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TheWriter
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Number of ratings100 Number of reviews37 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 28, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 674 People helped89 Chats680 Group support chats35 Listener group chats616 Forum posts284 Forum upvotes656
Bio

Hello there,my name is The Writer and I am glad you found me on 7cupsoftea!

I like to support people struggling with anything and I'll try my hardest to be a source of comfort to you! I've been through a lot in life but then again, so has everyone else.

I am a Christian. I believe in God because I have witnessed firsthand that He is real saving my life and the lives of others around me countless of times,comforting me in times when I felt so alone,standing in a room full of people with my heart breaking.

💜💜💜

In the words of The Red Hot Chili Peppers,'Tell Me Baby','Life can be a little sweet and life can be a little sh*tty'.

Come As You Are

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If I'm online, please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then, please send me a message and we can set up a time to connect.

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"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you: He will never leave you nor forsake you."- Deuteronomy 31:6

I learned, when I look in the mirror and tell my story, that I should be myself and not peep whatever everybody is doing.
-Kendrick Lamar

“Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are.”
― Niccolò Machiavelli

"If I've learned one thing in life, it's not to be so judgmental of other people."
Patti Smith

“Keep your eyes on the road, your hands upon the wheel.”
― Jim Morrison

Recent forum posts
Honoring Listener Soul2Soul's First Anniversary!
Positivity & Gratitude / by TheWriter
Last post
April 10th, 2015
...See more When you mention "Soul2Soul" most of everyone on 7cupsoftea automatically knows who it is. After all,Soul2Soul is one of 7cupsoftea's most active and respected listener with 218 lovely written reviews,and 391 star ratings and counting. She is also part of the site's Mentor team, is a Peer Supporter, a Teen Listener and is also part of the Appreciation Buddy team. She has contributed to the forum,as well as giving in extra hours at the Teen Welcome and Teen Support rooms, including the Support chatrooms on the 18 and above side. She has been called "kind, intelligent,intuitive, understanding,warm,amazing,supportive,nice ,sweet, great, patient, professional, helpful,funny,loving,inspirational,and a bunch of other wonderful,heartfelt things by those that have spoken to her and know her. Charming,confident,and polite,Soul2Soul is friendly with everyone from guests to members to her fellow listeners. A year ago though, things were a little different. On this day, 31st of March of last year,Soul2Soul joined 7cupsoftea. If you've read her AMA, you will know that she was introduced to this site by her daughter and it was like a life line was thrown to her. She was trapped in an unhappy marriage with an emotionally and psychologically abusive husband. She was depressed and things at home was tense. 7cupsoftea was a haven. Here she was able to help herself by helping others. She was able to acquaint herself with so many other amazing listeners each with their own story to tell. Here she was able to use and hone her gifts as a natural born  listener with strong intuition and an understanding of the painful things in life due to personal experiences over a span of her lifetime so far. Soul2Soul was initially shy and didn't say much whenever she found herself at the community chatroom for listeners having not been active socially both online and offline for a few years. But with the warm invitations from other listeners,she quickly found herself regaining her sense of humor and confidence. In the past year,Soul2Soul has gone through much and it warms my heart as one of her close friends at this site,at how she has grown both as a talented,and strong individual and as a listener. During her time here so far,she has touched many lives and is an inspiration to me personally, not for her achievements;not for the badges,the star ratings,or the written reviews. But for her genuine being and friendship,and guidance,her love and dedication to this site and what 7cupsoftea believes in and strives for. Despite her achievements,Soul2Soul remains humble and open-minded and if you were talk to her now,she'd still be the same person she was last year. Tough,straightforward,humorous,understanding and intuitive. Basically,she's the equivalent of fifteen shots,three limes,a (gigantic) tablespoon of glitter,gold,and sass, some Naga Viper sauce, a collection of literature classics,some vinyls,and a huge cup of sunshine!!! As @Soul2Soul 🌻🌻🌻celebrates her first anniversary, please join me in leaving a few of your well wishes for her here in the forum! Thank you so much and it is so appreciated!!!The Writer.http://youtu.be/CFCPOwsxK3Q [http://youtu.be/CFCPOwsxK3Q]http://youtu.be/h62OnMD3QxA [http://youtu.be/h62OnMD3QxA]  Also, thank you to @Shawn99,@zandinator,@Stevie_@Laura,@Heather, @JennaHere, @1000ReasonsToBeHappy,@Lukas, @cocopuff,@Noasu, @Flourish, @Glenn, @Ben1978, @Slights, @Gracey, @Farheen, @JulieKay, @!rene, @Adventurin, @Angelline, @Aventurina, @Iara, @Jadie, @Jake, @Justin, @JustinRarrr, @Kane, @Pali, @Sofia, @wintersun, @samc95xc, @HannahBaxter,@HannahJane, @Miracle,@amboredd,and @LucasClaus05, for supporting Soul2Soul throughout all the things that happened last year. You have all gone beyond the call of duty in friendship,and every one of you means so much to Soul.Sometimes that words aren't enough to convey it. Thank you for just being *here*.
Feedback & Reviews
She helped me get past a dark time in my life. words cant describe how much she helped me. thank you :)
Helpful. I will try to use this advice in the future.
Thanks for helping me in what I might call one of my darkest times. That means a lot to me. :)
TheWriter, thank you so much for your understanding, support, and patience. You'll be a great friend to people you meet.
Beautiful! Makes me feel awesome
a very good listener. really tried his/her best to help, and very professional. thanks ssooooo much!!!
the best
Very nice
Very caring and fun
Really helpful, thankyou
So helpful!
thank you
she is a very sweet and amazing listener ! she heard me and waited until im finished and tried to be with me and help me . truely you are amazing ! friend
great listener ! thank you
Perfect mix, makes you feel that you're appreciated. Gives enough empathy that makes you feel like they're actually listening to you. It's not a easy process, it is long, and the writer is with you the entire way. Thank you The writer.
She is a great listener and is deeply passionate in trying her best to help in all possible ways. She is tactful, sensitive, and non-judgmental, and i felt like i could tell her anything without the fear of being judged. She has provided practical tips which i've never thought of before, and she is extremely encouraging and warm. Really glad to have had a chat with her. :)
Youre an amazing listener and now how to restore faith in people. I nwver thought o could get over my wrotera block but do now. Thank you for all your help. Youre amazing
Hey there...it s me qaseh. I m so happy to have u to share what s my feeling going on. Thanks for helping me and kindly lend me ur hear for hearing what I want to share with . Thanks a lot. I ll reach u next time. Bye..got to go. Don't forget to pray for me. It s nice to meet u here
Uplifting person. keep up the good work!
It's been a very lucky day for me to have met you. You have been a great soul and I truly appreciate everything you said. It's a blessing to have you as a listener :) Thank you again....
Glad to have spoken to you!
very lovely to talk to
you were amazing , thank you
Great!!
Wonderful help. Such a good listener. Really personable and empathetic. Helped me sort out a lot of things.
Good times. Having a good conversation.
Really good at unpicking my thought processes and helping me understand myself better.
my first experience here and turns out i get a very helpful yet a patiently listener! i can see my rainbow now :)
Great listener!
Just about the nicest young woman you'll ever meet.
great listener, very friendly.
TheWriter was really attentive and kind hearted. Loved the session and it made me feel a lot better about my thoughts and plans! Made me feel understood. Thank you!
She's great
TheWriter was just the person I needed, I was feeling lonely and having a particularly rough evening and I needed someone who could hear me out and give me an unbiased perspective on my non-traditional relationship and family issues. TheWriter really left me feeling more hopeful. I know that my issues aren't going to go away in 45 minutes, but I do feel understood, and that is so important when you've just been feeling as though you can't talk to anyone.
She connected with me and got through and made me feel like I could keep fighting. I feel so light now, like a huge weight has been lifted off of me and I just want to laugh with glee.
Such a great listener, knew exactly the right things to say :)
I LOVE TheWriter!!! He's the best!!!
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