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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

FrenchToast
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Please note that I am no longer an active ambassador nor do I have any leadership roles on 7 Cups anymore. Hello everyone, I'm Toast! Welcome to 7 Cups and my profile :) I try my best to contribute positively to the community. Unfortunately, at this time, I do not have the time to take up regular member chats. I do have some occasional times that I might be able to, but my status will be green at that time and I only take one-off chats so if you are looking for long-term support, please reach out to another listener. I also only do 45-minute-long chats. But otherwise, my other life commitments restrict me from responding in a timely manner. Please look at my profile for topics I am and I am not comfortable with. That being said, my PMs are always open! I will get back to you as soon as I can, please bear with me on my response time. Feel free to always resend a message if need be! ------------------------- {the undercurrent pulls my body it sweeps pulling my out its anger it keeps the undercurrent draws a turbulent tempt it tumbles my heart with vehement intent the undercurrent rages But I'm sturdy and strong adept in the water for that's where I belong the undercurrent subsides I'm floating serene my eyes see the sun I still live, I still dream -Eileen Manassian, "The deleted poems". } ------------------------- "Our wounds are often the openings into the best and the most beautiful part of us." -David Richo
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SoothingHope
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Hi. Im Traci. A Verified listener. Im here to listen to you, but that does not mean i have all the solutions to your 'problems', as im a not a 'listener' by profession. "The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to ocercome, to eendure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering". I hope u do feel better after talking to me.                  
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theRealTBG
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I am sorry but can't take any new chats right now. If things change I will edit this again Welcome to 7 cups. I believe in treating everyone with respect. If you need to vent or want support, I am here for you. I have been depressed for decades, but have found 7 cups to be an awesome site full of kind people. Leave a message if I am offline and I will get back to you as soon as I can, or you can also go to www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners if you need support right now.
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EchoEce17
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📢 Hey Everyone! 📢 Just a quick update: Due to some personal matters that need my attention, I'll be available by appointment only for a little while. 🌟🕒 Here’s the plan: I’ll be online from 3-4 PM GMT +5:30 every day to help you schedule appointments. 📅🔧 If this time doesn’t work for you, no worries! You can always drop me a DM, and we’ll find a time that suits you. 💬✨ Thank you so much for your patience and understanding. Looking forward to connecting with you soon! 😊🙌 DEAR  FRIEND As Listener, it is my responsibility to listen closely to everything said during the chats, with particular attention. I will try my best to crack the code of  your problem . Communication will be imperfect, but you can achieve optimum success if you are attentive and actively make efforts to understand. I am not a perfect person , but i wish i am proper enough to ride out your troubles. I value my guests a lot . I may not always accept your requests as i may have many chats  so  either contact other listeners or you may even send me a request after some time . I try my maximum to accept all your request . THANK YOU  What's more satisfactory or healthy than helping people smile and no matter how hard life is you have a family to ponder on. You're never left alone and you're taken care of. I will try to give my best shot to all your issues . I wish you'd reciprocate with utmost truthfulness and never hide a thing from me. That'd help both of us know each other and don't worry! We'll work together and take you out of this issue. I take chats mainly on relationships and parenting . I do take other chats on  # Break-ups # Moving on  # Getting unstuck # Pregnancy # Anxiety # Managing Emotions # Family stress  # Forgiveness  # Work Stress # Depression I do not take chats on sexual issues. THANK YOU  LOTS OF LOVE  ECHO 
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calmRose33
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Hi I'm calmrose33 I have been an active listener since 2016.
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kindcherry2
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💜⭐️*Please Read my Bio before messaging me!*⭐️💜 Hello! Welcome to my profile! Pronouns she/her I've been through a lot and I'm here to listen and support you. I know what it's like to deal with mental health struggles. It can be very exhausting. You're are stronger than you think you're are. You've been through so much and I admire that. ❤️ If you're reading. I want you to know you're being heard and your feelings and emotions are valid. 💜 If you are currently experiencing any passive or active suicidal ideation. Please refer to the crisis resources I have provide below. As 7 cups is not permitted and not trained to deal with these kind of chats and situations. Please reach out to a hotline as they are professionals and can provide more help than I can here on 7 cups. If you are having thoughts about hurting anybody else please reach out to crisis resources as well. As for self harm if you are currently self harming you should reach out to crisis resources and get the appropriate help you need.  Crisis Resources Here: Crisis – 7 Cups Help Center [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis#:~:text=A%20crisis%20is%20considered%20when%20you%20feel%20you,7%20Cups%20and%20the%20free%20volunteer%20Listener%20program.]   [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis#:~:text=A%20crisis%20is%20considered%20when%20you%20feel%20you,7%20Cups%20and%20the%20free%20volunteer%20Listener%20program.]Crisis Resources: Dial 988/Text 988 for US only For people in the US 1-800-273-TALK(8255) Suicide Prevention Line: Lifeline (988lifeline.org) [https://988lifeline.org/] Text: HOME to 741741 to connect to crisis counselor (For US and Canada only) Teen Line is another crisis website where you Connect, Talk & Get the Help you need! Teen Line | Teens Support hotline - Connect, talk, get help! [https://www.teenline.org/] These numbers can also be found when you click on - Crisis Resources Here: Crisis – 7 Cups Help Center [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis#:~:text=A%20crisis%20is%20considered%20when%20you%20feel%20you,7%20Cups%20and%20the%20free%20volunteer%20Listener%20program.] To find a new listener click here: Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  💗You're not alone in this! Sending hugs to you out there in the world!  💗 I take chats on: Everything that listed as direct experience, or the rest of the topics listed under the lived experience ❤ Status: Green- Available to take chats and will respond right away! Orange-I have already taken the max chats and I'm focusing on them. Or I may be busy doing things for 7 cups. You're welcome to leave me a message though. I will try to respond as soon as possible.   Red-Usually my offline status is set when sometimes I am online. If I don't respond within an hour. It means I'm busy doing other things. My time zone is EST. So if you're from a different time zone it may be hard for me to respond. But you're welcome to leave a message. Will try to respond as soon as possible.  💙Thank you for reading my bio. Please take care of yourself and Stay safe!💙   My Roles:  Active Listening/Verified Listening Translation team for Russian project Listener Chatroom Supporter/Forum Supporter for Trauma Support Subcommunity/Self Harm Recovery Subcommunity  
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Isaac
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The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.
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Kyoshi
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Due to personal reason on hiatus until further notice  I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Group support mentor I help to strengthen and improve specific areas in the group support chats, if you have questions regarding group support you can reach out to me  -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts I have written everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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Serenebo
L Marvel 9 3998
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it helps to get a clear mind, during busy times, message me if you need that I'll do what I can to keep up, so hopefully you can trust that
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CaringEzra
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Hello Lovelies! 🌸 Thank you so much for stopping by my bio! It’s absolutely lovely to meet you and have you here. 🫶  I know that reaching out for help can be one of the toughest things to do, especially when life feels overwhelming and you are facing all of life's struggles. So, I just want to take a moment to tell you how incredibly proud I am of you for being here today. It’s no small feat. 🌻 I want you to know you are doing great, no matter if everything else makes you think otherwise! You Are Amazing! 🌟  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── About Me: 🌟 My name is Ezra, and it’s an lovely to meet you. I’m here to offer you a safe space to share whatever is on your mind. Whether you're going through something big or small, please know that you are never a bother to me. We can talk about anything at all. 🌷This chat is a place where i hope you will feel heard, supported, and never judged. Sometimes life can feel so lonely, like nobody understands, but please know—you don’t have to face it alone. We’ll get through it together. All the small steps we take matter and step by step we navigate the most challenging problems that are faced. I’m here for you, always. 💫 Please, if I’m online, don’t hesitate to reach out. If I’m offline, feel free to leave me a message, and we can find a time to connect. I'm so glad you’ve made it here. 😊  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── In case you have forgotten today… You are beautiful✨, You are seen👀, You are loved💕, You are worthy🏆, You are amazing, You are enough🌱, You are irreplaceable, You are important🌟, You are strong💪, You are capable🎯, You are needed,🧩 You are wanted🐶, You are enough🌈, You are amazing🎉 just as you are🌸  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── For my LGBTQ+ friends🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈: You are loved and celebrated here, exactly as you are. This is a space where you are accepted, welcomed, and cherished without any conditions. No matter your journey, your identity, and who you are is valid, cherished, and respected. Whether you’re exploring who you are or have known for years, you are perfect just as you are. ️‍🌈💛  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── 💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts *wraps you hugs if okie* I want you to know that I care deeply about you.I know it may feel like you’re in a hopeless place, but you are not alone.  You may not believe it right now, but you are worthy of living, you are not a waste of space, and you are so much more than what you’re going through. The world is a better place with you in it. We’re hanging on together, and one day, we’ll see how things get better, even if it’s hard to imagine now. You’re so incredibly brave and strong, even in this moment when you may not feel like it. Please reach out for help because you deserve support—you owe it to yourself to be here. 💛 While 7 Cups isn’t a crisis site and listeners dont have the right training, I want to share some resources that could offer you some help or support: Please take a moment to read this: https://metanoia.org/suicide/ Once you read that please reach out to someone anyone, Family, friend, mentor, school, counselor, church, hotline cups crisis page:https://www.7cups.com/crisis/   List of international hotlines: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines/  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── Friendly Reminders: 🌻 Maybe some things don’t get better, but we do. We grow stronger. We learn to live with the messiness and adapt to what we can’t change. We may not always be fully okay, but we’re here, trying our best—and that’s worth celebrating too. 🎉 🌻 Your feelings are valid, and you have every right to express them. It’s okay to feel deeply, and remember that you won’t always feel the same way you do right now. 🌻 Mistakes are part of being human, and every choice you make, every feeling you have, makes sense in the bigger picture of your life. Someone else, in your shoes, would likely feel just the same. 🌻 And most importantly, love yourself, speak yourself, because: 🌻"Life gets hard, and it gets messed up, When you give so much, but it’s not enough, When the highs are too high, and the lows are too low, Don’t let it kill you—don’t let it break your heart." ❤️ 🌻 Healing does not mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ─── Let’s Walk Together: Sometimes, being human can feel heavy. Life can feel overwhelming, and the weight of our thoughts can be too much. Whether it's panic, sadness, anger, frustration, or numbness—you don’t have to face it alone. I will not have all the answers, but dark places are so much less scary when you’re not alone.  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ───  With love, Ezra, (Ez, essie, estre, Z, zar, zaresoaus, fai, starsie, stars, cool grandma) #hopeforhappyfeet #meepmeep #ByeByeCliques #EdGang #UnicornsForSienna  ─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ───
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rrretsuko
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hello! i'm rrretsuko ! at the moment, i'm working on freshening up my 7 cups account as i have been inactive for a while. please be patient with me as it will take me a while to adjust to being active on the site once more <3 i am a college student with a job, so i currently have a very busy schedule. for this reason, it will take me a while to get my listener account back on track. i have a passion for helping others and i am comfortable with providing support for most topics <3. though i cannot say i've had experience with every subject, i like to try my best with listening to others who need someone to talk to. i love poetry, music, ecology, and traveling :) my availability : green - i am online and accepting chats ! orange - i am online but either busy helping a member or in the support rooms. if you leave a message, i won't reply until i am done helping the member i am listening to at that moment or when i leave the support rooms ! red - i am offline and not responding to any messages at the moment. if you leave a message, i may take awhile to respond depending on how busy i am ! mondays - thursdays : i am typically quite busy on weekdays as i have college classes to attend and work. my availability throughout the day will vary, but i will likely be most active after 5 pm until 9 or 10 pm :) fridays - sundays : i don't have a set schedule for anything during these days, however, they are my designated days for relaxation, studying, and doing whatever else i need to get done. for this reason, availability throughout these days will vary my roles on cups ! : i am refraining from holding any roles as i feel i am not able to fulfill any other responsibilities <3 • verified listener : i have been verified by the community based on my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting ! i passed a mock chat with a mentor in order to receive this badge :) previous roles: peer appreciation team member, listener check-in host, forum supporter, subcommunity leadership events team member, listener events team member, LDP mentor, project agent, listener verifier team member, teen discussion host, chatroom moderator, safety patrol member, peer supporter, and listener coach chats i do not take ! [please read] : • any flirty or sexual conversations • chats from members who are suicidal or actively self-harming and seeking crisis support as it is against 7 cups guidelines and a big trigger for me. please refer to a hotline here [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines] instead • roleplaying chats of any sort  • chats from members who treat me disrespectfully • topics on age regression as it can be triggering for me • chats that get too graphic/detailed when describing sexual events side notes ! [please read] : • i do not recommend relying on me for fast replies if you message me out of the blue for an unscheduled chat  • there are chances i may not get back to you in certain circumstances. this most likely means that i am busy and unable to give you support at the time. you can find another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] in the meantime !
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Lovelyday33
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Hi! I'm John. I'm happy you are reaching out to me on 7 cups of tea! I am here to listen and want to do my best to help.  Just think.  Once a powerful person gained the power to destroy the lives of people across the world with the push of a button.  Today, a powerless person is showing care and support for people all over the world with a few quick key strokes.  Maybe its evolution.
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