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Perimenopause

User Profile: tbmicban12
tbmicban12 April 14th, 2021

I'm 51 does anyone feel like they're losing their mind?. Or feel like they don't like the changes that your body has taken?

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User Profile: intuitiveFriend1097
intuitiveFriend1097 April 18th, 2021

I am 54. I feel like there are days that I am going to bleed to death. Will it ever stop? I have increased my anti depressant because anxiety and sleeplessness is bad. I don’t have hot flashes jus these symptoms. I just wonder if it ever gets better or is this what I am looking at for the rest of my life. Never know what my day is going to be like.

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User Profile: amiableBlackberry92
amiableBlackberry92 May 5th, 2021

@Intuitivefriend1097 I'm sorry your suffering and I get it I suffered unbelievably during perimenopause. No fun at all, but I got past most of it with my Dr.s help. I just wanted you to know it does improve. I think the biggest problem is getting the support we need during this huge transition. I hope my post was helpful to you in some way. Best, ABB💜

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User Profile: amiableBlackberry92
amiableBlackberry92 May 5th, 2021

@tbmicban12 I understand because I did lose my way during perimenopause. I struggled terribly. My cycle finally stopped when I was 55 . But up to that point I felt like a crazy person plus I had trauma during this time frame. I hated my body changes to be honest. But don't lose hope things settled down and I am better. Not perfect but better. I got into therapy and meds for the trauma and it helped with all I was going through. My Dr was a big help. There's alot of things to help with symptoms you just have to ask for help. Best of luck and I hope my post helped you in some way. ABB 💜

User Profile: intuitiveFriend1097
intuitiveFriend1097 May 10th, 2021

Thank you. Yes I need to get to a better doc

User Profile: intelligentTiger5312
intelligentTiger5312 May 19th, 2021

Oh gosh yes! I had a mini melt down last week in work, it had been building up for a few weeks or even months. Glad it's happened, I can admit that I was struggling and seeing my doctor tomorrow to get some help. It does make a difference to my sanity knowing its just not me experiencing these symptoms.

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User Profile: brightPeach7644
brightPeach7644 August 19th, 2021

I’m on my third doctor. Most don’t seem to care and just want to throw antidepressants at you without even testing your hormones. I finally found one who listens and seems to care.

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User Profile: brightPeach7644
brightPeach7644 August 19th, 2021

Yes, for the first few months I thought I was going crazy. I started therapy and taking estrogen patch. The estrogen patch has helped quite a bit. I don’t have anxiety anymore like I did for several months, but my hormones still fluctuate, and when they do, the patch doesn’t help. I get low money ds and I’m irritable. I cry and I don’t know why. It’s scary. I’m trying to decide if I need antidepressants. I had a hysterectomy 10 years ago, so I don’t Know if I’m peri or post. The doctor thinks peri because my hormones are still fluctuating. I hope there is a light at the end of the tunnel because I feel like I’ve lost a part of myself.

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User Profile: brightPeach7644
brightPeach7644 August 19th, 2021

*moods

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User Profile: lovelyWords13
lovelyWords13 August 22nd, 2021

yes I feel more anxious and sleep pattern has been effected plus sometimes get brain fog read these are all symtoms , it really is horrible with mood swings

User Profile: bravePineapple5719
bravePineapple5719 March 21st, 2022

Im 51 as well and i can tell you that i feel like i’ve lost my mind too! My Dr says it is ‘normal’ but i dont think so….its the hot flashes—they make you crazy. Im hopeful to find others here going through same as its a lonely island at times.

User Profile: lledmonds1969
lledmonds1969 April 18th, 2022

I’m 53. My anxiety has gone through the roof. I hate it. I feel crazy

User Profile: affectionateBeechwood3335
affectionateBeechwood3335 April 18th, 2022

50, went through menopause at 46 I think I started peri menopause early 40s I wish I'd known more. I'm convinced anxiety is partly menopause.

I can cope with most of the physical stuff, although it would be great to have more energy and not feel like every joint is on fire, but the mental stuff... I had no idea!


User Profile: Avies
Avies April 25th, 2022

I suffer from various menopause symptoms. Except for mood swings, I experience insomnia, hot flashes, and dryness. By the way, Premarin Cream helps with itching and dryness so take note. I also take magnesium to sleep better. What natural remedies are effective for hot flashes? It annoys me so much...