Hey there! You can call me Za. I would really truly honestly L O V E to tell you that I've got the solutions to your strugles and fears, but I really don't. All I can do is listen, try to understand, and with your permission, try offering a solution. I won't give you shallow or irresponsibel advice, and my hearts totally invested in anything you have to say. I have some expirience with abusive relationships, domestic violence, alcohol abuse, and i'm still trying to heal from things I can't speak about without breaking down (sounds fun, right?). I believe in Radical softness, so feel free to unapologetically share your emotions, I am not here to judge ok? I still don't understand how basic human relationships work, so I guess we'll both grow with the expirience. I have no idea what I'm doing and I think that's ok. Also BPD, but hey, I'm friendly.