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JayJay175
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L Explorer 8
5 star rating
Rating
Number of ratings41 Number of reviews9 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 5, 2014 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 496 People helped50 Chats454 Group support chats6 Listener group chats18 Forum posts35 Forum upvotes42
Bio
I'm going to jump into it and say a bit about myself, I've been through a very bad breakup, thought I was going to marry a girl but ended up alone and it hurt a lot but I got past it, I lived day to day life looking at everything in a negative way but that doesn't define who I am! just because my brain tells me things doesn't make me that person, I now live my life looking at everything in a good way despite everything my brain tells me

I believe that everyone can be happy, no matter how hard things get, no matter what life throws at you, no matter what you decide to think or the emotions you can't understand or even if your brain makes you think things you really don't like! I believe it can get better, it always can, I have been through it all and I am fighting it all and my life has never been better!!

"Sometimes you think you have no fight left, no hope, no faith, no willpower but actually you will tend to find that the little bit you have left is the strongest part and it won't be leaving you so easily, so don't give up on that fight you have left because it will actually win you the war"

I nearly gave up on myself once and now I'm glad that I used what I had left to win because now I can actually be happy

Quotes
"Don't dwell on the past. Don't worry about the future. Enjoy the present"

""If you dwell on the past then the present will follow, so enjoy today so that you can one day enjoy the past!""
Feedback & Reviews
Really helped to ease my concerns. Thank you!
Thank you for your insightful words. They helped me get over a hurdle that was too big for just me on my own this morning.
Made all my troubles go away
Jayjay was awesome. I really appreciated her.
Great listener really took the time to listen to me and gave me chance to be heard without judgement!
Easy to talk to and has great wisdom
He is a very friendly guy and sticks with you through the conversation. He kind of inserts his own thoughts more than I like, but also I am glad he was just himself.
great guy. you can talk to him and he has lots of things to tell you.
Could not have been better, thanks!
Badges & Awards
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