My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

This is a question I feel like so many people want the answer to. You love someone, you want to be with them and the thought of losing them is scary. So naturally, you will want to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. But, to be honest, if you've talked to your partner about this and you know that they want to move on…You owe it to yourself to find someone that loves you as much as you do them. I know a breakup can be hard, but trying to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you right now can be harder. What people need to remember, in my opinion, is that a breakup can be a learning experience. It might sting at first, but there is a lot you can take away from it.

I can have a heart to heart talk with her and tell her what I feel about her and how much staying with her means to me. I need to ask her why she feels the need to break up with me. When I have listened clearly and calmly and have understood fully, I can ask her to give me an opportunity to rectify my mistakes over a specific period of time. If she doesn't see a change in me during this period, she is free to break up with me. I commit myself more to the relationship and invest in it. However, if nothing works I let her go free.

I believe you should focus on yourself. If they want to leave you, let them. It isn't always easy, but you shouldn't have to persuade someone into being with you. You deserve better!

If they want to break up with you,find out the reason first.What's causing their desire to split with you?Is the problem caused by them,you,or both?Can this problem be fixed easily,if so,are you both willing to work on it as a team?If not,then it is really time for a breakup.To have them change their mind in an enviroment where no improvement is taking place then it's unhealthy for either them or yourself to stay in the relationship.The question is whether or not you SHOULD change their mind.

You can't. Be supportive of their decision and tell them you only want what is best for them. If they realize the fact you are not trying to hold them back by force, they might not leave yet.

Communication is the key to relationships according to me. If you feel like there is still chance to save the relationship then do whatever you can, talk to them, ask why things aren't working out. Try solving the things /together/ because relationship requires both the members to be happy and working together. But in the end never be afraid of ending a relationship. Because yes things don't always work out with some people but it will always work out with the right ones.

The best desicion would be to do what you think would be best for the both of you ! If your partner is not happy in the relationship and wants to end it then that will be their desicion to make . You shouldn't try and overwhelm them by pushing them to do something they don't want to do .

Maybe try and talk to them about what causing them to want to break up with you. If it's something that can be fixed then you can try to fix it, but if it's something that can't then maybe it's better to let it go.

It's probably best to leave them be without trying TOO hard to change their mind. You can, however, have a talk with them about why they want to break up and if there's anything you two can do/work on to stay together.

The best thing to do is to talk to your partner and figure out why they want to break up with you. If your partner isn't willing talk about it, then it's a good idea to sit down and have a think about the reasons why. You can take these answers and think about whether they're something you want to change in order to make your relationship work, then tell your boyfriend/girlfriend why you're willing to make sacrifices for your relationship.