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WhiteTantra
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Number of ratings1 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJan 23, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 3 People helped8 Chats11 Listener group chats1 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes2
Bio


                                                                 https://www.7cups.com/@whitetantra

 

 

 

About Me:  My gender is Love.  I am a 35 year old middle gender
that has explored feminine and masculine sexuality in a wide range
of areas ranging from monogamous to polyamorous and the gray
spaces inbetween with over 5 years experience counseling
individuals towards finding self efficacy in clinical and non-clinical
settings.

I have a strong background with multiple areas and greatly
value cultural competence by respecting the individual journeys
that each individual takes.

I find the same need for love, caring and affection in all bodies;
finding there is nothing more calming and sacred than hearing
the heartbeat of self or others after exploring them in passion.


 

When I am not helping folks on here or in the other worlds I enjoy
all varieties of childish ridiculous play from swingsets to tag, to
to singing songs, to exploring the great big world of the outdoors
in the west and beyond.  -{WT}

 

 

 

 

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on these hashtags and more.

 


Gender Identity, Kundalini, Monogamy, LGTBQ+, Polyamory,Relationships, Sexual Healing,Sexual Identity, Tantra:  White, Red, Pink.

 

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My Sex is Love: Why the S in my ASL [Age, Sex, Location] profile is ambigous.
Relationship Stress / by WhiteTantra
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January 27th, 2017
...See more My Sex is Love: Why the S in my ASL [Age, Sex, Location] profile is ambigous. by WhiteTantra [http://7cups.com/@whitetantra] There is a great need on 7 Cups of Tea to talk about the elephant in the room that is in many of our lives and feel to feel empowered, not intimidated by that elephant in the room - That elephant being sex. The difficulty of any Listener, especially those that identify their bodies as women when approaching this subject is that there tends to be a tendency for members to sexualize those that are helping them when they list a specific gender. Now, this in most cases is helpful to be relatable and offer an environment of empathetic peer support. It's nice to be able to say to someone, "I understand because I am some of that, too." However, I find, more important than being complete mirrors of a person's identity, it is important to have cultural competence [https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&sqi=2&ved=0ahUKEwj41sTk4-LRAhVU22MKHW0_A8oQFggqMAM&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.psysr.org%2Fjsacp%2Fahmed-v3n1-11_17-28.pdf&usg=AFQjCNHtrfO47e5HOFGYvFea9i706MtjHA&sig2=dVpb64ZHj6iMwxR2nrmAcw&bvm=bv.145063293,d.cGc&cad=rja] to say to the person, "I don't understand - but I am working to understand, let's learn together" when that time comes. This being done by being honest and letting the person know that they matter [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw], no matter where they are at in the world. This level, this place is often not reached when Listeners identify with a specific gender because they often become sexualized, losing the point and purpose of the dialogue - that dialogue being about finding help for the Member's sexual outlets. Indeed, I have explored both worlds, female and male, in and out; coming to the same conclusion with all gender constructs and orientations - what matters most is what is beneath the flesh, the life force that is within, the love that is given, living - the heart that is beating. That all said, my sex is love - It's the checkbox that is open that holds the Female, Male and all checkboxes. [ √ ] Love -{WT}