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Number of ratings24 Number of reviews8 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Arabic Listener sinceSep 6, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 39 People helped45 Chats379 Forum posts1 Forum upvotes4
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Hello there!
I came here for the first time to find someone to talk to because my life was at its worst, but I had great help and that's why I'll know exactly how you are feeling.
Please talk to me, never hesitate, I'm one of the nicest people you'll meet.
I overcome depression and self harm.
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Why we binge then we starve, then binge.
Eating Disorder Support / by SolomLovesyou
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 July 19th, 2017
...See more The main problem here is the factor of Guilt This is the reason for this whole cycle Although it is possible that when we know when we feel bad because we binged. So we try to abstain from food and go in a low calorie deficit state that starts our starvation mode. As a psychological reaction we over consume so we accumulate fat/energy to help us survive this upcoming period of lack of food and energy. Then we feel guilty again. So what do we do? 1)Be aware of this cycle 2)Accept the fact that we did and be okay with it, just tell ourselves that next time we will be mindful. We will still eat, but just a smaller quantity. Bad thing is that Everytime we do it we strengthen the "neuron formation" in our brain that is adopting this behavior This is why the first few times are usually harder and the more you do it the less harder it becomes. It's like this 📉 It's like we are"decomposing that formation responsible for this. It will be much much easier 21 days from now. It is so okay if you failed just continue and know it is a natural part of the way to recovery. Be aware because when you hate yourself like that, it feels threatened and comes back at you unconsciously with something called "self-sabotaging" You're beautiful, I love you so love you too, please? You owe it to yourself, no one else is gonna do it for you in this world, cause no one can. It has to be you and only you.
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10/10 this great individual was so amazingly helpful. Deserves a reward imo
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Solom is just a god sent. Thank you
This guy is amazing I love talking to him so much. He gives all his attention on one person at a time, he understands me and is provided just what I needed. He made me have a different look on life. I owe him much more than this review coz he just saved my life.
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Love u. Thanks
Solom was great! He asked some really good questions and gave me things to consider that I'll be thinking about as I continue to work on myself.
Best person I have talked to yet. I even got happy tears! Talk, you won't regret it
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Depression
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LGBTQ+ Issues
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