Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?

It’s always good to be honest, especially with the people that you love. It is, of course, going to sprout some obstacles but if you truly love each other, you will find a way to get through it together.

I encourage you to do so. There are, indeed, many possible outcomes, but you may take into consideration the fact that guilt and fear might affect you and your relationship much, much more in the future, if you don't discuss about this now. You can discuss about what made you cheat on him, maybe there are some unresolved problems in your relationship. It can be a good point to start building trust and be even more intimate, spiritually. Openness and forgiveness are crucial in any relationship. You may also consult other friends or relatives who know both of you, in order to find some good ways to tell him.

I know its hard to be upfront with someone you do not want to make upset, but its best to be honest. If you're not honest in the beginning, it could potentially ruin any trust you guys have in the future.

Yes, because the longer you don't the more your guilt will build and one day you'll basically word vomit it to him, and that will be a mess.

Yes you should. It may be tough to even get the words out to tell him but if you were him, you would want to know too. It's okay and know you are doing the right thing.

I would say YES right away! This very feeling would drain you out of constant guilt consciousness. Also, it's not fair enough for your boy friend to be unaware of this. Not opening up initially might have undesirable effects i the future.

Well it's good to be truthful ,but you need to be strong for what ever after effects of saying a truth

Yes, A healthy relationship starts with communication. If he no longer wants to be a part of your life, then now it's just a life lesson and something you may need to work on.

You should. As hard as it may be for you, he needs to know the truth before he finds out another way and thinks that you lied to him and wanted to keep it from him. Telling him shows that you feel bad and can't hurt him by not telling him.

Just flip the coin, if he were you and you were he, would you want him to tell you? He deserves to know. Just know, a sad truth is better than a happy lie.