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softHeart56
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Number of ratings20 Number of reviews6 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Afrikaans Listener sinceMar 4, 2018 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 131 People helped22 Chats39 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes12
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Hi, I'm so happy that you found me. I'm a trained listener on 7 cups. I would love to help you with any problems. If I'm online please feel free to message me. If I'm not I'll get back to you within 24 hours.

Recent forum posts
How to make a friend
Relationship Stress / by softHeart56
Last post
 November 23rd, 2019
...See more I'm a 27 year old married woman and a mom to 2 beautiful boys. I'm also a school teacher. My life was recently thrown upside down when I realised that my husband has been hiding his friends from me because I'm very insecure and they are female. That's not the issue here, but it lead me to the conclusion that not only are we not the teo love struck loners I thought we were, but I do not have any friends. I feel stupid. Angry. Scared. And a laundry list of other uncomfortable emotions. But I realised that maybe my husband of 8 years should not be my only friend. And for the life of me, I just don't know how to make friends. I didn't choose to be friendless... I could never connect with friends since I was old enough to have any. The fact that I'm in a stable relationship at the moment is a big surprise for the me from 10 years ago... Idk... I just feel every single shade of pathetic and I don't know how to fix that...
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Kind. Doesn't judge. Gives good feedback. Honest responses.
She's very thoughtful and really seems to understand exactly what I'm going through.
Very patient and wise. Very methodical and attentive. I would encourage anyone to talk to her.
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