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How do I stop myself from falling in love?

Profile: Creasour
Creasour on Jan 8, 2016
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You should try to spend time with friends. Come out. Put your mind to busy with other things, it will come as good groove a little socializing.
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Profile: ThatSweetGuy2511
ThatSweetGuy2511 on Jan 10, 2016
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In my personal experience, there were a few ways that I successfully stopped myself from falling in love. I would make a pro and con list as to why I feel the relationship would never work. If it's an acquaintance you're having feelings for a pro / con list would definitely be suitable. However, if it's a really close friend I would write down my feelings for them on paper (this too can work with the acquaintance) and tear it up or burn it... Usually that'll somewhat help you. If you feel yourself falling for them more day by day it's perfectly fine to spend some time away from them to process your emotions, but don't ignore them! If all else fails and you know you're in love, just tell them how you feel and clear the air. It will make you feel so much better...
Profile: SenpaiXD
SenpaiXD on Jan 17, 2016
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Falling in love is something natural. Something that your body does without your mind knowing. One simple thing you can do is to simply acknowledge it and be true to your feelings rather than ignoring it. It's one of the best way to discover yourself on a deeper level
Profile: Aflower
Aflower on Jan 28, 2016
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That's hard, I would even say quite impossible. Because falling in love is something you can't controll, you just fall, without even realizing. And when you realize, that's when it's already to late. The human race is a species who needs to be loved, and feel loved, and you can't stop that. I think a lot of people wish they could stop it, but that's life. You'll have your ups and downs with love, but it just makes you the person you are today.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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Of the many things in life we have no control over, the best of these is Love, never stop yourself falling in love because you may regret something.
Profile: Carleen00
Carleen00 on Jan 29, 2016
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You don't. You can choose not to act on feelings of love, but loving someone isn't a choice. It's a programmed response that I truly don't believe we have control over.
Profile: Ven
Ven on Feb 5, 2016
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You cannot stop it. it's human nature silly. A better way is to control it and handle it well. Don't get too carried away and do not do rash things. Even though in love, you should still think rationally :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 29, 2018
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You cannot stop that. If you fall in love, you fall in love. But you can handle yourself in different ways.
Profile: raspberrylemonade
raspberrylemonade on May 17, 2015
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Distract yourself! It can be to find a new friend, try a new hobby, spend time doing your favorite hobby, or try and find someone else!
Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean on Sep 2, 2015
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Its hard for some people to want to fall in love for the risk of heartache or putting their feelings on the line for someone else. But theres not really a way to be able to stop from feeling those feelings for someone once they do happen. The thing to do is treat the person the way you want to be treated and in hopes, have the same faith that they will be the same with you.
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