I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
Anonymous
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Aug 1, 2015
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Its quite normal to feel this way. You were in a relationship with this person, maybe talked a lot, hung out, built trust, met each others friends and family. And now they're not in your life and you have a lot of changes to make. It will take time to get over him/her, love is a powerful emotion. Its important to do what makes you happy and healthy while remaining positive for the future. What you're feeling right now won't be forever, just hang in there!
Catatonicinflection
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Aug 5, 2015
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Left over feelings are understandable, the best way to get over them are to remember why you both split, or to distract yourself with something else.
Anonymous
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Aug 5, 2015
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Anyone who has recently broke up with their ex will still feel attracted to them, and it is normal to do so. However, the best possibilities is to try and distract yourself by he/she so you can work on other things. Don't worry if you keep on going, you will find someone even better than your ex!
Anonymous
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Aug 5, 2015
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Of course.You remember about the nice moments together.About what it was like in the beginning.Feelings take time to heal.But remember:you will forget the eyes that you don't see.
Anonymous
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Aug 6, 2015
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Should you feel that way? You know, its not something you can control. But maybe learning how to let go may help.
ShinraBanshou
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Aug 7, 2015
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It's not abnormal to still have feelings for an Ex. Remember before things went wrong they were a valuable part of your life. They were a constant. Someone or something Like that being abruptly taken out of your life can be a little Jarring.
Lovelylua
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Aug 7, 2015
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Do you think you should feel this way? I mean do you think she is the one that steel makes you happy? Im here to help you
Anonymous
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Aug 7, 2015
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It's totally normal to still have feelings for your ex, it's totally normal for you to still love your ex
JaxTheHumanBeing
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Aug 8, 2015
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It's natural to still love someone that you were in a relationship with. The love will always remain but the way a person looks at it changes
Llwyn7
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Aug 8, 2015
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It's normal to still have feelings for someone you're no longer with. There's no right or wrong here. If you choose to act on these feelings however, it's always good to consider their feelings as well, dependent on the situation.
Anonymous
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Aug 9, 2015
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I think that if you feel like your still in love your ex just tell the person and maybe they feel the same
Anonymous
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Aug 9, 2015
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one cant just simply just forget about a person they really cared about in the blink of an eye everything takes time just be patient
sprout92
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Aug 10, 2015
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Whether or not you "should" feel something is not nearly as important as acknowledging and accepting however it is you do feel. All sorts of emotions can occur after a breakup and all of them are normal and valid things to feel, however scary or "wrong" they may seem. If you are in distress, there are certainly steps you can take to manage your emotions, but learning to let go of self-judgment is the first step in this process.
HaveaCupofTeawifJoanna18
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Aug 12, 2015
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Leaving someone that we used to love and being in the present without him may give a change to the live. But, there must be a reason why you left, or why the 'breaking up' must happen in the past. Love is a feeling, and if you still feel it to your ex it's probably normal. The one thing you may have to consider, is it 'you still love' or you just miss him and the moments you had in the past?
Anonymous
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Aug 13, 2015
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It's natural but it's best to move on with you life as you have so much to live for because you are you at the end of the day!
Staceyjane
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Aug 13, 2015
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Sometime it take different people longer to let go of people so it wil take you time to get over that person
kittykat
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Aug 13, 2015
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There's no set list of rules for how you should or shouldn't feel after a breakup. It's very common for feelings for exes to persist over time. The history you had with them doesn't disappear just because you broke up.
Whether these feelings are healthy depends a lot on the circumstances surrounding your relationship and the breakup. If at any point you feel like you want to harm yourself or that these emotions are too much for you to handle, you should reach out to a mental health professional or, if this isn't an option, to a support group.
hailey2016
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Aug 13, 2015
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If you can your ex just broke up you may still have feelings for them everyone gets over an ex differently. Some people take longer to "heal" after a breakup.
Coach76
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Aug 13, 2015
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There is nothing wrong with loving someone that is not part of our daily life..love is a natural feeling and beats hate anytime . We hold love for loved ones that passed away and still that makes sense..... As for being in love with your ex that is fine and if you can work things out and improve the quality of your relationship based on your previous experience even better. Yet if you can't then keep that loving feeling but don't put your life on hold someone out there is probably in need of sharing their love and caring with some one else ...meet new people , try new things and enjoy life
silverSound86
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Aug 14, 2015
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Well this can be pretty tricky. On one hand your ex is an ex for a reason. On the other hand since this relationship is in the past, a good way would be to move on. Get all those feelings sorted or buried or wished away and move on. In the process try art therapy or theatre or music or travel to get over your ex. And give it time. If all of this still doesn't work see if you can get back with your ex. Feeling this way is natural, because feelings and emotions are not something that can be switched on and off like a light bulb. It takes time to get over a person. Be patient and kind with yourself.
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