [https://locator.apa.org/], and your local National Alliance of Mental Illness chapter [https://www.nami.org/findsupport/]. I believe in advocating for people seeking mental health care which is why it's important to help make this process more accessible. Although I am okay with discussing self-harm and we even have a self-harm recovery community forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfharm/], listeners must refer anyone actively at risk of harming themselves or others to crisis resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].  7Cups offers a variety of self-help guides here [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php/] for anyone wanting information on a specific topic. Listeners aiming to expand their skills can read all training guides offered here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/ListenerSupportResourcesandMockChatGuidesMasterList_228279] and here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training/].  My profile icon is photography by Cy Twombly.
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sereneMemory68
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Please note that I’m not available for sex chats, casual chats or friendships, as my focus is solely on offering emotional support. Hi there! I'm so glad you found your way here. Life can be tough, and we all need someone to lean on from time to time. Whether you’re feeling stressed, lonely, or just need to vent, I’m here to listen and support you with care and understanding. You are not alone, and together, we’ll work through whatever you’re facing. Take a deep breath, and let’s chat—one step at a time. You’ve got this, and I’m here to help!
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Aputik
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Any concerns, worries, obstacles, or impossible challenges are better off your chest. Within this safe space we will untangle the line of thoughts, feelings, and emotions.  Drop me a line to discuss whatever is on your mind, we will explore it, accept it, and figure out how to make you feel better and what's the right action for you at the moment. =)
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PetiteSouris
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🌺🌺🌺🌺 Members Not accepting personal requests. Connect with available listeners here: Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 About me Academy Mentor Leader with 7 Cups Academy.   Academy Mentor with the Internship Program. Active Listening Test 1 Grader. Available on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. 𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 Thank you for stopping by my tiny patch of digital real estate.  🌺🌺🌺 Petitesouris updated 11.13.2024
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ANyein
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Hey! I always listen to emotional struggles from friends although I have never worked as an online volunteer. I may not solve your struggles or give useful advice.  As long as you tell me, I will listen to you.  I am also struggling. He He He
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DanCat1128
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Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means. 
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