Dear talker, to say how well reaching out works its funny how little we do it. Often it's like, everybody's so busy trying to tell you who they are and who or what they think you should be, that nobody's really paying any attention to each other at all. And you see those extreme stories of people that off-ed themselves and we're all like, why didn't they just say something? relive the pressure? It doesn't really feel like that at the time though does it? it's more like, how could people possibly understand? Maybe they can't, maybe I can't, and maybe even that doesn't matter. Maybe just today, you get to be exactly as you are, even if you don't know it or don't want it, you can be that too, no strings, no pressure, nothing much at all, there, here, now, for a while, do nothing and let yourself in, then when we've finished you can go back to not being, or trying to be something else or whatever it is was making you uncomfortable ;) As far as I know I'm a human being probably like you are too, we have human problems probably similar to each other, so for now, lets have a go at some us time, enjoy some problems, and watch the ripples together, even if it's us making them, and see what happens...