softEyes34
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Number of ratings63
Number of reviews16
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceFeb 7, 2016
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderMale
PathStep 138
People helped143
Chats1,063
Group support chats24
Listener group chats41
Forum posts17
Forum upvotes18
Bio
Have some fire. Be unstoppable. Be a force of nature. Be better than anyone here, and don't give a damn what anyone thinks. There are no teams here, no buddies. You're on your own. Be on your own.
I'm not good at being sensitive. I like ambiton and people who are "horrible".
I am generally available between 9pm-12pm eastern time Monday through Friday, you can send me a message if I'm offline and schedule something for that time.
I'm not good at being sensitive. I like ambiton and people who are "horrible".
I am generally available between 9pm-12pm eastern time Monday through Friday, you can send me a message if I'm offline and schedule something for that time.
Feedback & Reviews
Acknowledges my concerns; responds promptly; doesn't give opinions
Very good and engaging. Asks questions in a manner that lets you unfold your worries, a sort of reflective conversation.
This was the best conversation I have had on here. They were extremely good at listening but also very insightful to my situation. I could not thank this person enough.
Very considerate and friendly, is literally the definition of going through it with you. Thank you so much.
Great listener, if only there were more like him. Really paid attention to me. I felt seen.
I loved the way they tried to cheer you up when you were down!
Very quick to respond and seems like the truly care.
Very understanding and helpful
Very good listener. Helped me to understand my situation a bit better and to calm down from it. Thank you!
You're awesome, I've never felt so related to on this site! Keep up the good work :)
I thought this listener was very lovely and good.
Listened well and gave good advice and seems very interested in helping others.
It was an enjoyable experience.
Listened well and gave good advice and seems very interested in helping others.
It was an enjoyable experience.
softEyes34 is an exceptional listener. The light he brings into my life brings optimism and hope into what dark and depressing times I've had. He doesn't just hear, but really listens to my issues and comes up with ways to help me. Even though I'm hard to deal with at times, he's managed to mold me into a slightly better person. He deserves gratitude for all those he's helped see the brightness in what are normally dark, twisted times.
softEyes34 is what I consider to be a kindred spirit. He has been my rock throughout my struggles currently going on and has been patient with my slightly less than kind responses. He was able to put a positive spin on every bad decision I've made (which have been quite plentiful) even when they really were just horrible. He has an optimistic view on the world and no darkness which really helps me view my situation on life differently. He's always there when I need someone and he is helping me make better decisions for the future. He deserves recognition for his efforts that have no doubt been beneficial to not only myself, but I'm sure many others.
This listener really understands the principle of active listening. They did a amazing job of helping me get through a tough time by asking the right questions to help me bring what I needed to be actively thinking about to help me get through it the best possible way. They just cared and sat with me instead of telling me what to do.
great listener, good advices, great points of view, and has much patience!
i appreciate the help! thanks
i appreciate the help! thanks
very good listener.. thank you very much
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