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I'm not happy

sensiblePlum4168 September 23rd

Hi

I'm not happy. I have no progress in life after I got married. I resigned because my previous work was far from our new house. Now, I cannot do anything better aside from house hold chores. My husband ask me to find a job because I need to. I want to find a job in a work from home set up but no matter how I tried, I'm not qualified because I'm not smart. I want to continue my school to finish my degree but also they want me to conceive a baby. Don't judge me, I want to have a baby too. I cannot post my true feelings in social media because I have to protect my marriage. That's why I just post it here. Good thing, we don't know each other here. ❤️


I miss my old life before my marriage. I can buy things that I want to buy. Now, I can't.


Btw, how are you?

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Mya000 September 23rd

@sensiblePlum4168

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, balancing your dreams and responsibilities. It’s completely normal to miss your old life, especially when you’re feeling stuck. Remember, your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to express them, even if it feels challenging.

You are smart, and your well-being and wishes are the most important things. Finding a job you enjoy can take time, so be kind to yourself during this process.

As for wanting a baby, that’s a big decision that deserves thoughtful consideration. It’s okay to want both a family and your career goals. I’m wondering, what do you mean by wanting to protect your marriage?

And I'm doing well, thank you for asking! ❤️