My child says they are transgender, how do I cope with this?
Tanya26
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Dec 4, 2014
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Accept it! It's hard, I'm sure. I've never personally dealt with this but I do believe that everyone deserves to be accepted with who they are. They didn't ask to have those feelings, it just happened. They need the people they love most to support it, and that would be you!
wallflowermusic98
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Dec 15, 2014
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Accept them for who they are. It's a difficult thing to do, so be proud of their courage to come "out of the closet" Support them and be there for them.
Letmeknowbts
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Dec 18, 2014
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You can always search for more information about it. Support and listening it's always important.
Anonymous
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Dec 29, 2014
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They're your child. They're no different then who they are now. They're expressing themselves and growing. Just because they are transgender doesn't mean you didn't raise them right. The fact that they're a great person, that they're happy, that they even feel comfortable to tell you this, should help you with your unease. It's not something easily to accept but give it time to.
AbbieAlexis
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Apr 10, 2015
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Accept them. Be there for them. It might be difficult but make sure they know that you love them either way and that you are always going to be there by their side. They are going to need you, so don't leave them. Just try and know that thats still your child, the one you care about and love, no matter what
PoliteOcean
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Aug 31, 2015
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This can be a difficult and overwhelming situation for a parent to deal with. The best thing to do is to "listen" and "talk" with your child about what they are feeling and experiencing. If you are unable to deal with or cope with what they are saying or telling you, perhaps seeking further assistance with a child psychologist, counselor or therapist can help you both through the feelings that you are experiencing.
LuminusOasis
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Aug 29, 2016
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Absolutely fine! save my personal opinion, my child's happiness is what matters. I'd want them to truly explore.
RumpleSteeleSkin
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Feb 20, 2017
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Sexual identity in our kids is confusing a bit. I can only say to try and understand them, validate how they are feeling and thinking, support them in questions they have, or reach out for things they can read or a person they can talk with. Just don't push them away-but embrace them they are your "baby" still no matter what. Good luck
courageousJoy86
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Apr 3, 2018
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Accept them no matter what. Their gender doesn't change the little human that you raised, shared laughs and hugs, that loved you unconditionally. Try to document on it, what it means to be transgender, and try to understand and support them
endearingLion70
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Jul 2, 2018
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They are the one who need to cope, you are the one who needs to be there for support and acceptance for them.
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