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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Matthew2414
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I do not handle dating or relationship breakup issues. I can help with self-esteem, depression, anxiety, PTSD, family communication skills, and personal growth. Send me a message if I'm not online and we can set up a time to chat.  Click here for Bible-related articles about emotional health [https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/peace-happiness/] Contact me if you have questions on the above articles. Recommended exercises:  Expressive Writing - Every day take a piece of paper and for 15 minutes write all the feelings, words, thoughts you hear inside your head.  After you are done, you can throw it away if you want, because the good comes from letting your mind sort out all the confusing things going on.  A lot of people who do this see a gradual clearing after a a few months. https://positivepsychology.com/benefits-of-journaling/ Radical Acceptance of Feelings - We waste a lot of energy struggling and fighting with our feelings.  "I feel so sad... why am I feeling so sad, snap out of it.  Am I some kind of loser? blah blah blah" Instead we can accept our feelings as reality, even if we don't agree with them.  The "whole you", the bigger "you" can be with that part of you that has that overwhelming feeling.  You can say to yourself "You are feeling so sad, so alone, so isolated from everyone.  It's ok.  You can be the way you are for as long as you need to be."  Then take a deep breath and let that thought sink in for a minute. You are showing compassion for the feeling, letting it be, giving it space and that allows it to gradually change.  You then have more energy to move on. (This is from DBT, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and the work of Ann Weiser Cornell.) Clearing a Space - Imagine you walk into a basement or garage and it's a total mess, junk all over the place.  Where to begin?  So you start by just taking one thing at a time and putting it in a box, and when it's full set the box aside and start with a new empty box.  You don't have to sort the stuff, you just put it all in boxes and stack the boxes against the wall.  When you're done you have a nice clear space in the middle and you feel better. Our minds are like that. Inside there's all this stuff, so we feel distracted and anxious.  So take the first thing you find inside, look at it, and set it aside.  Like maybe it's that remark your partner made yesterday that really hurt your feelings - what should you do with it?  For now just set it aside.  Then go to the next one, look at it, set it aside.  Keep going until there's nothing left.  You have a nice clear space inside your mind.  Sure, all the stuff is still there, but it's there on the sides.  So now at least for a few minutes you can take a deep breath and enjoy the peace. (From the work of Gene Gendlin, Focusing) Self-Compassion Exercises https://self-compassion.org/category/exercises Resources for Survivors of Childhood Abuse Self-help books isurvive.org/helpful-resources/books-you-may-find-helpful/ [https://isurvive.org/helpful-resources/books-you-may-find-helpful/] Anonymous text chat support online.rainn.org [http://online.rainn.org]  International directory https://nomoredirectory.org/ International Crisis Support https://www.befrienders.org/ International Directory of Hotline Support https://findahelpline.com/ [https://findahelpline.com] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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sanctuaryofemotions
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Willing to help people at every turn of life. It's who I am, who I've always been.
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Zebrasarcastic
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Hey! I'm so glad you're here, I'm not an expertise in anything just want to help someone in any way I can, because sometimes we just need someone to talk to. I'm rarely online so If I'm not around just leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can or set a time. >Academy Mentor QLP >Verifier keep smiling :)   "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." Robert Frost
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AnnaSilverberg
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🔔Currently not accepting member chats unless referred🔔 💙 Please find another listener: here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 💙   .·:*¨Welcome¨*:·.  ✨ I am Anna ✨ 💙 A Verified Listener here on 7Cups 💙 • ───── • ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ • ───── •  ✨💙✨ We all have a history, different stories and experiences. 🌿 💚I’m here to provide support and listen💚  I don’t give advice because that's not what I'm here to do  But getting advice from others isn’t what we truly need  ⭐️We talk, that is the path to our own solution ⭐️ 〰 Healing isn’t linear 〰 ✨💙✨ ✨  •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• My Status here at 7Cups: Ambassador for Listener Coaching Team & Quality Mentors  ATL (Adult Teen Listener) Chat Room Mentor Chat Room Moderator - Global Chat Support Peer Supporter Smile Spreader Quality Mentor (Adult & Teen) Quality Mentor Leader for:  Anonymous Evaluations 🔆  I'm also a graduate from the: 🎓 Quality Listening Program  Leadership Development Program - With honors Group Development Program - With honors  ✧ ⋆ ───── ⋆ ───── ⋆☆⋅✧⋅☆⋆ ───── ⋆ ───── ⋆ ✧  Silly badges acquired in chatrooms for fun: Knower of Fonts * Glitter Spreader * * Busy Bee ✧ •············• ♡ •············•.✧.•············• ♡ •············• ✧  💖 Twin Brian 💖 🚀 @Jenna 🚀 ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ ✨ Listener Twin ✨ 🌈 @YourCaringConfidant 💚 ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ 💠Kindness Twin💠 💎 @Kristynsmama 💜 ✧ •············• ♡ •············•.✧.•············• ♡ •············• ✧  Chats I’m comfortable with: ADHD, Anxiety, Autism Disorder Chronic Pain, Domestic Violence Family Stress, Financial Stress General Mental Health Getting Unstuck, Managing Emotions Obsessive Compulsive Disorder PTSD – Trauma, Self-Esteem,  Work Stress 💙 🚫Chats that I don't take for personal reasons/lack of knowledge:🚫 .Loneliness. .Men's Issues. .Life threatening illnesses. .Grief. .Relationship Stress. ✧*⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁*✧ ✦⋆☽ ⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂☾ ⋆✦ My chats are ⏰ one hour ⏰ long. They can also be offline chats, depending on agreement.  🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ·✦•············•✦•·············•✦ ·˚°◦❤◦°˚· ✦•·············•✦•············•✦· 
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Lou73
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--- ❄ Not accepting new member chats - Jan 2025 ❄ --- Hello I'm Louise (she/her) 🦋 Welcome to 7 Cups! Please read my bio before sending a message 💙 Part of the LGBTQ+ community 🌈 My Leadership Roles:  Group Support Mentor Leader (GSML),  Team Leader - Member Sharing Circles Chatroom Moderator: -Sharing Circle (and Newbie hub) -Personality Disorders Community -Global Mod Doorkeeper and Safety Patrol Team - Feel free to send a message if you need a room opened or closed or a profile flagging.  Member Sharing Circle Host: Mon and Tues 6PM ET Proud recipient of the Persistence Badge 🌸 and 4 Tulip Awards 🌷🌷🌷🌷 Previous roles: Forum Supporter - Hobby Zone 🎨 Chatroom Supporter - Hobby Zone 🦉 Smile Spreader for Peer Appreciation Team ------------------------- For member chats: Please no chats for: - sexual health, abuse, men's issues, domestic violence, relationship issues, addiction - dissociative disorders, pregnancy or bulimia - casual chats Accepting chats for: - borderline personality disorder (BPD or EUPD), managing emotions - anxiety, depression, panic attacks, social anxiety, bullying, family stress - student life, work stress Usually online between 5pm and 8pm (Cups time) or leave me a message and I'll reply when I can 😊 -------------------------
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Hamstermum
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I'm a teacher and educator with an interest in the therapeutic role of creativity. Being human just makes me want to help, no matter what you need to talk about.  A lot of my work has included listening, so 7 Cups is a great place to keep up the practice. I listen to adults and promise to be an empathetic and patient listener (and not judge!) if you come to chat to me. I also take on long term listening, so if you need support over a period of time I can help there too. My hours vary, but at the moment I can often be found online on Friday / Saturday evenings. I am in the UK, so remember I work on GMT / BST 😁 I also rescue hamsters - hence my ID on here - and train them to be therapy animals.  🐹
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coolvibes
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Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message. I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. I take long term chats and mold My listening to my members needs just like a warm cozy blanket. I am willing to support most topics, all I ask is you be mindful of the site rules and respect my personal boundaries on extreme and inappropriate content. I am available for one hour chats and reply to request with in a 24 hour period. My time zone is CDT I chat once to twice a week and also can reply offline if that is your preference. On scheduled chats there will not be any in between time responses, but I will respond to anything previously texted on that scheduled meeting. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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Aayla
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Hi! I'm here to listen and support, but I'm less active than I was in the past: if I'm not online, send a message and describe your issue, if possible I'll get back as soon as I can!   Please note that I prioritize these types of chat: - users with LGBTQ+ related issues - women affected by gender-based violence - people affected by war or humanitarian crises, particularly Palestinian and Kurdish people
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Lifelighter
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I welcome you to 7cups and hopefully you have just taken the first step in a direction you would like to go! I am an experienced listener as this has been an essential part of my work for several years. I am realistic in what I can do to help, and non-judgemental and sensitive in my approach  I have worked with people through many difficult times relating to a variety of life's issues and challenges - and I have also personal experience of some difficult life challenges and choices. I don't ever pretend I have all the answers though! But through talking and listening together, maybe I can help you reflect and talk more on whatever has brought you here, maybe from a different or wider perspective than you have so far seen, and maybe this will help you see your way forward a little more clearly. If my listening helps you to do that even in a small way, then perhaps you will feel more motivated, or positive, or re-assured, calmer or comforted - and that you will feel the time we will have shared has been worthwhile! We are all human ... and that makes us all unique in who we are but often we have life experiences in common. Many of those are challenges and choices that many others have faced, so surely it can make sense to share and learn from each other as we all go through life! So now that you have found 7cups and maybe even read my profile, all you need to do now is take the second step and make contact! If I am not on-line, please leave a message and I will reply as soon as I can to arrange a mutually convenient time to listen, share and reflect ..... and hopefully you can take the next step forward in the direction you want to go.
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hopefulDew435
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Here to help and be there as support or a form of comfort to anyone who needs me to be. Note: Do not send me a message if you intend on flirting or intend to engage any kind of sexual conversation. 
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Waltzzzz
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Hello! I Don't Take Requests anymore. "  Use This 😊👇  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]/  
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EmpathicSunshine22
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On break.
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