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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

compassionateIris91
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Chaos28
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I'm glad you found me here. I've seen and done a lot, and I hope I can help you walk your path.
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Hi I'm happy that you've found my profile, I've been helping people throughout my whole life and I'll be more than happy to help you too. I'm a teacher but I'm a great listener too and I'd be more than glad if I can help you in any way possible. Let's chat!
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Hello there! I am glad you found me here, let me take you to a world free from worries. A world where you can be with me and relax ..... I will be happy to help you and will make you feel special :). Will you be my friend? I am open for 24x7 consultant
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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand. I will be able to soon. So stay tuned!  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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Hello! I'm glad you found me on 7 cups! I work at a university, so I can generally provide decent insight into problems with college life. I tend to get a lot of conversations surrounding trauma, PTSD, and eating disorders and I always admire the courage of so many people, on this site, in doing the very difficult work of moving out of isolation and reaching out to me or to someone else.   Life is difficult, confounding, short, brutal, overwhelming. It can also be sacred, gentle, encouraging, empowering, and overwhelmingly beautiful. I think we get most of that sacrednesss and beauty from other people and from within ourselves, so I am here to point people back to that and provide a space of quiet and healing, in the meantime.   
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Hello I'm glad you found me on 7 cups of tea and I'm here to help you in any way that I can. My goal is to help you with whatever you need and you have my undivided attention, if your going through a breakup, or maybe relationship problems or even family stress I'm here to listen to you so feel free to personally request me thank you and have a good day.
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Hello I am glad to be a 7 cups listener. I am interested in nature, animals, books. And have expertise in learning disabilities and creative writing as a healing tool. And if you just want to talk about yourself and the world, I would be glad to join a conversation. I believe that - It takes the same amount of energy to think a positive thought as it takes to think a negative thought. Choose the Positive,  
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Hi! My name is Sam and I'm a trained active listener on 7 Cups. We've all struggled at some point in our lives, and I've found that sharing the strength of others can make all the difference. I'm familiar with a wide range of issues, especially depression, anxiety, and relationship problems. Please feel free to drop in for a chat or send me a message if I'm off-line. There just may be something I can help you with!
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I do not handle dating or relationship breakup issues. I can help with self-esteem, depression, anxiety, PTSD, family communication skills, and personal growth. Send me a message if I'm not online and we can set up a time to chat.  Click here for Bible-related articles about emotional health [https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/peace-happiness/] Contact me if you have questions on the above articles. Recommended exercises:  Expressive Writing - Every day take a piece of paper and for 15 minutes write all the feelings, words, thoughts you hear inside your head.  After you are done, you can throw it away if you want, because the good comes from letting your mind sort out all the confusing things going on.  A lot of people who do this see a gradual clearing after a a few months. https://positivepsychology.com/benefits-of-journaling/ Radical Acceptance of Feelings - We waste a lot of energy struggling and fighting with our feelings.  "I feel so sad... why am I feeling so sad, snap out of it.  Am I some kind of loser? blah blah blah" Instead we can accept our feelings as reality, even if we don't agree with them.  The "whole you", the bigger "you" can be with that part of you that has that overwhelming feeling.  You can say to yourself "You are feeling so sad, so alone, so isolated from everyone.  It's ok.  You can be the way you are for as long as you need to be."  Then take a deep breath and let that thought sink in for a minute. You are showing compassion for the feeling, letting it be, giving it space and that allows it to gradually change.  You then have more energy to move on. (This is from DBT, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and the work of Ann Weiser Cornell.) Clearing a Space - Imagine you walk into a basement or garage and it's a total mess, junk all over the place.  Where to begin?  So you start by just taking one thing at a time and putting it in a box, and when it's full set the box aside and start with a new empty box.  You don't have to sort the stuff, you just put it all in boxes and stack the boxes against the wall.  When you're done you have a nice clear space in the middle and you feel better. Our minds are like that. Inside there's all this stuff, so we feel distracted and anxious.  So take the first thing you find inside, look at it, and set it aside.  Like maybe it's that remark your partner made yesterday that really hurt your feelings - what should you do with it?  For now just set it aside.  Then go to the next one, look at it, set it aside.  Keep going until there's nothing left.  You have a nice clear space inside your mind.  Sure, all the stuff is still there, but it's there on the sides.  So now at least for a few minutes you can take a deep breath and enjoy the peace. (From the work of Gene Gendlin, Focusing) Self-Compassion Exercises https://self-compassion.org/category/exercises Resources for Survivors of Childhood Abuse Self-help books isurvive.org/helpful-resources/books-you-may-find-helpful/ [https://isurvive.org/helpful-resources/books-you-may-find-helpful/] Anonymous text chat support online.rainn.org [http://online.rainn.org]  International directory https://nomoredirectory.org/ International Crisis Support https://www.befrienders.org/ International Directory of Hotline Support https://findahelpline.com/ [https://findahelpline.com] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Hey! I'm so glad you're here, I'm not an expertise in anything just want to help someone in any way I can, because sometimes we just need someone to talk to. I'm rarely online so If I'm not around just leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can or set a time. >Academy Mentor QLP >Verifier keep smiling :)   "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." Robert Frost
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