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Listeners with a Disability - Supporting those with Disabilities (2024-2025)
by AffyAvo
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2 days ago
...See more We had one of these before, but many of the listeners are no longer using 7cups. So here's an updated one. Are you a listener with a disability willing to support others with a disability? Please share here! Also note what your disability is or give as much detail as you're comfortable wtih so that members can find someone with similar issues.
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2024 - Taglist Disability Support
by CaringBrit
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December 3rd
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating tag list. To see the current list, go to Disability Support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?3ec913e645043cdcd31f94a3324ab37c]. To add yourself to this tag list, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this tag list, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. This Taglist will be used for the Daily Check-Ins could even be used for Events etc. What happens after you join the tag list? You will notice an icon for a little bell up in the right corner of your screen. there is a letter icon, then the bell, then a jar, and then the icon for your account. That bell will tell you about your notifications. When we tag you, it will show up as a number on the bell. Click on the bell and a drop-down menu will appear and it will show you the link to the post where we tagged you. Current taglist as at  December 3rd 2024 131 @777Bre777 @adaptableOcean4193 @adaptablePomegranate1587 @adequatelyInadequate @adventurousBranch3786 @AffyAvo @agreeableTurtle1021 @AguaNector6700 @amusingTalker1267 @Aqua1494 @Arsalanahmed @Ashleylovescats @AttentiveEar @audienta @AutiBoy @Averayne93 @azuladragon34 @BacktotheTrail @BeyondTheInvisible @BlindGrapefruit @blissfulTouch29 @Bndonovan02 @bouncyBreeze44 @bouncyVoice4149 @Breezy2013 @cal1860 @CaringBrit @CheeryPotato @CheerySandi @ChildGoddessFlute @Chloe1644 @cinnamoncocoa @CocoaCassie @Colorfulcatsofhope @communicativePond1728 @considerateBunny7436 @Countrygirl095 @crystallizedrequiem @Daisy7cups @DichotomousDetia @disneymoonlight @Disneywoman @DoISayIt @DonaldK @DylanMark @Edobre399 @Emiliako @emotionalTalker2260 @enigmaticOcean8813 @enthusiasticOwl866 @enthusiasticTortoise6681 @fairmindedWater1140 @Fireskye13 @FrenchMarbles @friendlyEars8792 @goldenSpruce1512 @greekcatperson @IcedCoffee211109 @IndigoWhisper @InfiniteThoughts2k19 @Jamesjones10123 @Jewels012222 @jovialButterfly6752 @JoyfulUnicorn @JoyIntoDarkness @K87 @kenzixo @killaj0ule @Kittibear @KuhnDisabled101 @kwheelz @lightTriangle7748 @LikeABirdWithoutWings @lovelycoacoa @lovelySun2900 @LoveMyRotty @magnifiedfaith @ManinblacK @MartianGirl347 @MeaningfulSilence @Meowsicle @MistyMagic @mnhtx3 @modestHickory2783 @modestOcean1286 @moosprbrk @MyNameIsNicole @NaomiR @nessdamess @NevaehRose @NotKhan2 @Ofenkartoffel @OneErased @PerfectHarmony10 @philosophicalAcai7803 @pinkbunnywabbit @Pixiechu @placidMoth @Plantsaremybestfriends @Poppia @PotFullOfSky2020 @rainbowVibes @Raysofsunshineandrainbow2005 @redGrapes1822 @Redheadmadeofglitter94 @repen13 @reservedCat9143 @reservedOwl6476 @RiggsMortis @sabeyesofblue3535 @Seachele @SmolBurrahobbit12 @SparklyCat @specialPurple1582 @StarsOrchidsOwls @stuffiessytem @sunshinegiraffe123 @tearstruck @theboymoana @TimidBear @TomatoEmi @turquoiseHemlock900 @u2canwin @wahmbrenda @Walker7957 @WeedyGarden @WishUponAStar968 @wonderfulRainbow817 @xandia @xxParkerxx @Zed786 Updated by MistyMagic
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December Check in with Us!
by AffyAvo
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December 3rd
...See more It's the most wonderful time of the year 🎵 ... Or is it? [Snow falls, bright warm lights can be seen through the windows of a few houses] I think most of us who are disabled, have an illness or live with someone who is disabled find December challenging for one reason or another. There's a number of holidays, the end of the year, shorter/colder days in the north and longer hotter days in the south, etc. and these can all affect us. How do you feel about December and what's 1 challenge you think you're likely to experience/are experiencing this month? Share a tip you have to help manage that challenge? - If you don't have a tip please let us know if you are open to others offering suggestions. How are you doing today? A reminder - you are welcome to check in multiple times for the month and you can answer as many or as few questions as you like!
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Youtube discrimation against Deaf Youtubers
by Disneywoman
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21 hours ago
...See more So I had a Youtube channel for 13 years now (2011-present).  Up until this fall I had it on private  but I wanted to make a long video of my Planet Coaster 1 theme park (back then there was only one Planet Coaster but now there's two)  -which had three lands- Waltville (Fantasy/Magic Kingdom)  Roys' Claim (Western) and Lillian's land (No theme)- but I couldn't have all of them in one video, due to the fact I only have "Standard Eligibility feature"  which limits me to only 15 mins videos. I'm Deaf in one ear and Hard of Hearing in the other.    That's where the problem is If I want to make longer videos aka "Immediate Eligibility " level of videos  I need  either a)to have a smart phone/cell phone with SMS to get a verification number or b)I can have a phone call.      There's 0 options for email to be an option the excuse most people use is "because of Spam bots".   Because there's no option for email it's basically discrimination against Deaf Youtubers who might want to make longer videos.  I certainly do NOT want to have to use my parents' home phone number to get this one-time call.  I have tried everything already-I tried "Free" SMS websites and none of them worked for me.  Either the number's already been use, or nothing showed up or "Please use an actual number".   Google Voice isn't avaible in Canada unless I had a "business account"    I tried contacting Youtube but they just told me to tell feedback. So as a last resort today I tagged on Twitter (I am not calling it X) some disabled Content Creators on Youtube,  and in 2 hours after I tagged them on Twitter  I got 5 replies for people who could help me.   So we will see how that works for me. 
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Surgery Denied
by LauraAM
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22 hours ago
...See more So I’ve been waiting for surgery on my damaged airway for two years but now there saying I’ve put on too much weight, which considering I can’t work out or even walk without losing my breath, is an obvious reason why. I feel like there just trying to blame me for it being difficult when I’ve only done what they’ve asked, gone to all my scans and appointments. Ever feel like you get blamed for having a disability?
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Listeners with a Disability - Supporting those with Disabilities (2024-2025)
by AffyAvo
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2 days ago
...See more We had one of these before, but many of the listeners are no longer using 7cups. So here's an updated one. Are you a listener with a disability willing to support others with a disability? Please share here! Also note what your disability is or give as much detail as you're comfortable wtih so that members can find someone with similar issues.
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Festive Greetings!
by MistyMagic
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3 days ago
...See more Hey everyone! Festive Season's Greetings! On behalf of the Disability Support Community Team @MistyMagic, @AffyAvo and @compassionateMoon4024  I just wanted to send to you all, members and listeners, lots of warm cheer, fleecy blankets, hot drinks and comforting fun for this festive season. Does the prospect of the next week send you into a turmoil, or do you love all the lights and Christmas spirit? Is your life feeling like A, B, or C? and Share with us your thoughts and wishes for 2025! A. Everything just falls apart at this time of year and seems out to get you?  B. It is hard work but fun! C. I love it all! Yayyyyyyy! Fun! Fun! Fun!🎄🎄   . . . for being party of our Community, for posting and replying in the forums, having 1-1 conversations and joining in with the chat and discussions in the Disability Support room 💛💙 💚
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Everyone is loosing spoons with Elderly Blind friend.
by Disneywoman
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December 11th
...See more Hi everyone.  I come with a problem.    I have an elderly blind friend  whom is getting on basically everyone's nerves really. Mine, Mom's, and her Developmental Disabled Son as well.     May of 2023 I started to help her get to the hair salon in my town the first time on the bus and until March of this year  Dad would drive  her and me, to the hair place and I would put her back on the bus by herself to her apartment.   But March of this year- now  Mom has to come and help her with everything (getting her down the hill and across the street to the bus stop) and Mom sometimes has to do stuff like pour water for my friend or sort through her  wallet cards for particular reasons.     Also this friend wants to write a will so her son doesn't have the same headache she had when her husband (the son's father) died last year and didn't leave a will.   But according to my Dad they can't just "get an example form off the internet" but  she's not able to pyschially write anything anymore (beside blindness her hand gets shaky.)  Her son, now has to do all the cooking for the 2 of them because she's that blind now.  He's getting really annoyed about it.  Some other friends get annoyed about having to "help" her as well.  
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Totally blind
by colorfulOasis1483
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December 8th
...See more Hi everyone :) I'm Jess, 40, living in Aus, and totally blind. Just reaching out to see if anyone else here is blind or visually impaired?
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International Cat Day - How cats has helped you?
by vivelespatates
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December 8th
...See more Share here your stories about how a cat is helping you or has helped you to overcome a disability ! What are the benifits from having a cat? How may a cat help a person with a disability? Want to share a picture of you cat? Forum Hunt: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
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I'm totally confused on what things might mean (Adult Protective Social worker and PCW)
by Disneywoman
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December 7th
...See more So I'm looking into things and I'm getting totally bamboozled with words I don't understand.  I might understand the words but I don't know what that actually means.   Like what is an Adult Protective Service Worker suppose to do?  This is what it says on the provincial Development services site for (APSWs) * learn about community supports and ministry-funded services. * identify your strengths and needs. * stay informed about supports and direct you to the ones you need. * develop problem-solving and life skills, like budgeting and learning to use public transportation. I don't need any help with how to use public transportation I been doing that for years on my own or with my Mom.  On another website I'm looking into different things and in a Particpation House thing..  something I could look into is Personal Centered Planning. (PCP) and I have no idea what that means in the first place.   I do have ideas of potential goals for me to use for PCP.   1.  volunteer more 2. Living skills (have minor goals here) 3. Theaparist. 
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A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words! In Honor of Special Education Teachers Everywhere
by calmMango9611
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December 4th
...See more Special Education Day is December 2nd, 2024. We extend a heartfelt thank you to all the special education teachers for your dedication, compassion, and tireless efforts. You inspire growth, celebrate every achievement, and create lasting impacts in your students' lives. The joy you find in helping students discover their unique strengths and overcome challenges with resilience makes every small victory feel like a huge success. Thank you for sharing why being a special education teacher is important to you!
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Mental Illnesses are Just as Important as Physical Disabilities!
by BeautifulSoulHannah2277
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December 4th
...See more To all of you struggling with one disability over the other, know that you’re not alone. You matter. You’re heard. And you’re welcome in this world full of discrimination and stigmas. A lot of people don’t know that mental health issues or illnesses are just as important as physics disabilities. Some people have one, while others struggle living with both. Because you carry a heavy weight on your shoulders every day of thoughts, emotions, or pain, please don’t feel left out or think that you are different than everyone else. You’re a human just like everyone else. Your disability might be different and bring on a whole new experience. Don’t give up and keep on fighting the good fight! You are loved and cared for! ~ Hannah
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IDPWD - International Day of People With Disabilites!
by MistyMagic
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December 4th
...See more To raise awareness of the International Day Of People With Disabilities I thought it might be interesting to start a discussion on what the definition of 'disability' is thought of across the world. Each country seems to have their own definition. So, what do you think? What does your country think? Do you agree or disagree? How does it make you feel? Happy? Annoyed? Upset? Hopeful? Share with us! The definition of "disability" varies across countries and cultures, reflecting diverse legal, social, and cultural frameworks. Below are some perspectives on how disability is understood and defined in different contexts: ------------------------- 1. International Definition * United Nations (UN) Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD): [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkgDqb5E5n7wEAuOIM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzIEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Nj/RV=2/RE=1734433180/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equalityhumanrights.com%2Four-work%2Four-human-rights-work%2Fmonitoring-and-promoting-un-treaties%2Fun-convention-rights-persons/RK=2/RS=.awcOXU6HyeO3OjGE1yqjfkURnQ-] The CRPD defines disability as including "long-term physical, mental, intellectual, or sensory impairments which, in interaction with various barriers, may hinder full and effective participation in society on an equal basis with others." This definition emphasizes a social model of disability, focusing on the interaction between impairments and societal barriers. ------------------------- 2. Western Countries * United States: Under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), a disability is defined as "a physical or mental impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities." This definition blends the medical model (focus on individual impairments) and the social model (consideration of barriers). * European Union (EU): In the EU, disability is often viewed through the social model, but definitions vary by country. For example: * In the UK, the Equality Act 2010 defines disability as "a physical or mental impairment that has a substantial and long-term negative effect on a person's ability to do normal daily activities."  * In Germany, definitions often align with the social insurance model, emphasizing medical diagnoses in relation to work capability. ------------------------- 3. Non-Western Countries * China: Disability is defined primarily through the medical model and is regulated by the Law on the Protection of Disabled Persons. It includes physical, intellectual, and sensory impairments but often focuses on the functionality of individuals in specific roles. * India: The Rights of Persons with Disabilities Act, 2016 defines disability broadly, listing 21 conditions, including mental illness and specific learning disabilities. It adopts a mix of the social and medical models, aiming for inclusivity. ------------------------- 4. Indigenous and Traditional Cultures * In some indigenous cultures, disability may not be viewed as an impairment but as a unique difference or even a spiritual condition. * Native American tribes sometimes regard disability as a natural variation within the community, not stigmatized. * In African contexts, cultural views on disability vary widely. Some communities see it as a consequence of spiritual or ancestral factors, while others interpret it as a natural part of human diversity. ------------------------- 5. Sociocultural Dimensions * Japan: Disability is defined through both medical and societal frameworks. Social perceptions are influenced by traditional beliefs such as "gaman" (perseverance), leading to a focus on overcoming barriers rather than accommodations. * Middle Eastern Countries: Islamic traditions often emphasize community responsibility and care for individuals with disabilities. Definitions of disability are shaped by religious principles and the medical model. ------------------------- Summary While there is increasing global alignment towards the social model of disability (as promoted by the CRPD), interpretations remain influenced by local legal systems, cultural norms, and historical contexts. These differences underscore the importance of understanding disability within specific cultural and regional frameworks to ensure effective policies and inclusive practices. https://idpwd.org/ [https://idpwd.org/]  Written as part of the Disability Support Community Articles. More infoposts can be found  [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postural-tachycardia-syndrome-pots/symptoms-causes/syc-20451722] If you have a condition or 'Awareness Campaign' that you feel we should recognise please message  [https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postural-tachycardia-syndrome-pots/symptoms-causes/syc-20451722]@MistyMagic [https://www.7cups.com/@MistyMagic] (teens and adults) or @AffyAvo [https://www.7cups.com/@AffyAvo](adults)
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Caring gifts to those that care for us! Cupsgiving!
by MistyMagic
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December 3rd
...See more Caring gifts to those that care for us This post is part of Cupsgiving Week. Choosing a gift for your carer can be a thoughtful and meaningful gesture to show appreciation for their care and support. Here are some tips to help you select the perfect gift: 1. Consider Their Preferences * Pay Attention to Hobbies: Think about what they enjoy doing in their free time (e.g., gardening, cooking, reading, sports). * Ask Subtly: If you're unsure, you can ask casual questions about their likes and dislikes without revealing your intention. Ask those near to them for ideas. 2. Choose Something Meaningful * Personalized Gifts: Items like engraved keychains, custom mugs, or photo frames can add a personal touch. Remember they may need to be ordered in advance! * Handmade Gifts: If you enjoy crafting or making art, a handmade gift like a card, painting, or knitted item can be incredibly special. Again these take time so it’s important to plan your gift. But these I can vouch for.  3. Practical Items * Useful Gifts: A high-quality notebook, a nice pen, or something they can use daily in their work or leisure. * Relaxation Gifts: Think about self-care items like candles, bath products, or a gift card for a massage or spa day. * Disposable Gifts: Not as in throw-away but something that they can use and enjoy and appreciate and that won’t take up valuable space in the home. Cookies or sweets, chocolate luxury items. 4. Sentimental Options * Thank-You Letters: A heartfelt note expressing your gratitude can mean more than a material gift. * Memory Keepsakes: A small scrapbook or photo album highlighting meaningful moments you've shared. A framed photo too. 5. Experience-Based Gifts * Treat Them to an Experience: A voucher for their favorite restaurant, a cinema gift card, or a ticket to an event they’d enjoy. * Time Together: If possible, plan a simple outing like a coffee date or a park visit. Or organize a tea party in your room or even just a cup of coffee for 5 minutes rest together. 6. Budget-Friendly Ideas * Small Tokens: Flowers, a box of chocolates, or a thoughtful book can be perfect. * DIY Options: Create something with the resources you have—baked goods, a playlist of their favorite music, or a simple drawing or poem that you have taken the time to write for them. Perhaps make it funny or rhyming. 7. Accessibility and Delivery * Online Shopping: If mobility or time is a concern, many retailers offer gift wrapping and delivery services. * Help from Others: Ask a friend or family member for assistance if you need help purchasing or delivering the gift. 8. Show Appreciation in Words * Sometimes the best gift is simply taking the time to tell them "thank you" in a heartfelt way. Pair it with a small token to make it more memorable. Maybe even sing to them! By focusing on their preferences, adding a personal touch, and staying within your means, you can give a gift that will truly show how much you value their care. Now some questions for you! Let's pretend we are giving a gift to another person in the World of Cups or in particular the Disability Support Community:- * How do you choose a gift? * Who would you give a gift to? * What would you give them?

Welcome to the Disability Support Community!

This is an inclusive community where people can seek and provide support and post about topics related to learning disabilities, chronic pain, chronic illnesses and conditions, physical disabilities and developmental disabilities. You are welcome to join in even if you don't used disabled as a label for yourself.

There are a number of ways to get involved and be supported. We have a pop up teen chatroom and a 24/7 adult chatroom.

There are guides for Chronic Pain and T2 Diabetes
There are Q&A sections for Disabilities and Chronic Pain

Members may connect with a listener who has disabilities, chronic pain, cancer, diabetes, adhd or autism listed as a topic and there are listeners with disabilities supporting people with disabilities

We encourage people to post new threads and respond to others in the forums! Some good ways to get started are to introduce yourself and to join our tag list to be notified of weekly check ins and events. We also have an Interview Series: if you would be open to sharing more about yourself and want to be interviewed.

Looking to be even more activity in the Disability Community? Join as a leader!

*Note we are inclusive of all disabilities but ADHD and Autism each of their own communities which may be of interest to some of you.

Community Guidelines

🌟 Please be respectful of everybody's thoughts and opinions.

🌟 Don't think you are alone, so please share

🌟 Please be patient if you feel like your concern hasn't been addressed yet; we are working hard to add more leaders and supporters.

🌟 If you have any concerns, reach out to a leader or make a post.

🌟 For Listeners only - please remember that you are here to give support, if you are seeking support then please switch to your Member account.

🌟 Most of all - don't forget to be awesome! You are loved and accepted here, no matter what!

Guidelines For Using AI 


We all want the Disability Support Community to be a safe place where people are able to be their authentic selves and receive support. We understand that AI tools can be helpful in reducing barriers, allowing people to better express themselves, and allowing those with some disabilities to be able to read, write, and post, but excessive, or complete use of AI can feel robotic and reduce supportive person-to-person interactions. It can also lead to false impressions of the poster. We want to try and avoid this and help our Community to be as inclusive and as welcoming as possible to all users.


What is AI?

AI is short for ‘artificial intelligence’ which is software, a program or algorithm that works to sort, order, and combine data to give a response or answer to a question or input. Artificial intelligence is the ability of a computer, software, or computer-controlled robot to perform tasks that are commonly associated with the intellectual processes characteristic of humans, such as the ability to reason. As yet no AI’s match full human flexibility over wider domains or in tasks.

Some of the most common examples of AI in use today include: 

  • ChatGPT: Uses large language models (LLMs) to generate text in response to questions or comments posed to it. 

  • Google Translate: Uses deep learning algorithms to translate text from one language to another. 

  • Netflix: Uses machine learning algorithms to create personalized recommendation engines for users based on their previous viewing history. 

  • Tesla: Uses computer vision to power self-driving features on their cars.



If using AI tools please adhere to the following:


  • Include some of your own personal expression. This could come from a detailed, personal prompt to the AI tool or include some of your own words with a post.

  • Cite which AI tool(s) you used, which applies both to AI-generated and AI-edited text as well as images too. For instance, if you use Dragon to voice type then say so and if the text is AI-edited include that fact too.

  • Avoid posting misinformation. AI sometimes creates personalized anecdotes, facts, or references. If you are sharing an experience, don’t post an AI-fabricated one. If posting information check that it is correct and aligns with trustworthy sources.

  • Cite the source of your information. It can be important to know and understand the source of information posted, AI-generated content may draw information from their database so try and use factual sites that can be checked and that aren’t misleading.

  • Don’t make threads in excess. AI can make it fairly quick to create a lot of content. We want to give everyone’s posts a chance to be seen. Please don’t post a large amount of threads in a short period of time, this is called ‘flooding’ and can prevent other posts from being seen.

  • If you do feel like there’s a lot you want to state on one topic, consider making multiple posts within the same single thread. Or create your own ‘Disability Diary’ thread and post there, this will increase your visibility, and those who reply will be notified when you add another post.

  • Follow the guidelines. You are responsible for what is posted from your account, even if AI was used in the creation of the post, so please double-check what you write and post!


For more information please read this post by @Heather225 - 7 Cups Community Director.


Do’s ✅  and  ❌ Don’t List:


Do - Humanize your post with your own expression and words

Do - Cite the AI tool(s) you use

Do - Make ONE thread and post to it if there are several posts you want to make

Do- Read things over and ensure the guidelines are being followed

Don’t post something that is entirely AI-generated with little input from yourself

Don’t post misinformation

Don’t flood the forums with AI threads, or multiple threads


If in doubt please ask @MistyMagic  (Adults and Teens) or @AffyAvo (Adults) or consider joining the Disability Community Support Team. More information Here







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