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Number of ratings116 Number of reviews34 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJun 3, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 224 People helped316 Chats803 Group support chats44 Listener group chats1,391 Forum posts40 Forum upvotes68
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Hello! \(^_^)/ Welcome to 7cups of tea!

I am sorry because you felt the need to come here on this site, because it probably means that something's wrong, but hey, you know what? You've made one big step, the hardest step! You started to seek for help, to find solution for everything and by that I can see how strong you actually are!

A little bit about myself ^^

''I am a paradox. I am faithful and yet detached. I am commited and yet relaxed. I love everyone, and yet no one. I am sociable, but also a loner. I am gentle and yet tough. I am passionate, but can also be platonic. In short, I am predictable in my own unpredictability.''

Most difficult and dark days I overcomed when I was a teenager. I was always that kind of person who tries to find something good in everything, no matter what. I'm always trying to end up well, to help people if I'm able to do that. Unfortunately, I know how it feels to be ALONE. Alone in your head, in your heart and really alone with everyone around me. That's one of the things that actually made me to think that I should do something good, to help people, to show that they don't need to be alone, that there is help and solution for everything. Maybe I will not be able to help you, but be sure in that I will always lead an ear no matter what. Sometimes listening can help way too much then 'trying to find solution' for something. Sometimes you just need to get rid of something what's on your chest.
I'm a big fan of music(mostly rock, but I can listen everything), I love to read books, I love long night walks, I love to enjoy in things that actually rare people like. I love deep things, deep conversations, I love to watch stars at thing and just think about a universe and all people in this world.

My favorite quotes

''Close your eyes and imagine the best version of you possible. That's who you really are, let go of any part of you that doesn't believe it.''

''We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining. Expecting. Worrying. Doubting. Just let it naturally evolve.''

''Sometimes you need to take a step backwards before you move forward again. Let your body rest and your mind heal. Let the wounds mend, and time pass. Only you know when you are ready to begin again.''

''No one is going to love you exactly like you imagine. No one is ever going to read your mind and take every star from the sky at the perfect time and hand it to you. No one is going to show up at your door on a horse, with a shoe you lost. Do you understand? That's why you have to love yourself enough, so that any other love just adds more candles to the cake you've already iced.''

''Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you're in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you.''

On 7cups, I am here as:

1. 7cups Mentor

2. Teen and Adult Listener

3. Adult Chatroom Mentor

4. Verified Listener

5. Peer Support

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''Why do I always get attached to the people who are not good for myself?''
Relationship Stress / by ReadingRocks
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 October 3rd, 2016
...See more We are always asking ourselves''Why do I always get attached to people who are not good for myself?'' and the answer is surprising. THE WOUNDED PART OF ME IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ATTRACTING I know that the term ''Wounded part of myself'' can sound a little bit intensive, but I will explain. We all have two parts of ourselves - lower me(wounded part of ourselves - emotions, mind, ego) and spiritual body (superior me, SOUL). Wounded part of ourselves is the part that feels incomplete, gives you a question about your worth - it doesn't feel complete or it feels wrong on some way. My wounded part of myself is ''lower me'' who's asking me is it possible for someone to love me. On the other side, we have the spiritual body. That is our ''superior'' and something that we really are, the soul. That's the honest part of ourselves which is related to love, honesty, wisdom and peace. Your spiritual body, without any doubt, knows how much you deserve to love, to be loved and how much you are actually worth. There is a lot difference between this and your ego. In any time, we operate from one of this two parts of ourselves. Many of us, unfortunately, mostly operate from our own ego. Actually, we believe that we are, in some way, insignificant and useless and we are trying to fulfil that imperfection. Ego looks for ''external'' things so it can find a confirm its own values. Ego believes that after getting more - money, better partner, better job, better house, more rest and so - that it will finally be happy. But... It's not happy. At least, not for a long time. His own nature is to feel incomplete. So, when you live through the perspective of your ego, you are destined to feel like something is missing. That kind of life is no fun. Ego is strongly 'activated' when we talk about romantic relationships, because, when we are in the relationship, that's the time when we are hurt the most. All of us have experienced disappointment or grievance in some kind of relations in the past; we are keeping memories of certain wounds in our adulthood(sometimes unconsciously). If the wound from our childhood is still ''active'' in you, you will be attracted to people who will incite the same feeling. For example, if you were feeling invisible or rejected in your childhood, it's the big possibility that you will feel the same way in your adulthood. Unconsciously, a part of yourself is programmed to attract people who can activate your wounds. Reason for that is your growth. That is one frustrating part of growth process. But think about it on this way: when your wounds are showing more than once, you can make them heal. We can't heal something we are not able to see or something we can't feel. We can't heal things who are being repressed. Unpleasant feelings have to come to the surface, so we can overcome that. And how are we growing above it? By indicating ourselves with the ''REAL ME'', with the soul. Remember – YOU- your soul, your ''SUPERIOR ME'' is the part of us who knows the real truth. Part of us that knows that we are worthy, incredible, able and powerful. From the perspective of ''superior me'', you are complete! Yes, you are an imperfect human being with flaws, but the real truth is - you are your soul. You are beautiful. You are important. You are special. You are loved. Those are the things that ''superior me'' knows about ourselves - and wants you to know the same. When you accept the truth from something more superior, meanwhile you can realize that the ''wrong people'' were just our teachers who pushed us in the ''real state of mind''; the state of mind which doesn't bring up the question of your worth. Unfortunately, nothing can inspire us more than a broken heart. Your ''superior me'' wants you to compare yourself with it - it wants you to realize who you really are. Find love in yourself again and you will heal your relations - from the inside to the outside. @Sahayak @Giovanna @Isaac @brightSunshine14 @SkyRunner @necrodeath @Elaijah @Brah @Belle_ @Tofflan @BluPenguin @mats @Gouws13 @Greylight @Halogen @FairMindedJackruit @Zed786 @eviesweet @Lissymay @PoolOfBrokenMemories @AlteriHuic2 @Anggi @HermeticCrypto And many others :)
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