How can I tell if my mother in law likes me?

You know that by her actions and behavior towards you, and most importantly ask her to know how she feels about you. That answer she gives and the way you perceive it will depend on whether you trust her or not.

Come what may, however your mother in law treats you, you do not return blow for blow. She may abuse you, she may tell you that the sun and moon have switched places, but choose harmony over truth, and turn her around.

You can't.. Unless you ask he upfront. And it is much harder if your mother in law is in her 50s of 60s. Experience taught me that elderly tend to be complicated. But maybe thats just my grandma.

Observe how she behaves you when Your husband is not around and see the differences. If she treats you like a daughter. Then she is the best.

GIVE IT TIME If your mother-in-law doesn’t like you, try to wait it out and see if the situation improves. An initially difficult relationship can evolve into one of mutual tolerance, and even friendship. It may take years for this change to occur, but it can happen, much to your surprise.

If she is closer then usual, if so try to keep a distance unless you like her too, if so tell her your feeling

From my own experience I think you could tell that when my mother in law started asking questions about my own interests in life I realised she should have liked me. Because I believe that you will not start asking questions and interacting if you do not like another person.

If you really like your mother in law then she will also like you. If she likes you she will make small efforts to ensure that you are looked after.

Take advice from your own mother. For she has experience in the mother on law department. And also the mother of the girlfriend or boyfriend,etc. Ask her to help guide you in observing if your mother in law is being real with you.

Well, this can be a difficult question. Because only a person "themselves" can truly know what their feelings are towards someone. The important thing is if you are feeling bad vibes from someone who is in your life, or apart of your life, one of the best things to do would be to keep the lines of communication open. Being able to communicate your feelings is key. Being able to share how you are feeling with your mother in law could be the first step to moving forward in a better relationship with her.