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Welcome to 7 Cups! Introduce yourself here!!
by Heather225
Last post
 1 hour ago
...See more Welcome to our community! We're excited to meet you! Please introduce yourself below. — Afterward, be sure to check out our welcome pack for everything you need to know starting out: * Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1M53Nm5-pbtxx2_jKfXYgYzo3NgXxjNfMwfzVSRC1rZg/] * Listeners [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/] We've got vibrant group chats too! The Sharing Circle is open 24/7 for adult users! Drop in HERE [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=lmJndHyWk5edlLBlWVrCnQ!!] so we can get to know you better!
Re-Introducing Member Compassion Course
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 5 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are doing well. This post is about - 7 Cups Compassion Course [https://www.7cups.com/forum/KitchenTable_133/SelfhelplearningwithLaura_743/7CUPSCOMPASSIONCOURSE_6809/1/] which was created by Laura. The course is for members only. Not for listeners! The goal of this course is to understand and know the basics of practicing compassion and help & support our members to have a compassionate experience in the group support chat rooms. This course allows you to foster healthy conversations and connections as well as be a compassionate, loving, supportive, and amazing member of the chat rooms and the community. Who can participate? Any member can take this quiz. Even if you are an experienced member, then also welcome to take part in it. Because we are all learning and practicing compassion. How can a member participate? * Once you have completed the course, please let us know in the comments of this post. * Also, tag any 3 members you know to invite them to take the quiz as well. * Your responses to the course will be graded and if you successfully passed it, you will receive, “Compassion Hero” badge. * If you didn’t pass, that’s okay. Feedback will be shared and then you can retake the course. Please remember that this course is designed to help you practice compassion and empathy for yourself and others. Because it is kindness that makes any place a better place to live in. Also, it will make you feel more comfortable, and well equipped to participate and be a wonderful participant in the group support chat rooms and forums. If you have any feedback to improve the course or any other ideas, please let us know in the comments of this thread. On that note, I invite you to take the compassion course here: https://tinyurl.com/4us8x8ue A big thank you to @vivelespatates for single-handedly managing this initiative for all these years! ------------------------- Edit: by ASilentObserver on 04/06/2022
Calling All Verified Listeners: Help Wanted on the 7 Cups Welcome Committee!
by Heather225
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more The hardest part of the journey is sometimes the beginning, and this is especially true of our newbies. We as a community have the power and ability to ensure they get properly oriented and supported so that their journey is smooth. I have been actively contacting newbies over the past couple of months and the results have been inspiring. Roughly 80% of those I sent a personal message responded to me and very appreciatively! That's a really big deal because those people have a much higher chance of being retained (retained = staying on 7 Cups). But I need help! So it's with great excitement, that I announce the revamped relaunch of the Welcome Committee! Through this initiative, we can meet our newcomers at the start with a friendly welcome (think hospitality, a greeter, etc.). We will also provide guidance and resources they need to navigate their first steps. The tasks are simple. PMing brand new members off a list, saying hi, giving resources, answering their questions and sending follow-up PMs to make sure their transition is complete. There's a few requirements just to be sure Welcomers are familiar with the basics of our platform. Requirements: ✔ You must be a Verified Listener (find out how to get verified here) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] ✔ 25+ chats ✔ No behavior reports (BPS) within 3 months ✔ Maintenance criteria: 2-3 hours a month to dedicate to this project ✔ Adaptability to changes! This is a new team so we're still figuring things out and like to try new things. ✔ Note: The team uses a google spreadsheet to copy/paste names and log PMs so you'll need access to a computer/laptop device. We apologize for the inconvenience! The monthly quota is 80 messages sent if you're an adult, and 40 sent if you're a teen. This includes both your first welcome PMs and your follow-up PMs. This may sound like a lot initially but it's easier than it sounds once you get into the swing of messaging. You can make a huge difference in our community's growth by joining us. I look forward to building this team with you! >>> Apply here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdye3w6JNdBiU4gNfilMGSxEfnqXXsQb-lR_xTvJmGD3GHKiA/viewform] <<<
neet
by generousraspberries81
Last post
 September 25th
...See more hey there ,  i'm a 20 year old neet ug aspirant . if there are people preparing for competitive exams out there please connect 
I cheated
by brightTortoise3478
Last post
 September 19th
...See more I know some of you may call me an *** for cheating and I know that already and also English is not my first language. I cheated on my gf for seven months I don't know why I did it. I feel so lost and confused rn because I'm not a *** or anything of the sorts. This is my first time doing something like this and it's taking a toll on me. I'm having difficulty getting past this because of how guilty I'm feeling. I want to apologize to my gf and the person I cheated with but I don't know how to talk to them. I regret everything and I knew what I was doing was wrong but I didn't know what to do. I'm just so lost right now and I need some advice.
New here. How do I get to talk to a listener
by 1funmum
Last post
 August 30th
...See more Hi I just joined and I am attempting to figure this site out. I will download the app. How do I get to talk to a listener. Both my regular councillor and my therapist are on holiday. And I have been needing support. Also the goals I set don't really match my issues. But my issues were not on the list. 
Only Trauma
by MomJeans97
Last post
 August 27th
...See more I created this thread for anyone who has ANYTHING trauma related to post. Every group I seem to go in is unrelated conversation to the actual topic. And it’s frustrating. Please post anything you want here as long as it’s trauma related.
My listener disappeared and now it won't let me try a different one!
by Shelby1997
Last post
 May 11th
...See more He didn't even give me ten minutes of his time! And I really need to talk to someone but the app says I have to wait until tomorrow when it wasn't my fault it was the listener!
Here for you, 💛
by sky2Ocean20
Last post
 February 29th
...See more Hi, Newbie community and dear 7 cupser, I am sky, a Newly joined Room supporter. This hub is such a comfort for those who are looking for assistance and expressing authenticity. This was one of the first communities I joined and I immediately thought about how can I interact and be involved.  I just wanted to let you know that , I'm all ears for newcomers and anyone looking for support as a brand new member/listener. I will be available to offer my assistance and do my best to help. so, If you come across this post, Tag me or you can use this thread to reply If you think it is relevant and needed.  🌼
I’m a listener on 7 cups!
by LovleyStarDust107
Last post
 January 7th
...See more Hello! I’m lovleystardust! Im a listener on 7 cups! I have always enjoyed listening to others stories. I have always been very sympathetic towards others, and can understand someone’s perspective very easily (even if I haven’t personally experienced it) I am open on the weekends, and vary during the week. I will accept most issues but I will not take any LGBTQ+ problems. It will be best for the venter and myself. I’m not apart of the LGBTQ+ community, so I wouldn’t be much help. Thanks for reading 😊 
I’m so stressed I can’t sleep
by ToBeAbleToHaveAPeacefulDay
Last post
 December 29th, 2023
...See more I am stressed about college and I have never felt so afraid for my future like this before, I’m 23( ik many will see me too young to be stressed) but I’m applying for a program that I might get in and my family is looking up to me but I feel like I failed them, I wasted 4 years of my life not knowing what to do with my life and now I feel like if I start I will get my bachelor’s degree by the age of 27 and then work for couple of years before applying to med school which will take another 6 years so all in all, I’ll start working and focusing on my life when im in my 40s. I feel so stressed and depressed I can’t eat, sleep, and I am in the verge of crying 24/7. What do I do?  Ps: my family loves me and they aren’t pressured me it’s just me who wants to make them proud 
I have no friends, no job, I’m in so much debt,
by D86
Last post
 December 3rd, 2023
...See more Hi I don’t know what to do with myself. I’m stuck in a rut and can’t get out. I need a job but I can’t get a job I want and don’t want to go back to retail work because I will fall even worse into my depression. I need some kind of support system in my life but can’t 
Heyy
by convivialFig1021
Last post
 November 18th, 2023
...See more Hey I’m new here. Not sure how this works but I just want someone to vent to and talk to 🙃
Internet Gaming Addiction
by asiddig
Last post
 October 5th, 2023
...See more Dears All I came here seeking professional therapist to help my sons from Internet gaming addiction the biggest challenge issue they not attend the session after booking the appointment with therapist if any professional therapist feel he can handle this case please share your profile link Best Regards
Seeking Support- Spouse cheated on me and we're heading for divorce
by ZombieLife89
Last post
 July 28th, 2023
...See more Hi all, Not sure if I'm posting this correctly as it's my first time. As per title, I'm going through a very difficult time in my life right now. I wonder if there's anyone here who's been through something similar or could help me. My spouse cheated on me and blamed me for it. I was gaslit and made to doubt myself as they kept playing mind games with me instead of being upfront. Now I'm in a very complicated situation as I can't leave them right away, but we plan to eventually divorce. I was told everything is my fault, and even when confronted, they refused to accept any responsibility. I was compared to this other woman and I was told nobody would want me if I didn't change everything about myself from my appearance to my attitude and personality. Does it get better with time? I have many fears about the future as I was fully dependant on my spouse for the 3 years we've been married and I lost all my self-esteem and confidence. I'm afraid I won't be able to find a job to support myself. I'm afraid of loneliness. I'm afraid of a lot of things, but trying to be positive.

Newbie Hub

Welcome to the Newbie Hub! This is a space for newbies to learn, ask and get involved in the community. A safe and inclusive space to help settle you in on your new 7 Cups journey. You can check out our introduction video here!


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Welcome & Introductions to 7 Cups!: Introduce yourself as a new 7 Cups user here!


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Members Introduction Thread: Members, introduce yourselves to 7 Cups here!

Listeners Introduction Thread: Listeners, introduce yourselves to 7 Cups here!

Member Welcome Pack: Members, find relevant resources and how-to guides here!

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Q: Are there any Newbie Hub chat rooms?

A: Yes! You can find a list of the chat rooms here.


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