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KaylaBella
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Number of ratings191 Number of reviews63 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 11, 2015 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 600 People helped265 Chats1,029 Group support chats746 Listener group chats206 Forum posts652 Forum upvotes815
Bio

Hello my wonderful loves!🥰 My name is Kayla.💕

I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been here for almost 10 years now, and Cups is a huge part of my life and my heart. 

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A little bit about me:

I have been through a lot of trauma and challenges in my life. Without all of the those, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction as well as sexual trauma. I am very passionate about listening to and helping others. You guys are my passion!!

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Everything listed below as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 If it is listed as chats I do not take, please do not request me as I will not be able to help you ♥️

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HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)***

Monday through Friday:
4:00PM - 6:00PM EST time
Saturdays:
5:00PM - 10:00PM EST time every other Saturday
Sundays:
Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me

***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!***
CHATS I TAKE✅:
Work Stress
Panic Attacks
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Chronic Pain
Family Stress
Forgiveness
Parenting
PTSD
Relationship Stress
Women's Issues
Self Esteem
Spirituality

CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌:
Anxiety
Depression
Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.)
Domestic Violence
Grief
Loneliness
Men's Issues 
Personality Disorders
Self-Harm
Schizophrenia 
Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕 

Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️

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Community Projects I am a part of:

⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨

Chatroom Moderator for Newbie Hub ✨ 

 Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨

Star Leader for Peer Appreciation Team  ✨

 Discussion Host for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨

 Doorkeeper ✨


Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕

Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸


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Recent forum posts
Don’t Rush Your Growth, It’s a Natural Process💕✨🌸
Positivity & Gratitude / by KaylaBella
Last post
Sunday
...See more Hey my loves! 💕 I wanted to take a second today to remind you of something. 🥰 Everyone grows at a different rate. Everyone goes through different life experiences. Each situation that you go through, teaches you a different lesson. Some people are going to have different lessons than other people depending on what they’ve been through. Some people are going to learn a different lesson going through the same situation as someone else. And that’s okay! 💕 We go through everything in life for a reason. Whether that’s meant to make us stronger, or to teach us a lesson we would not have learned otherwise. But know this! You are stronger than you realize! Life will never throw anything at us that we cannot handle. Sometimes you just gotta look within to find the strength to get through whatever you are going through. You HAVE the strength 💕 So just remember not to rush your growth, because it’s a natural process and it will happen in its own time. Remember to stay positive, my loves. And also look for the lesson in each situation that you are in. There’s always something to be learned from every single situation we find ourselves in throughout the entirety of our lives.💕 You’ve got this my love and I believe in you! Go forth and conquer the world my loves! 💕✨🌸 Much love,  Kayla🌸✨
Positivity Corner Room Activities 💕🌸
Positivity & Gratitude / by KaylaBella
Last post
Sunday
...See more Hello all of my wonderful loves!  💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕 Do you want a little bit of a moment to get away from the daily stresses of life and just have some fun? Play some games, laugh, and spread some smiles? Maybe even share your hopes and dreams and be supported in everything? Well then, if the answer to that question is yes, then…. I have an exciting announcement to make!  ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ Starting this coming Thursday 9/12/2024, the Positivity Corner Room will be opening on Thursdays at 4:00PM EST and Mondays at 5:00PM EST time for fun games and discussions!  Each session and week there will be different games and discussions taking place. Each session will be 60 minutes long and we hope to have a bunch of fun! 🤩  ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ Feel free to drop suggestions of games and discussions you would like to hold (all positive of course 😇) down below and we may be able to ply some of them! Thank you all for being such amazing and wonderful hoomans! I look forward to hosting these events and hope to see you all there! 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Sending tons of positive energy and love to you all!
Everyone Needs Someone Who Understands
General Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
August 10th
...See more I was scrolling through my social media tonight when I came across a man reading a story from a children’s book. It was so powerful and made me very emotional. I thought I would share it here.  Puppies for Sale  A store owner was tacking a sign above his door that read “Puppies For Sale.” Signs like that have a way of attracting small children, and sure enough, a little boy appeared under the store owner’s sign.  “How much are you going to sell the puppies for?” he asked. The store owner replied, “Anywhere from $30 to $50.” The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change. “I have $2.37,” he said. “Can I please look at them?” The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady, who ran down the aisle of his store followed by five teeny, tiny balls of fur. One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, “What’s wrong with that little dog?” The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had discovered it didn’t have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame. The little boy became excited. ‘That is the little puppy that I want to buy.” The store owner said, “No, you don’t want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I’ll just give him to you.” The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner’s eyes, pointing his finger, and said, “I don’t want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I’ll pay full price. In fact, I’ll give you $2.37 now, and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for.” The store owner countered, “You really don’t want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies.” To this, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, “Well, I don’t run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!” By Dan Clark I love the moral behind this story. No matter what you’ve been through, no matter how many scars you have, no matter what it’s been like or what you’ve done, somebody understands and somebody needs you to understand them. Don’t ever let anybody tell you that you’re not worth full price💕💖✨
You Carry So Much Love
Women's Issues / by KaylaBella
Last post
August 13th
...See more I colored this page and saw a really good quote that I hope serves as a gentle reminder to love yourself a little bit more, and to give yourself a little bit of the love you give everyone else. Give yourself a little bit of the grace you give everyone else as well. We aren’t perfect and that’s okay. We are human, we are women, and we are warriors. We all have scars, but those scars are what makes us beautiful! 💖💕✨
Be Kind💕✨
Religion & Spirituality / by KaylaBella
Last post
March 12th
...See more Tagging a few peeps who might love this (I hope) 💕: @Kristynsmama @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @Heather225
Every Kind Thing
Positivity & Gratitude / by KaylaBella
Last post
March 18th
...See more I really love this little reminder!! 🩵🦋✨
Feedback & Reviews
She is the absolute best! She is such a great listener and always has some of the best advice and insi
She is very kind and thoughtful.
Listens and gives encouraging words
Amazing and sweet. Very caring. Will definitely talk to again
amazing life saving kind and sweet
Good at giving advice
Best ever listener
Great chatter, fast replies and willing to listen to difficult issues.
She was absolutely amazing. Super helpful and so compassionate.
She's really sweet and a great listener
Okay, Bella20 is hands-down one of the most amazing, supportive and caring listeners I've had the pleasure of meeting on here. This is no exaggeration. Even though I've only known her for a short while, she's taught me so so much. She's incredibly kind and compassionate, and just has such a large and amazing heart. *hugs* You are amazing -- never doubt that. Thank you for everything. 💕
she is absolutely awesome! she's helped me get through so much and doesn't give up on trying to help. i know i have someone i can talk to without feeling judged or anything like that. all around a wonderful person
Love her! She always makes me feel better and has great advice when I ask her for help. Very kind and thoughtful. Couldn't tell her how grateful I am for everything she's done. 5 billion stars
Stay beautiful love. You are braver than you feel, smarter than you think, and more
Saved my life!!!! Thx Kayla ❤❤
very supportive always helps whenever i need
She is literally the best!
the most amazing listener!!!!! always supportive and never judges me. i love talking with her because she always makes me feel better! i give a million stars
All around great person, love talking with her. Has always helped me with my problems
I love her! She is incredibly helpful and is never judgmental. She is the best listener and has great advice.
she is very professional and a great listener, would give ten stars if i could
Kayla is amazing and so helpful!!!!
She is the best and I appreciate her so much. I love her as a human being, shes special and unique. 5 stars! - Jake
She's sweet and kind, despite me being a difficult person to talk to
Thank you
Shes great
She is such an amazing, kind, and very nice person. I am so glad that I found her, she was great at understanding me and listening, and just being there really. I felt like I was speaking to someone I could relate to as well, she listened really well and made me feel important and gave great advice. I would definitely recommend her as a listener for anyone out there who need someone to talk to, she's your girl. Stay awesome !! You're doing a great job.
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Thank you!
Very nice
She's amazing! Very empathetic and I couldn't ask for a better person to talk to!
She's awesome I could never see me getting through wihout her
She stayed. She was determined to help me feel okay again. She was authentic in her reasons and I appreciate her so much.
Calmed me down ! Make me realize that my problem is just a little thing .
Very caring person
Very nice and genuine listener who really cares c:
This listener is very friendly and she is easy to trust. I will probably be back.
Very good
Awsome
Thanks Kayla for helping me feel understood and normal. And promising to keep what I say between us.
If ever in need she is the one to go to! Very helpful, full of motivation to help you become a better person, and also builds you as a person. Very thankful to have talked to her and gotten her help(:
She's a great listener and she looks fine aswell xD
She's a amazing, inspirational, fanstatic listener, Shes my favorite listener. she never fails to make me feel better. Thank you for helping me. She's so supportive and kind.
She was really nice! She has a baby to take care of but she still helps people at the same time! Kayla was helpful and I'm glad I could talk to her :)
thank you so much.
Very helpful and cheered me up when I was at my worst
Very helpful, kind, and understanding. Gave me hope.
This person is amazing and insperational, deserves 100 stars, thank you so much, by far the best listener i have ever had, thank you soooo much xxx
kayla is so amazing
I really liked her, she helped my loads.
Thank you. :)
Good person! She talked to me about her problems and allowed me to help her brilliantly! She was very open and trusting. I'm sure she can help people just as much.
Gave me good advice really helpful person
She was amazing and so helpful she didn't judge and was very understanding and helpful
She helped me through a lot and gave the best advice. I'll never forget her.
Good listener wish we could be friends 😄😊
thank you for being so lovely :)
Most helping girl on the plant
I had an amazing experience with her! She's mature, helpful and answers very quickly.
you are=very helfful
great help
Very sweet charming helpful girl
Very helpful and understanding listener :) I felt so much better after I talked to her, and she even offered to check in on me from time to time to see how I'm doing :)
She is a sweet young thing.
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