Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?

If everyone thinks you're a fool, you may be a fool. Be the change you want, stop try to change peoples arround you.

It's easy to get caught up in what other people think, and not so easy to rise above it. Changing their minds isn't what's really important it's how you feel about what they think; if you know you're not a bitter person and are comfortable with that what they think doesn't matter. Eventually they will see what you see!

You do not have to change anyone's mind. The only mind you have to change is yours, because when there is no self love, you can't get love from others too.

Perhaps try being kind and listen to others. Empathy is a valuable trait to own. You got this! If it is perhaps because of something else, we are always here to help you.

I am sorry to hear that people find you bitter. Sadly, It's sometimes impossible to change anyone's minds. Have you asked yourself why they might think this ?

Show them that you're not by doing good stuffs. Don't act selfish and be kind to someone. Give someone a compliment and make them feel good.

Prove to them how sweet you really are. People judge a book on it's cover and they often do for people as well. Sure, it's easy for people to say to smile more, but I think what's really powerful is to show people you are more than just what they see.

Begin expressing kindness. The one way you can show people you're not bitter is by proving it. Help them with their work, hold open doors for people, compliment them - even a little can go a long way.

There must be a reason that everyone thinks that you are bitter. How do you act when you are in school? Be more open and sociable with people, walk with a smile and your head up high. If someone says hello, say hello back. Ask people how their day is.

Just because people have a vision of you does not mean everyone thinks this. If you lash out maybe you have unsolved problems you did not know about. Try smiling in the hallways and being showing kindness towards all. At the end of the day do not care what others think.

Don't force them but try and be compassionate to them. Be nice and kind help them in any way of possinle

Try to reflect on why they might think this. Maybe your thoughts and opinions aren't quite bitter but the way you come across while expressing these things is what puts others off. It is important to remember others feelings when we speak. If you have insulted others I would start by apologizing sincerely. Try to be more lighthearted and maybe engage conversation with others and show them that you are interested in their opinions as much as yours!

i know i have a face that turns everyone away. if you do, too, try to change it. if someone looks at you, smile a bit. and most importantly, just show them. it's not very hard, all you have to do is show them how nice you can be and instead of just staring at someone try to make small talk or bring up some conversation.

By opening up a little, and trying to have a more positive attitude toward classmates. Specially communicating with individuals who believe you are bitter and telling them may be helpful in changing their mind.

You can try to perform random daily acts of kindness, such as holding the door for someone and smiling at them at the same time, or try to help people when you notice that they need help. In time, you are going to see that these acts of kindness are going to change the way people think about you.

Be kind to all those around you, even if a lot of people may be unkind to others, don't follow the crowd. Having a positive attitude and praising other people when they do a good job will help you become a likeable person, don't over do it though because you don't want to become annoying. Criticism isn't something people take kindly too. You may say something that is in fact a honest observation but most of the time a lot of people can't handle the truth so you have to put a lid on it, to learn if its appropriate to make such comments or not.

I understand that you are experiencing some hardships in school but I believe focusing on yourself and reaching out to us is a great way to begin your journey.However changing peoples minds is a serious issue and I can understand your struggle but what would change your mind if you were in their shoes? By thinking about this solution you might find your answer and you should start thinking positively about the things that you’ve done against it like reaching to us and being here facing your problem is a really brave start for you on the road to success

You don't have to satisfy them. Let them think you are. Just be who you are and later on they will see that they are wrong. Remember that you really can not please everyone. They will always find some fault on you. Or maybe they are just jealous of you. That is why they made lies about you. I hope that you understand what I have said. If you want anyone to talk with, I am always here for you. You can talk to me and I will listen to you for sure. Smile. I i i i i i

Showing the happy side of you showing that you are an amazing person that you do not judge them and you do not want to be judged and return make friends smile be joyful showing that you are not a better person with a wonderful person with a wonderful personality. If that does not work just listen to people mimic their personalities see if you are truly coming across as being better overdrawn if you are change find that happy medium where are you are you but you’re also accessible and friendly to others. Remember you have to be happy but strive to make other people happy as long as it does not affect your happiness in return for the most important person is you

You can begin by helping around in class, or showing your support to others in situations. Try hanging around other people more, or doing generally kind things to others and yourself. Also, be kind to yourself, try not to be harsh to others as it could contribute to the beliefs. Try to just be your true self, and remember to smile 😊. Just try some of these things depending on your situation, and just try to stay optimistic. Eventually, people will realize that you are not bitter and you will have nothing to worry about anymore 😊 I hope that I could help in anyway!

Well, You could try smiling at strangers more often, complimenting people, and even waving occasionally, it doesn't hurt to be kind to people, some people need it and it often boosts their mentality. Some people may not react as sweet back, or exchange confused glances, but don't worry, that's simply because people in schools normally aren't kind enough to smile and be sweet. If someone looks down, you can try picking them up, and if someone looks like they may need help, you could offer it to them. Don't worry, stay positive and keep that lovely smile on your face.

The way you change anyone mind is by changing your ways and the way your doing certain things. Your actions speaks way more louder than anything you could say so start with changing the way you act towards things. In my experience I've dealt with my bitterness by accepting my role in past situations. I've forgiven myself and asked those involved to forgive me. When I feel bitterness creeping into my world I try to find things to that will bring a joyous reaction not only to myself but others. You have to first admit that you are bitter and not deny it above all else.

Why do they think you are bitter; and, how would you prove to them that you are really a great person? I honestly can understand that feeling isolated from others can be brutal in communication settings where two or more people must work together to accomplish a goal. But above all; how do you feel about this certain situation that life has shown you? I remember how socialism and it's many diverse ethnic groups. When you have a chance, I only ask that you take a small break to actually understand your position and situation; because we don't want or need ourselves feeling like our peers opinion of us are rite.

Continue to be you, do not change yourself for anyone - if you're happy the way you are and they do not appreciate it then that's not your fault and your true friends will recognise that, in life there will be numerous people you may not get along with or there will be people that you simply cannot please but as long as you know deep within that you are loving and you stand by yourself no matter what then these problems won't take over. Stay true to yourself and love yourself for who you are, you are amazing and a lovely person I'm sure.

First you need to know why they think this, and then monitor your behavior and conversation, and try to change your way of dealing and talking with others, it is also good that you write notes about yourself, and make your close friends and family write some notes about your personality, which may help you change for the better, There are many books of behavior assessment that you can use and learn through the art of dealing with others. It could be just an illusion in your mind or just a bully, so check with a psychiatrist for help

What do they think you're bitter about? Is it possible that you are truly feeling bitter? It could help to work out if you are actually feeling bitter, and then try and decide, if so, why, and what you can do to accept the feeling and to stop it from interfering with your relationships. There may be some underlying cause beneath the bitterness that is making you seem bitter to others. It is also worth considering whether your sense that they think you are bitter is actually a consequence of the fact that you know in yourself that you are feeling bitter. Perhaps you are judging yourself for feeling that emotion, and then assuming that everyone else is judging you too! Things you could do to help you move through bitterness is work out the origin: is it rooted frustration or a feeling of rejection? Did you have some hopes and dreams that you find/found that you couldn't achieve? Whatever it is, find it, and think about whether there's anything you can do to change the circumstances in your life that are causing the bitterness. Best of luck xxx

Everyone is allowed to form their own opinion and perception. Their opinions and decisions are driven by the actions around them. The best thing would be to promise your self that you are ready to change the driver for their thinking. Try the following: 1. Things don't change in a day, but try to greet others when you meet them. Don't worry about how they react back. 2. Helping others create an aura of positivity. Try offering help to people. 3. Words play a great role in helping people form a perception about you. It would be great to use more positive words in your conversations

I've been there before. I remember sitting in class, wondering why no one would come up to me and talk to me, why I had no friends. I later realized that I grimaced a lot unconsciously, and I pushed people away who wanted to talk to me, because I subconsciously felt like they were trying to make fun of me, and because of this, I came off as very defensive and angry. In my experience, most people in my school were terrible at recognizing emotions and their underlying causes. It's a part of growing up and seeing that there's more to people than what we assume at first. It can also be difficult to recognize why we come off a certain way to people. In my case, a school counselor told me why I made a bad impression on people. While you won't be likable to everyone, I urge you to continue putting yourself out there. Join some clubs, volunteer, participate in competitions, maybe pick up a hobby. I assure you that you will find people similar to you, and most days, that will be enough. Plus, you'll learn a lot about yourself and grow in many ways. While I still feel like people hate me for no reason sometimes, I know that my friends recognize me for who I am, and having that group of people who like me for who I am means more to me than trying to please everyone by acting in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable. You'll find that too. Don't give up!

Often times, our behaviour isn't the problem but rather the perception of our behaviour. Other people can't see into our minds, so they can't understand why we do the things we do and say the things we say. It may seem clear as day to us, but that's rarely ever the case. Of course, you can't always account for other people's perceptions, but you can try and make your behaviour as evident as possible so that it doesn't lead to any misconceptions. If you're concerned that they have an opinion about your that may be inaccurate, try and find what it is about your behaviour that may be giving off the impression.

First, think of the reason why do you want to change their minds? Then, think of the possible reasons why would they think you're bitter. Maybe you can think of ways to change their perspective about you by doing so. It also improves yourself (if needed). But remember that some people think otherwise no matter what you do. So don't worry and just be yourself. Also, think of the reason what the are to you. Are they really that important in your life that you would want to change yourself for them? If so, then go ahead. But if not, then just stay the way you are.