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IDEA: How to block a member which return to the group support rooms from multiple account
Group Support / by debojyoti012
Last post
 June 6th, 2019
...See more Hello All the MOD of 7cups face a similar kind of issue when they moderate at group support rooms. The issue is whenever we block any meber for various reason the member return to the site from multiple account. So here I am sharing a little idea about how to block a member . A memver is return in the site from multiple user account that mean for diffrent member accounts they are using VPN (Virtual Private Network) It is easy to block the members private IP address to blocl them form site completely. but due to VPN it is impossible. Here I am sharing a good idea about How to block VPN. VPNs are renting servers or cloud instances from data centers. So its not that complicated to differentiate their IP range. Following solutions might be the simplest to implement on a website: 1. Using Maxmind anonymous IP database: GeoIP2 Anonymous IP Database [https://www.maxmind.com/en/solutions/geoip2-enterprise-product-suite/anonymous-ip-database] - Maxmind is one of the biggest IP address database. So they know the owner of each IP address. When a user comes to the website, we can use Maxmind API to check if that IP belongs to a data center / VPN. If it then blocks the users' access. 2. Using a web firewall that can block data center IPs without the traffic reaching the web server. ie; http://Incapsula.com [http://incapsula.com] or Cloudflare - The Web Performance & Security Company | Cloudflare [http://cloudflare.com] - Once 7cups implement these web firewalls to 7cups website, then easily we can monitor the traffic before reaching to 7cups web servers and block data center IP addresses. original thread: https://www.quora.com/How-can-I-block-a-VPN-connection-on-my-site tagging: @7cupscommunity @Laura @Heather225 @Lorraine @BrillianTurtle89 @KindSoul10 @MonBon @Jill7cups
Some serious issues face during moderation of group support room
Group Support / by debojyoti012
Last post
 June 3rd, 2019
...See more Hello all my the admins, senior leaders, fellow listeners and fellow Mods Unforunately I am rising the following issue in this Sub community leader bubble section. Issue : Action related ban of trollers Many time I came across the trollers in the 7cup group support chat rooms. I have tried my best to stop them at rooms (however I am not telling I can easily solve the problem) similarly all the mod also doing the same in all the rooms. But all of us face similar kind of issue. Whenever we give warnings or due to warnings if they mute for whole day then they did not able to come to the room but reached us and threatened us and told us they will inform admins to remove from our roles. I think everyone has a right to speak if the fault is made by mod. As per my knowledge mod is the ground level volunteer of 7cups. We are giving our presious time to help people here, make the room environment peaceful and happy. But in return we get hates, abusive languages. threatens from members. But still we come and try to fulfil our roles because we know "One love is more than thousand Hates" Now my question is 1) How a troller can able to threat us with take our badge? 2) Is they more important for 7cups than a MOD? 3) Is anyone think what kind of mental pressure we handled during the moderation at rooms? is any idea how we reduce this stress of everyone's expection to be a good mod? 4) After block. ban how a member comeback again and again from diffrent account? is not it a failure for 7cups security? 5) And why we are not able to get the information about what action will take against a troller ? If they able to comebackthen they become more furious and nonchalant . They makes others members like them. then all the situation is need to solve by mod. if one mistake our badges will gone. Now tell us who is the responsible for this situation? 6) There are many mod leaders present in the 7cups. Most of them even did not show in diffrent rooms. but during rule making their input is more important than any MOD, The question is if they do not have ground level experiences or dont face real problems than during rule making or decision making then why our (community mods) valid points do not taken into consideration? I know after reading my posts many one will consider it is accusition against 7cups and suggest me many things. But my humble request is if you dont have any clear problem solving ideas then do not waste your time to write long paragraph. This is my personal thought and hope many community mod relate their situation with me. thats why I use "us" in this post. after spending approx 18 months here I am requesting to 7cups admins that come to see ground level situations, People loosing their interest on 7cups, many very very talented listeres leaving. Stop that flow or soon 7cups will be myth. Thanks for reading my posts. this post is not for personal fight but querries for some un answered questions. I am waiting for some constructive reply. please forgive me for tagging @Laura @Heather225 @ Jill7cups @Lorraine @ MrJacob @kindsoul10 @MonBon @ Tazzie @brilliantTurtle89
DIFFRENCE BETWEEN Trolling AND Cyberbullying......
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by debojyoti012
Last post
 December 4th, 2019
...See more Trolling Trolling is internet slang for a person who intentionally starts arguments or upsets others by posting inflammatory remarks. The sole purpose of trolling is angering people. It has been compared to flaming in cyberbullying. Plus, many people who troll think what they do is an "art". They frequently hide behind a cloak of anonymity. The symbol for trolling is a black and white drawing of a face with a mischievous grin, which is symbolic of the expression someone is making while trolling victims. Purpose To be a source of entertainment for the troller To be offensive and argumentative To derive pleasure from annoying the hell out of others To scour the internet for bait (a.k.a. you) Cyberbullying: Cyberbullying is deliberate and repeated harm inflicted through using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies, or mobile phones. Purpose To get revenge [https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/basics/punishment] To feel empowered To gain popularity To harass and threaten SOURCE: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/teen-angst/201401/trolling-or-cyberbullying-or-both
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