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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

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I wanted to become a 7 Cups listener because I know how it feels to want someone to listen and need to feel validated and supported in my most vulnerable moments. I also wanted to provide any support to those who need it. So far I feel I’ve not only gained perspective, but I’ve become more consciously aware of my response and how to appropriately approach others. I am open to ANY conversation, please don’t hesitate to message me! :)
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MoonlightPrimrose
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- 🌼 If you reach out to me while I am offline, please keep in mind that it will likely take 1-2 weeks for me to respond. Briefly introduce yourself and what you would like to talk about and let me know what days and times would generally work for you, so we can set up a time to chat as soon as possible 🌼 - ------------------------- Hey! Great that you found me here on 7cups. My screenname here is MoonlightPrimrose, but you can call me Louie or Lou if you want. My pronouns are they/them and he/him. I've been listening on and offline for more than 7 years now, I like to read, I like to be creative in many different ways with photography, drawing, painting, writing and playing DnD and I have a gentle spiritual self-care practice of Tarot, Yoga Asana, meditation and other grounding and connecting techniques. I am also quite passionate about social justice and try to learn and unlearn every day. I do my best to consider my own positioning as a white, upper-middle class neurodivergent disabled queer trans person in my listening work. I am very queer. I use a lot of different words and labels to describe myself, depending on people and situations in my life. Some of them are: trans*, non-binary, gay, transmasculine, greyromantic, or simply queer. Feeling alone, overwhelmed or sad is something I know, but I also know how much it helps to just talk to someone... It's not always a solution to every single problem, but it's often a relief to know that there are people out there who care for you and who know what you are going through. We are meant to support each other. We are not meant to fight through this life on our own. I've experienced struggles with bullying, school and family stress, anxiety, depression, coming out and other issues of queer (gender) identity myself and this might help you feel heard if we share these experiences. If you feel like we might be a good match: Just send me a message. As mentioned above it might take 1-2 weeks for me to respond, but we'll schedule a time to chat if I have capacity and see where it goes from there. The chats I schedule are up to 50 minutes long and my timezone is CET. If I have the capacity and feel like we match well I will offer follow-up chats towards the end of our first one. As you might have noticed: I'm from Germany and German is my native language. So if there are fellow Germans out there who want to talk, schreibt mir einfach, dann können wir natürlich auch Deutsch reden :) ------------------------- - Louie -
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confidentpanda
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weallthesame
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I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling in thier life. I enjoy (hiking, reading ). I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!     Listener Buddy: TheListener7867    
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BatmanAtYourService
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"ON A SELF-CARE BREAK!" "Verified Listener" Hi there! Thanks for visiting my batman cave! I'm here for you. I believe in you. You all are amazing. *Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.*  ALIVE IS AWESOME!   
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hirai111
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Hi, I'm Hira, and I'm here to support you to the best of my ability. I genuinely enjoy talking and helping people, so feel free to talk to me about anything – I won't consider it a burden. If you're feeling the weight of ongoing conflicts or distressing events like those involving human rights violations, know that I'm here to listen. I strongly condemn any form of oppression, ethnic cleansing, apartheid, genocide, racism, dehumanization, sexism, etc. My goal is to provide a safe space for you to express your emotions and find support during difficult times. As someone who has an ED, MDD, CPTSD, GAD, and SAD, I really hope everyone feels like they have support in their life and know that they are truly not alone when dealing with mental illnesses. You are so strong for living and are so much more than what a mental illness defines you as. It may feel like no one understands how horrible it is to deal with mental illnesses and the loneliness and vulnerability that comes along with it but so many people might feel the same as you, and with some support, can slowly heal. We are all human, and that's all it takes to feel empathy and compassion. I hope that you are able to find that support you need and can find so much happiness that you don't know what to do with it.  I am a psychology major with a concentration in clinical psychology and am preparing for a masters in mental health counseling. I also have completed the 40 hour accredited RBT training course and will be taking the exam to be certified as an RBT. I currently am not taking requests, but will start taking them again once I can! Thank you for taking the time to read this and I sincerely hope you feel heard for your issues and feel better, even if its just a little bit better than how you felt before. <3 
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Kate1531
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Hi there! I am a counselling and psychology student and love listening to others and helping them with whatever is on their mind! 
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compassionateMoon4024
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I am a individual with struggles and successes. I've been told I couldn't do something. Then I prove them wrong. Prove them wrong by doing it!  I do have a strong background in special Education, Healthcare and working with disabilities.
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EvelyneRose
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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supportiveRiver8773
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Hello i found this place when I was looking for someone to talk to, but then I decided to become a listener because the only times that I feel worthy of living is when I help someone even by just listening because I know how it feels when you need to be heard. I can’t solve your problems but I will do my best to make you feel better.
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trueconfidant123
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Accepting Limited Chats, Feel Free To PM ------------------------- Learner, Explorer, Driven by Creative Instinct My Current Roles on 7 Cups  Verified Listener Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Internship Community Forum Supporter: Women's Issues ------------------------- My Former Roles on 7 Cups Listener Room Supporter Peer Support Forum Supporter: Positivity & Gratitude Community Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Academy ------------------------- I specialise in chats concerning  * Relationship Stress, Breakups * Anxiety, Panic Attacks * Family Stress * Women's Issues * General Mental Health, Getting Unstuck having been through them myself  However, I also take chats on the categories mentioned in the list below ------------------------- 🟢 Available for listening now, feel free to reach out 🟡 Currently busy with another chat or other 7 Cups duties, expect a delay 🔴 Currently offline ------------------------- Note: * * I do not take chats on/cannot assist you with Sexual Health Issues, LGBTQ+ Issues, Alcohol/Drug Abuse, Self-Harm, Suicidal Ideation, Crisis due to personal reasons or trigger. If you are someone looking forward to seek support under these categories, you may browse alternative listeners/check out crisis resources. * I am not comfortable with inappropriate, flirtatious texting and I am strictly against it. Kindly respect my boundaries as a listener. Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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Rainboho
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I'm Missy, a verified listener and would be honored to listen and support you!  🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+ 🧡 Porn/sex issues & their partners ❣️ Addiction accountability partnership 💚 Cannabis (medical & otherwise)  💜 Spiritual, trans-personal crisis  💖 Confidence in love & lust  💗 New relationships  💛 Alcohol issues  💙 Survivors of child abuse  ❤️‍🩹 Living with chronic disease ❤️ Self love acceptance  💕 Mixed orientation relationships 💔 Relationship breakdowns 🖤 Grief & accepting mortality 🐶 Grieving pet loss 🐰 Animal rights advocacy support (for activists and vegan/vegetarians) If I'm set to busy or away please know I'll reply as soon as I return.
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