How to get over someone you never dated?

I liked this guy once when I was 11.. I liked him for 4 years. We talked and everything but we were just friends. I was terrified of telling him I liked him cause he had a girlfriend at the time and I though u didn't stand a chance because of the beautiful girls he use to go out with. He went through girlfriends after girlfriends and I would just be there in a corner sad and moping until I realized that I needed to get over it. It wasn't easy at first. I took into consideration that there was 7 billion people in the world and it was stupid to be hung up on one guy who wasn't gonna like me back. After a while of hanging out with friends and doing normal stuff, it eventfully faded. I think you need time to heal (:

I have been there way too many times. You just have you realize that it wasn't meant to be and then just move on. Keep your mind busy. Think of that person as someone else's and you just can't have them and nothing can change that.

Take it one day at a time, just because you didn't date doesn't mean you didn't for a strong emotional connection, those take a while to get over.

You shouldn’t feel stupid for misreading his signals. You shouldnt feel embarrassed for thinking it could be something. You shouldn’t feel dumb about investing your care, your attention, your time. You definitely don’t have to feel like you made a mistake falling for him, even though he didn’t fall for you, too. Even though your almost relationship never developed into an official relationship, those moments are valid.

It's different if you knew this someone on a personal level, or whether he/she was just a crush/infatuation/longing. It's very important to know if you loved this person, or whether you were in love with the idea of love. That may make things easier because it helps you target the right emotion. From there, time will heal. I know it seems cliche but honestly, that's all you can do. That, and actually talking about it and actively thinking about it instead of suppressing it. Something I do is to write about it. Expressing things in words helps me figure out what I'm feeling and how I should be feeling and how to get there :)

Personally, I think the healthiest way to get over anyone is to accept what has or hasn't happened, and think about if that person represents a time in your life (even a very brief one) that you want to go back to. If that's the case, maybe recognise that and begin to accept that. If that's not the case, then begin to accept that nothing has happened, but that doesn't mean nothing will, with them or with someone else.

Writing, writing, writing. The feeling of just talking to this someone (without actually talking) helps so much. Getting all your thoughts out on paper (or a computer) really helps with moving on, because now you know you've said all you needed to say. You,can miss this person, but just focus on their happiness and your own first.

Ahh have you heard one sided love hurts most. It's because we get connected to that person in our imagination but we somewhere or other also know that this imagination is not going to become true. I Know people says "you have never dated so why you miss that person". But it's really common. And getting over him/ her is hard but when you know there is no future and that bond is destroying you somewhere you should know that you have to get over that person. Start keeping your brain busy in activities so that it doesn't get time to think about that person. Also tell yourself I will overcome him with time just go with the flow. Because time heals even the deepest scars.

That's one of the hardest things you have to do in your life. It's challenging to get over someone you have never dated, even if it seems like an easy job to some. But, please remember, you have two choices: either stay right where you are and continue destroying yourself over something you never had and can never have or try to get up, help yourself and move on. The later, the harder choice but a better one. Firstly, I would say, get your mind and heart on the same page, that is, you have to move on. The phase of waiting for them is over. Now it's about time you let things go. Secondly, get on the preparation. Plan a schedule to keep yourself busy. Include all the hobbies, activities, things you have wanted to try, no matter it's cooking, baking, reading, drawing anything. Try new things and experiences. Thirdly, work on it. Follow your schedule, keep yourself busy but don't overwork yourself, your body needs rest. Try new activities, which caught your interest in the past but you never got the chance to try it. Go for walks, dress up, try to enjoy every little things that happen in your life. Do things for yourself. Try to hang out in new friend circles, talk to new people, go on dates. Eventually, you will realise, the world is vast. Many more interesting things and people lie beyond your beloved. However, never try to deny your feelings. That makes them want to express themselves more. Accept them, acknowledge them and let them go. The more you try to bury them, the more you find it hard to let them go. It's alright to feel whatever you are feeling. Don't name them if you aren't comfortable. They aren't supposed to be named, either. Feelings are only there to be felt. Another point I would like to talk about is, at some point, you might feel like your wall is breaking, you might crave for them, you might miss them, want them. It's okay. Don't be harsh on yourself for feeling so. But stick to your plan in any case. It will take time but it will happen. You will get over them once you decide to.

If you were friends with someone and later developed romantic feelings for this friend that are not reciprocated its best to enjoy the friendship as the way it is. Romances can turn a friendship ugly, in my experience I didn't want to chance loosing my friend because I couldn't imagine my life without him in it and I'd rather count on him as my best friend than not have him in my life at all.