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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Minervaaa
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Sventek
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi About Me I am here to offer focused, short-term support for relationship issues, including marriage, dating, alternative relationships (including polyamory or open relationships), and sexual matters for both men and women. If you're looking for a long-term Listener, I encourage you to find someone else on 7 Cups who can provide consistent care, as my work schedule is unpredictable. What I Handle: * Relationship challenges * Infidelity * Sexual concerns * Open and closed relationship dynamics What I Don't Handle: * Any issues outside of relationships or sexual concerns * Long-term support I do not engage in Listener Chats and only speak with member accounts, per 7 Cups' sitewide policy. NO EXCEPTIONS, ZERO, NONE. That policy is located here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded8ListenerBoundaries_175467/ I am direct, factual, and sometimes blunt, but always fair and non-judgmental. If you prefer sugar-coated advice, I may not be the right Listener for you. However, if you're seeking honest, straightforward support, I'm here to help. Background: I hold an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy (Summa Cum Laude) and am currently pursuing my Doctorate in the same field, which I expect to complete in January 2025. My MA in Psychology will be completed at the end of Summer 2025. In my academic pursuit, balance is everything. You can CHOOSE me as your Listener. If my approach resonates with you.
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WarmSmile
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Hello.. I believe both of us are meeting here for a reason. If you feel a burn in your heart, or a tear that is fighting you to hide, or unspoken words that are weighing you down, then I would like to be there for you.. I would like to be the warm hug you need, and the open heart that could absorb all your worries and downfalls. Because I've been through many losses, many downfalls, and many betrayals, I know how it feels, and I would hate to see you walk these paths alone. Please don't hesitate to start a chat with me anytime if I'm online, or drop me a message and I will be there for you.
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FireGuy2025
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Hiii Ima tell you all bout me.  * Name- Alex * Age- 17 * Gender- Trans Male * sexuality- Pan * diagnosis’s- Autism, severe sensory issues, MH issues and more  now I am here to help you all!! Need anything just reach out to me! 
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Sunset316
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Hey guys! I'm glad you came to me on 7CupsofTea. I'm a listener here and I'm only here to help anyone who's in need. I've been in pain a long while back and I know how that feels. I know how it feels to know that no one is there for you. But guys, I'm here for you. Talking is always the best remedy to feel better.  ♥ I may not be able to solve all of your problems, but I promise you won't go through them alone ♥  ♥ I may not be available to accept general requests, but I always accept personal requests. ♥ If I'm online, I'm ALWAYS available to talk. But if I appear offline, shoot me a message and we can set up a time to connect :)  Why I became a listener: At first, I just wanted to pay back the community which helped me overcome some issues emotionally. But as I started to help out, I found out that I couldn't stop. I can't believe how fast I fell in love with this amazing community. Whenever I'm here, I feel a sense of peace. I feel like I'm making a difference because I know I made at least one person smile today. Somewhere out there, someone, whom I don't even know, smiled because of me. I may not have contributed much, but at least to someone out there, my words meant something. And that to me can't be compared so easily to anything else.   NOTE: PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL PASSES/COMMENTS. Indeed it's incredibly embarrassing for me to have to even say this, but due to numerous repeated incidents, I have no choice but to say it upfront. While I'm here for anyone who wants someone to talk to, I would only like to be there as a friendly stranger and nothing more.  So please. NO MEANS NO. I'm normally not a confrontational person but I will NOT tolerate boundary violations.
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CriesFromSmiles123
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"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light."~ Albus Dumbledore Hello there, how are you doing? Feeling low? Talk to me! Need to vent? Talk to me! Feeling good? Talk to me still! Just know that I am here for you to share your feelings, no matter what you are going through. <3<3<3 My Roles On 7cups. Verified listener- I have been verified as an active listener by the community, for my active listening skills, and experience. Long-term listener- I take long term members for talking. I am mostly online all the time, so feel free to message me anytime if you need to talk again. Some stuff about me 1. Loves the most- My Girlfriend. 2. Hates the most- Backstabbers. 3. On 7cups with a mission- To help more and more people, and give back to this community. ​​ The topics I have lived experience with... 1. Anxiety 2. Breakups 3. Depression 4. Panic attacks 5. Sleeping well 6. Student life 7. Loneliness Best of luck with whatever it is you are going through!!! "You will feel better than this. Maybe not right now, but you will. You just keep surviving until you are alive again."
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sia1325
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-Inactive- Feel free to click here to check my farewell post!  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiscussionsSelfCareandResources_931/ListenersFarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_37727/8/#2857905] ~Not accepting any member chat~ My name is Sia and I'm so glad to have you here! I may or may not relate to your situation, but I promise to try my best to understand what you are experiencing. I believe that having support is more valuable than having direct solutions to our problems and it would be my pleasure to support you in any way I can. I highly believe in acknowledging and reacting and once we acknowledge the problems & take steps towards them, we are two steps closer to improvement. My chats are always a non-judgmental, compassionate and safe place for everyone. I admire you so much for being there for yourself and reaching out for support. I may not be able to solve your problems, but I can surely be a companion on your path towards healing. Your feelings are valid and I truly believe in you, your inner self who believes that things will improve. You aren't alone and no matter how hard your current situation is, I am certain that you will overcome it. Stay you because you are truly wonderful. Much love! ♥  ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────   ~Few clickable resources that you may find useful~ | Crisis Resource [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] | Runaway Safeline [https://www.1800runaway.org/] | Live through this [https://livethroughthis.org/] | RAINN [https://www.rainn.org/news/rainns-new-app-offers-support-anytime-anywhere] | IMAlive [https://www.imalive.org/] | Project Semicolon [https://projectsemicolon.com/] | Grounding Techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] | Childline [https://www.childline.ie/] | HelpGuide [https://www.helpguide.org/] | Su*c*de Hotlines [http://www.suicide.org/] | Love is respect [https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/] |  Self-Harm Distraction [http://www.selfinjury-staging.com/perch/resources/distraction-techniques-pm-1.pdf] | Practicing Self-Love [https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12428/10-wonderful-ways-to-practice-selflove.html] | The Trevor Project [http://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/] | Overcoming negative thoughts [https://www.happify.com/] | Overcome Social Anxiety [https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/565957/tips-for-overcoming-social-anxiety-disorder] | Find Free Mental Health Services [https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-illness-overview/free-mental-health-services-and-how-to-find-them] | Self Help resources [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] | How To Get Control Over Thoughts [http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/abcde.htm] | Dealing With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportShareYourStoryHowdoyoufeelrightnow_667/Panic_191059/] | Coping w/ flashbacks [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/flashbacks] | Warmline [https://warmline.org/] | Domestic Violence [https://www.thehotline.org/] | Self-Harm Alternatives [https://becausewecandothistogether.tumblr.com/alternativesforselfharm] | Calming and Relaxing Gifs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] | Coping with Panic Attacks [http://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] | Self-Care Techniques [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/selfcare] | Grounding101 [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/grounding101] | Dealing with teen depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/teenagers-guide-to-depression.htm] | Coping with depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] | Showing love to yourself [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/MindfulnessPracticesSkills_490/HowCanIShowLoveToMyself_101447/1/] | Self care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BipolarSchizophreniaPsychosisSupport_63/BipolarSupport_589/SelfCare_207145/] | Boosting Self-esteem [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/self-esteem.html] | Self-Harm Alternatives 2.0 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/SELFHARMALTERNATIVES_2480/] | Reducing Self- Injury [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/post/69035624465/its-not-as-simple-as-just-stop-a-guide-to-reducing] | Handling Anxiety Attacks [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/anxiety] | Self-Harm Alternatives and Distractions [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/alternatives] | Coping with loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/CopingwithLoneliness_599/CopingwithLoneliness_252302/] | Stress relief [https://www.pixelthoughts.co/] | Atlas of Emotions [http://atlasofemotions.org/] | Healthy Distractions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/SelfCareandResources_931/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317/] | Healthy living tips [https://www.anxietycanada.com/sites/default/files/HealthyLiving.pdf] | Bullying & Cyber Bullying [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying.htm] | Managing Anger [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/anger-management.html] | Healthy sleep tips [https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/healthy-sleep-tips] | Healthy Relationships [https://www.thehotline.org/resources/healthy-relationships/] | Dealing w/ rejection [https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a30719895/how-to-deal-with-rejection/] | (Click here to check out these resources in a document format) [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1icuMsYk9d2B1iUvDCI_nABXg-mhYMKTqzZmSuTcwxws/edit?usp=sharing] ( last updated January 2022   ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  ~Some people I admire~ @beach120 @calmingMermaid5761 @EmmaE @Basorexiaaa @Mango3 @SillyGoose11 @optimisticMagic0014 @shiningSky3745 @considerateParadise6717 @kieran000 @Iamsidhere @mamtasha22 @ShiningStars1 @Jessrabbit7 @HelpfulGem04 @SeriouslyLey123 @itssoren @empatheticLavender2924 @VicK5123 @whenitsdarklookforstars @Greenchoice1 @BeautyOfGrace @thisisirene @MikuoniandBlueCheese @starmelon7 @HealingBrokenWIngs (in no particular order) ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  My Past Involvements Active Listening Test 2 Grading Team, Care Team Guide, Chat Support and Peer Support, Doorkeeper, Forum Supporter, Global Chatroom Moderator, LDP Mentor, Listener Coach, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Listener Verifier, Safety Patrol Team Member, Teen Chatroom Star, Teen Community Star, Teen Quality Star and Teen Listener Coaching team Teen Star Leader  Click here to visit the most amazing person’s profile! [https://www.7cups.com/110900955]
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Vani11aTea
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Hi there! My name is Alex and I’m here to help anyone who wants a shoulder to cry on or a second opinion on anything in your life. I’m a psychology graduate looking to do my doctorate in clinical psychology soon, with good education in clinical psychology already and cultural sensitivity. Come say hello!
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Andyman23
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I'm here to listen and extend a hand. I know life is hard. I've survived addiction and depression and anxiety. Through the darkest of times. I know how important it is to have someone there to listen and support you.
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Raspberrycheesecake
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Currently not taking member chats, please go to Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to reach out to another listener! ★ Welcome to my profile - I am Rasp. I love cats, reading and listening to music. I know what it feels like to be alone and needing a non-judgemental ear to listen to you. I know that sometimes it is hard to take that step. But it's good that you decided to reach out! ★ Verified Adult-Teen Listener • Support Session Leader • Intern Graduate (with Honors) • Peer Support • Verified Listener Team • Global Mod • Internship Mentor • Adult/Teen Quality Mentor • Support Team Leader For Eating Disorders • Community Mentor Leader For Eating Disorders • Q and A Team • Doorkeeper • Teen Transiting Mentor ★ Self-Harm Recovery (Adults) - Monday's at 3:15PM EDT • Eating Disorders (Adults) - Friday at 6PM EDT ★ Listeners - Find me in the LSR. Members - Feel free to message me when I am offline, my messages are a safe place for you!
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CheeryMango
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Welcome to my bio!  Currently on break for the month of January. Please reach out to @Heather225 or @tommy for any forum/communities related concerns. Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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pamharley003
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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