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Profile: walkingpresent
walkingpresent
April 8th, 2020 2:08am
I personally think that moderate drinking is fine for now and then, even though I only drink 3 to 4 times a year because I'm aiming for physical goals. Let me tell you why you should not drink excessively instead. Okay, let me tell you something that you already know. Alcohol slows down your fat-burning rate in your body even to the point it stops completely. Because although we recognize the alcohol as the "fun-party-drink" our body sees alcohol as a mere poison. When you drink, the body will move their focus on removing this poison out of your body, that is why all other department that needs a lot of energy to work properly like the brain will have a temporary drop on its performance resulting in immoral behaviors and thought patterns in your end. Because the body is working hard to remove this poison, even during your sleep where the body suppose to repair your body (Muscles, organs, hormone chemicals to strengthen your immune system) They don't have the time to do so because they are making this poison removal a priority. Resulting you on this so called "Hangover" where you feel like you didn't get enough sleep even when you slept for 10 hours, because technically you didn't sleep that much. And as you may already know, when you are sleep-deprived it affects the whole day. Your moods will jump all over the place, your stress hormone spikes up, resulting in weight gain, weak immune system, high blood pressure and so on. Yes it affects how you interact with people, therefore your relationships Yes, it will affect your productivity and work performance. Yes, it will affect and change everything in your life.
Anonymous
August 1st, 2018 12:39pm
Because you are so much better then that. You have got your whole life ahead of you . You are loved and you are precious
Anonymous
September 14th, 2018 1:50pm
alchohol is a depressant, not to mention extremely bad for you if you excessively drink. Its absolutely fine to have a drink every now and then but if you already feel awful and depressed a lot of the time, it really wont help your feelings and may cause you to act out more. unless you are surrounded by people that understand your feelings and that you trust it is probably best to stay away from it until you feel more like yourself. just to be safe. a lot of people when depressed can start to rely on alchohol to get them through the bad time but then it is very difficult to get away from that habit too
Anonymous
December 6th, 2018 3:33am
Do you feel like you are an alcoholic? Do you feel like you are loosing control of your life? Are you worried about your health? These are questions you should ask yourself if your curious about stopping drinking. I stopped drinking mainly because my boyfriend is an alcoholic. If you have someone your close to that’s a good reason to stop. Maybe you don’t want to kill your liver. Living a sober lifestyle is healthy for your body and your mind. Alcohol is a chemical compound that can hurt your body more than it can help. Also, when you drink you start to lost control of basic bodily functions. Your brain works slower. This is why accidents occur. Your though patterns are infected.
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discodonut321
December 7th, 2018 6:13pm
Because it is so bad for your health. If you only drink every once in a while then it's fine, but if you drink all the time it can make you feel depressed and can lead to liver problems. If out have health problems that leads to stress. Stress leads to even more problems. You should try to quit drinking but very slowly and it's ok to have a drink every once in a while. Wine can actually be very good for you. You should talk to someone with more experience in this field because I don't want you to have withdrawals but I think you should try to slowly quit. Message me if you have other questions.
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Hellohello90
January 13th, 2019 4:36am
You know quitting drinking is the right thing to do. For your health. You may not want to be alive, but do you want to be alive with poor health? A lack of health that can bring pain you can't imagine dominating your life. Drinking makes depression worse. Drinking makes us not be able to live people as well as we could. Jesus wants the best for you. He doesn't want you to be an alcoholic anymore. It will improve every relationship in your life. You will have more money. You will have better sleep. All that time you spent being drunk or getting alcohol can now be devoted to helping others. Which will help you too.
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ApothecaryNicholas
January 18th, 2019 4:58pm
Quit drinking alcohol is so difficult as it is to find reasons to stop it. Most people tend to drink alcohol to forget a situation or feel better about themselves. Having their emotions controlling them they become addicted to it and lose control of their life. I'd stop drinking to gain control of my life and drive it to success.
Anonymous
June 12th, 2019 5:24pm
Sober life is the most pure, truthful life you can live. Being honest with yourself, taking care of yourself. Loving those around you. Recognizing your worth enough to realize you deserve more than what you have given yourself. When I stopped drinking, my life flourished. I got a full time job, in a house I rent, with a car I co-sign. I’m engaged to be married within the year. Life is so much more beautiful now that my eyes are no longer clouded by alcohol and drugs. I’m no longer hurting myself or the people around me. I’ve realized how beautiful life is, and I’ve realized you don’t need to be under the influence to have fun!
Anonymous
June 26th, 2019 5:32am
alcohol consumption is a really and habit. what happens when someone drinks is , when you drink alcohol for the first time your nervous system detects it as some sort of a danger and what is first does is give a signal to the digestive system and the digestive system tries to remove the harmful substance by vomiting and if vomiting didn't work to recover the nerves which are tired the nervous system signals the brain that you need some sleep ,that's why drunk people tend to vomit and sleep. Drinking directly affects the nervous system and long term alcohol consumption can lead to numerous dieseeases either mental or physical. due to long term alcohol consumption the brain cells get damaged and memory issues can occur, that's why these people tend to recall their past but can't remember things which happened in the present That's because they loose their present memory and the past memories are all they left with. lot of internal organs gets damaged due to alcohol consumption and many health related issues can occur.their social lives also can be affected due to this bad habit. No matter how many other good qualities or habits you've people or the society tend to always look for the errors and the social life even gets greatly affected. Hope you stop drinking dear , because what I believe is people who drink are losers.
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lydiat2004
August 8th, 2019 9:37pm
As individuals we each have different reasons why we want to stop or why we think it is a good idea to carry on doing the things we like or enjoy. There is no one reason why anyone should stop drinking and it all depends on the person in question which in this case is you. You might want to ask yourself what the pros and cons are of drinking or the pros and cons of not drinking are. It is always up to what you think is best and what you think is right for yourself moving forward.
Anonymous
September 25th, 2020 4:51am
What are some of the benefits that you feel like would come from stopping drinking? Is there any reason why you are considering reasons to stop drinking? One of the biggest reasons may be because you want to? If that is the case, then it could be worth it to look at why you want to quit drinking and the benefits that it has for you! Sometimes, making a pros/cons list can help brainstorm solutions to questions posed such as this one. Every individual has their own reasons for quitting drinking, however, the most important reasons are going to be your own.
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hopefulScenery3054
August 4th, 2021 10:10am
Hey there! Sorry you are dealing with alcoholism or certain aspects of it. I can give you multiple reasons including ones about your health and your loved ones, but only you can really answer your question. If you're here looking for a reason to stop, then that should be a reason enough. Take a look back at the things that have happened to you because you had one too many drinks. And if that doesn't convince you take a look at the relationship you have with your loved ones and try to look what it might become if you continue down this path. If it's worth it,by all means take another shot, if it's not then there's your why.
Profile: ShareHope137
ShareHope137
May 21st, 2021 1:00pm
Deciding if drinking is a problem for you is very personal. At twenty, I chose to stop because my life was out of control and I felt hopeless and isolated, even in the midst of gatherings of friends. I wasn’t myself because my drinking made half my decisions. Taking a step away from that lifestyle was hard. I sought support and found a group of people who loved me until I could love myself because they knew that road well and had gone before me. Sharing my struggles with people who had lived similarly helped me find my feet and begin a new chapter where I was in control and did not feel like I needed alcohol to pull me through. There have still been times of emotional upheaval that draw my mind to a drink as a form of relief, but I take a step back, find a quiet moment, and look at my motivation for wanting (or thinking I want) that drink. Giving myself an extra pause for thought allows me to identify and begin to address the actual problem without allowing alcohol to take control and decide for me. It is a hard road but you don’t have to walk it alone.
Anonymous
April 15th, 2021 3:45pm
Drinking can cause a lot of problems to your body physically and mentally. It can cause very serious damage to your organs and it can make you addicted to drinking. Once you get addicted it can be very, very hard to stop. Drinking can mess with your brain and make you do things that you might not want to do but do to the alcohol you did do it. Drinking is not so bad as long as you don't do it excessively or repeatedly over and over again. As long as you are aware of how much you drink it will be easier to stop.
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SarahJolene
September 17th, 2021 7:50pm
Ultimately, only you can answer this question. When I stopped drinking, I woke up one night to realize that I was sick and tired of being sick and tired and I had to change something. I didn't know how to do it, and I didn't know where to go to find it, but I knew I wanted to live a different life. The repercussions of my drinking were starting to sneak up on me, both physically and legally. I realized all the ways my actions were negatively affecting my life and those around me. Even though I had completely isolated myself away from my family and disconnected from any friends I had in the past, I was still hurting the people who cared about me. That said, even though other people were being affected, I found out the ONLY person I could stop drinking for was myself, and it had to be 100% my decision. 6.5 years later, it was the best decision I ever made, and I'm actually grateful for all the repercussions I had to face. When I reflect on them now, I realize that they are the reason I'm able to live the life I do today.
Anonymous
April 14th, 2021 12:37am
By drinking, you could be limiting your full potential. Not only could you be limiting yourself, but you are putting unnecessary strife on your loved ones as well as yourself. To stop drinking would be the first stem in your journey of your new life. You should stop drinking in order to relieve your family and friends as well as yourself. I know it must be very difficult to stop drinking for yourself, so it might be easier to view it as something you are doing for your loved ones. Remember, there are so many people here for you each and every step of the way on your journey.
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Rainysmiles8869
September 19th, 2021 7:25pm
Drinking is super super super unhealthy for your body. Plus it ultimately doesn't help you in the long run. I personally have used drinking to soothe the pain you could say. I truly believe that there are better options than this. Maybe try reaching out to somebody talking about how your feelings and why you drink may save you from becoming addicted. If you are drinking to help your pain you should really talk to somebody before your drinking turns into addiction or even worse. A drink every once in a while won't hurt you but excessive drinking will. Much love to you🥰
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hmalloryj
April 7th, 2021 3:28am
You should stop drinking because in the long run alcohol abuse can cause things like cancer, heart disease, etc. Your liver will 100% thank you for it! I lost my grandfather to cancer, he was a heavy, heavy alcohol user. It is hard sometimes to think of the problems later in life. I was a substance abuser and finding recovery was the best thing I ever did, I became much happier finding myself, I feel so much healthier! You will become so much happier and healthier!! Wishing you the best, and I hope you find the help you were searching for
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Jesselistens2294
March 25th, 2021 1:08am
The regular consumption of alcohol can cause your liver cells to die. Eventually, enough cells can die to cause permanent damage, like scars that never heal. Because of all the toxins contained within alcohol, drinking it regularly will cause breakouts of acne, and signs of premature ageing. In other words, drinking alcohol excessively will lower the appearance of your skin. Being reliant on another substance is not healthy in any aspect. If you’re someone who needs alcohol to get through your day, then you need to fix that. Once you stop drinking alcohol, you’ll feel much happier, and your mood won’t depreciate if for some reason you’re unable to have a drink one day. Kidney disease, liver disease, heart disease; all caused through lethal quantities of alcohol being consumed. If you quit drinking before you manage to do permanent damage to your body, it will heal itself. However, if you push it past it limits, you’ll do lasting damage, and end up with serious illnesses. You’ll also be feeling happier and healthier, which can easily improve relationships, your career, etc. In the end the choice is yours, However i hope in the end you choose to live a happy long sober lifestlye !
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amiablePeace77
January 22nd, 2021 9:36pm
Alcohol is like someone who cheers you up for a moment and then backstabs you. Drinking makes you suffer more and more, waking up every morning will be a nightmare and it will not stop. Giving up alcohol will be hard but you will have a very good chance to a better life, you will be able to wake up without the terrible emotional pain, your body will feel better, you will be able to do things again and you will be able to make real friends, those who love you and not just say it because they are drunk too.
Anonymous
January 20th, 2021 6:30pm
There are many reasons one might consider stopping drinking, but only you can decide what the right reasons are for you. Some reasons a person might want to stop drinking are that drinking can lead to physical health problems, it can cause physical and emotional dependence, and may decrease mental and emotional well being in the long term. Other people find that drinking has a negative impact on their work life or family life, or that it leads to difficulties in their relationships. In some instances, certain decisions made while drinking may lead to legal issues. If you feel drinking is negatively impacting your life, or the lives of those around you, in any way, it may hint at a reason you might want to stop drinking.
Anonymous
December 3rd, 2020 6:22pm
I think that if you are at a point where you are thinking about stopping, there is usually a reason that you are thinking about that. For me, my reason was there was a time when I was drinking and my family noticed and were being hurt because I was being very belligerent, and they were concerned for my health. I finally agreed that I had a problem when I woke up one morning and learned that I had ruined a close friendship of mine. While I was intoxicated, I had said very hurtful things, and done things that I sincerely regret. For me, that is why I stopped drinking, and I hope that this story shows that your answer may be different, but eventually drinking gets to a point where you hurt the people around you, and then yourself.
Anonymous
November 26th, 2020 7:17pm
Because it can benefit your mental health, physical health, overall well being, skin. You will have much more energy to do actual work than worrying about having analgesics for hangovers. While drinking may seem like a great temporary escape from everyday problems, it actually causes more problems in the long run. You will also end up saving more money as if you calculate the total money you wasted on alcohol, you’ll actually realise how you could’ve used it for something so much better. Not to mention, the health complications it causes include a much increased risk for colon cancer, a leaky intestine.
Anonymous
November 5th, 2020 8:56pm
Drinking numbs emotions and makes us not aware of how it inhibites us. A lot of times excessive drinking is like a band aid on a flesh wound. Not really solving the problems or things stressing you out. If you use drinking to feel happy maybe evaluate why you need to have a drink to feel happier. It also may affect your health, and cause to have more health problems and die earlier than those who don't drink or only have one on occasion. Plus on a mental scale alcohol is a downer causing things like depression and anxiety to pop back up. Physically it can cause weight gain and health issues like I mentioned before. It can cause quicker aging, problems with sleeping, issues with mental health and more. While one glass of something like red wine may be healthy , anything in excess should be avoided.
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CaringHeart0921
May 17th, 2020 10:08pm
Drinking has an effect an all aspects of our life, whether we notice or not. From my experience, becoming sober caused me to gain better control of my life and my emotions. I have not had a blackout, hangover, or used alcohol as an excuse for anything since I quit. I own my actions and my decisions. I have clarity around what I want in life, friendships, etc. And I'm better at speaking up now too. No more drowning in alcohol to cope with stuff, using healthy alternatives like actually processing emotions and "why" you need alcohol after a hard day's work or when someone upsets you, and always getting a good night's sleep. Everyone is different but I would highly recommend giving up alcohol if possible.
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ColorMeHopeful
May 25th, 2022 9:07pm
Hello. Drinking, if you don’t have any health reasons and in moderation is okay. Unless there seems to be an issue with tolerance and the amount of alcohol/frequency. In that case, alcohol can lead to addiction, and several health problems. Both mentally and physically. The consumption can cause you to act out of character resulting in problems in your relationships, work related issues and sleeping disturbances. If alcohol is becoming an issue, please talk to someone you trust and reach out to any professional. You can also talk this matter over with your family physician.
Anonymous
June 2nd, 2020 6:18pm
Drinking is not necessarily a bad thing. If it is interfering with the good things in your life perhaps that is a signal that something needs to be changed, which could include why you are drinking or how much you are drinking. For instance, if your health is suffering that is a good reason to stop drinking. If it is interfering with your personal relationship that also may be another reason why you could stop drinking. There are plenty reasons to stop drinking and each individual has their own reasons. Only you can tell what your reason to stop drinking may be.
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generousTurtle9108
May 22nd, 2020 10:27pm
One way to consider this answer is to look at what are the goals and values you have in your life. Then, consider as objectively as possible, how drinking has impacted your goals or values. For example, if you value meaningful close and honest relationships, consider how the drinking may or may not have impacted your relationship with others. It may also be helpful to consider if the drinking is used as tool to distance or distract from emotions that are painful, in which case you may want to consider whether addressing and welcoming those emotions may also help you either achieve your goals or preserve and nourish your values. Often, if you can be in a place where your behavior, are aligned with your goals and values in a meaningful way, you might reach the answer on your own.
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JadeLC
June 10th, 2020 5:43pm
While recreational drinking can be alright in moderation, once we abuse the activity in an effort to cope with our own struggles, it can become harmful to our mind and body. For those with addiction problems, becoming sober is a great path towards healing. If you are relying on alcohol in an unhealthy way, it would be very beneficial to stop drinking and perhaps lean on friends/family/therapists for emotional support and guidance. Once you find a way to address the triggers or underlying issues that are causing you to turn to drinking, you can use the proper coping strategies to heal in a healthy way.
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kindHeart1309
May 14th, 2020 1:40am
Alcohol gets broken down in your liver, funnily enough, with heavy consumption, your liver becomes overworked which can result in numerous health complications. By simply giving up the alcohol it provides one less thing your body needs to worry about to keep you feeling healthy and fresh. Alcohol is linked to seven different types of cancer including breast cancer and mouth cancer. Cutting alcohol out lowers your risk of getting cancer. Giving up drinking will have a big impact on your liver and should reduce the chances of developing liver disease. As the calories in alcohol can cause you to gain weight, giving up alcohol can also help you to reduce your blood pressure as a result of the weight you can potentially lose. By this point, if you'd previously been drinking six 175ml glasses of wine a week, you would have lost 2880 calories over three weeks.