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Sunset316
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Number of ratings77 Number of reviews25 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 7, 2015 Last activein last 6 months PathStep 473 People helped195 Chats598 Group support chats1 Listener group chats2 Forum posts72 Forum upvotes118
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Hey guys! I'm glad you came to me on 7CupsofTea. I'm a listener here and I'm only here to help anyone who's in need. I've been in pain a long while back and I know how that feels. I know how it feels to know that no one is there for you. But guys, I'm here for you. Talking is always the best remedy to feel better. 

♥ I may not be able to solve all of your problems, but I promise you won't go through them alone ♥ 
♥ I may not be available to accept general requests, but I always accept personal requests. ♥

If I'm online, I'm ALWAYS available to talk. But if I appear offline, shoot me a message and we can set up a time to connect :) 

Why I became a listener:

At first, I just wanted to pay back the community which helped me overcome some issues emotionally. But as I started to help out, I found out that I couldn't stop. I can't believe how fast I fell in love with this amazing community. Whenever I'm here, I feel a sense of peace. I feel like I'm making a difference because I know I made at least one person smile today.

Somewhere out there, someone, whom I don't even know, smiled because of me. I may not have contributed much, but at least to someone out there, my words meant something. And that to me can't be compared so easily to anything else.  

NOTE: PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL PASSES/COMMENTS. Indeed it's incredibly embarrassing for me to have to even say this, but due to numerous repeated incidents, I have no choice but to say it upfront. While I'm here for anyone who wants someone to talk to, I would only like to be there as a friendly stranger and nothing more. 

So please. NO MEANS NO. I'm normally not a confrontational person but I will NOT tolerate boundary violations.

Recent forum posts
A Random Sunday Hug
Depression Support / by Sunset316
Last post
 June 4th, 2023
...See more Everyone loves sunrises. It's the beginning of the day, often associated with something new, fresh, and exciting. True, I'll admit. I love waking up before sunrise to get the most of my day and enjoy it to the best. But, I seldom see people celebrating a sunset. To me, a sunset depicts...closure. Good or bad, everything needs closure. Everything comes to an end and has to come to an end. Without that hope, I just can't find myself looking forward to another day. Hope is what drives me and keeps me sane, and in a way, it's what I've latched onto whenever I was having a rainy day. So this is just a tender reminder that I hope may work for someone: Sunrise and sunset, day and night - if something as great as a cosmic entity has a beginning and an end, why won't your biggest problems? Anything you can't control - leave it. Hold the things you can control very close to your heart. Your tears matter, and: you're not broken by any means. All you are is a human. So cry your heart out. Scream as loud as you can into that soaked pillow. At the end, when all the tears are out, spare a moment for "what's next?". Maybe the solution will suck or maybe there is none, but looking even for a cheap shot may be a better one than what you're going through today. Just some food for thought. I know that it won't work for everyone, so feel free to grab hugs at least on your way out <3
Just a lil something
Depression Support / by Sunset316
Last post
 June 3rd, 2023
...See more Just something that hopefully resonates with at least someone out there: You're allowed to mess up. You're allowed to feel twisted and inside out. Procrastinations, bad behaviors, lashing out, and feeling utterly awful: they alone don't make you a bad person. They don't define you. You're not broken or beyond repair; you're just human.
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Great listener asks great questions that further the discussion
She allowed me to come up with a good solution on my own.
Helpful and a great listener.
Really engaged listener, helped a lot
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Thank you listener
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A wonderful young listener with a very gentle and kind manner to approach the people she talks to ❤️
Caring and loving
Awesome girl ♥ She's beautiful and blunt and bold. I'll recommend her to ANYONE going through a tough time!
She just cured my heart. God bless this girl. Whenever she is, I hope her smile is as radiant as the sun. ♥ ♥ ♥ God bless ♥ ♥ ♥
such a lovely person to talk to
nice to meet you!
Honest and replies quickly
Great
Lovely .Thank you
Great and beautiful listener!
A great and a very gifted girl. I'm really surprised that she doesn't have many reviews at all!!!
I noticed her profile and it seems that she's been here for only around 3 weeks, but I must say...she always does an awesome job. Great and a very compassionate listener.
Listens to what I have to say without being judgmental. Treats me more like a friend rather than a therapist, which is what I appreciate. I've talked to many peeps. But they never really helped me. They helped a little, but Stella here is really one of a kind.

This girl is beyond AMAZING! I'm a guy and she really helped me overcome my grief. I can't believe she did it in 3 days. My family tried to do what she did for months, but once I talked to her, she showed me a new path. Something amazing.
You're awesome Stella...! Keep doing what you're doing ♥
U are an amazing listener and helped me alot and u are an beautiful person thank you ❤
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