Bio
Hello! Thanks for visiting :)
I'm Vegas! I use any pronouns, and I am of the GMT+8 timezone. Let's learn and grow together! Feel free to leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. I'm generally more active past 8AM ET, but I try to pop in on 7Cups to help at other times of the day.
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Regarding my listening style:
I strive to provide a safe, non judgemental space in my 1-1 chats. I prefer the members to direct the flow of the conversation so that it is one that addresses your concerns, but if you're stuck, I will try to prompt with open ended questions. That being said, you can share as much as you're comfortable sharing, I won't push you for information that you're not comfortable sharing.
When I listen, I try not to interrupt when you're typing. While this may come across as silence, please be reassured that as long as I accepted your request, I will listen to whatever you have to say.
I will always indicate how long I am available to listen to you. If it's not enough time for you, I'm always open to scheduling a longer chat another day!
I'm always happy to accept long term members - I actively try to reconnect with members I've been with for awhile to know how you're doing and if you need someone to listen :) If you'd like someone to be with you for your healing journey, I'd be happy to walk beside you and cheer you on.
☞ Important: Please read the following if you're considering sending a personal request!
I'm open to taking requests of most any kind, but here are some topics that I'm better at receiving, and others that I'm not as good with handling for your reference.
Issues I'm most comfortable providing support with are:
✓ Anxiety
✓ Social Anxiety
✓ Student Life
✓ Self Esteem
✓ Managing Emotions
✓ LGBTQ+ Issues
These are issues that I've personally experienced, so I'm more familiar with them.
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Issues I'm not as comfortable discussing are:
✘ Borderline (BPD)
✘ Domestic Violence
✘ Financial Stress
✘ Men's Issues
✘ Parenting
✘ Self-Harm
✘ Sexual Health
✘ Spirituality
These are generally issues that I don't know enough about. If you're looking for someone to talk to about these, I may not be your best fit. I wish you all the best looking for someone who can help you with these, though!
Thanks for reading so far, and I look forward to hearing from you soon!
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