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🌸 Welcome! 🌸

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Hello, my name is Kayla, but you can also call me Bells, Bella, Kay, or Bellaboo. 💕 I’m excited to be here as a listener and to connect with all of you! I’ve been part of this community for almost 10 years now, and it holds a special place in my heart.

A little about me: I’ve faced many challenges and traumas in my life, including experiences with addiction and sexual trauma. However, these struggles have shaped me into who I am today, and I wouldn’t change a thing. I’m deeply passionate about being a supportive listener and offering help to others. You are my inspiration!

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Check-In: Shifting Perspectives & Growth in Recovery
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Check-In: Shifting Perspectives & Growth in Recovery Hey everyone, I hope you’re doing well today. 💕💪🏻Recovery is a journey of change—not just in our actions but in the way we see ourselves, addiction, and life as a whole. What we once believed to be true about addiction or recovery often shifts as we gain experience, learn, and grow.🌱 Many of us start out thinking recovery is just about quitting substances, but over time, we realize it’s about so much more. 🌟 It’s about unlearning harmful patterns, facing deep-seated fears, and discovering who we are beyond our addiction. 🌸 True progress isn’t just measured by days sober but by the internal changes we make—the way we handle emotions, navigate challenges, and rebuild our sense of self-worth.🫶🏻 That’s why I want to invite you to reflect today with these questions: 1️⃣What’s something you used to believe about addiction or recovery that you now see differently?  — Maybe you once thought relapse meant failure, but now you see it as part of the learning process. Or maybe you believed you’d never be happy sober, but now you’ve found real joy in a substance-free life. What perspectives have changed for you? 2️⃣ What’s one challenge in your recovery that you’ve been avoiding or struggling to face head-on?  — Recovery isn’t always easy. Sometimes we put off the hard work—whether it’s setting boundaries, dealing with past trauma, or addressing mental health struggles. What’s something you know you need to face, and what’s one small step you can take toward it? 3️⃣ How do you measure progress in your recovery beyond just sobriety?  — Healing isn’t just about counting days. Have you become more self-aware? Learned to cope with emotions in a healthier way? Started rebuilding relationships? What are the personal victories that remind you of how far you’ve come? Take some time to reflect, and if you feel comfortable, share your thoughts. Your insights might help someone else who’s struggling. Remember: Recovery is not about perfection—it’s about progress. You’re doing better than you think, and you’re not alone. Keep going! 💙 Much love, Kayla 💕🫶🏻
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The Illusion of Hopelessness in Addiction
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
Sunday
...See more The Illusion of Hopelessness in Addiction Addiction has a way of convincing us that there’s nothing left—that we’ve messed up too many times, hurt too many people, and lost too much to ever rebuild. It whispers in our ears that we’re too broken, too far gone, and that the only way to escape the pain is to use again. And when we’re deep in that place, when the weight of it all feels unbearable, hope seems like nothing more than a cruel joke. But here’s the truth: that hopelessness is a lie. It’s the addiction talking, not reality. Every addict, at some point, finds themselves in that dark place, feeling like there’s no way out. Whether it’s withdrawals, shame, relapse, or the overwhelming fear of facing life sober, we convince ourselves that we can’t do it. That there’s no point in trying. But the thing about addiction is that it thrives on isolation, self-doubt, and despair. It makes us forget that there is a way forward—even when we can’t see it yet. Hope isn’t always a feeling; sometimes, it’s just a tiny spark that keeps us going, even when we don’t believe in it. It’s found in the smallest things—the person who still believes in us, the moment we make it through another day clean, the fact that we’re still here, still breathing, still capable of change. Recovery doesn’t happen in a straight line. It’s messy, painful, and full of moments where we want to give up. But no matter how many times we fall, we always have a choice: to keep fighting. Because on the other side of that darkness, there’s something worth living for. A life where we aren’t controlled by our addiction. A life where we can feel, love, and heal. So when it feels like there’s nothing left, when it feels like hope is gone—just hold on. One more breath, one more moment, one more step forward. Because the truth is, hope is always there. And so long as we keep going, we will find it again. Much love, Kayla 💕🫶🏻
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💕Introducing Myself & Check-In 💕
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
January 30th
...See more A Message of Hope and Strength 🌟 Hello everyone!!! 👋🏻 I’m Kayla, and I’m truly honored to introduce myself to this incredible community. I am also truly honored to be the new Forum Supporter for this community!!!! I’ve been sober for 3 years and 7 months now, and it has been a journey full of ups and downs. But through each challenge, I’ve discovered that recovery is not just about staying clean—it’s about rebuilding yourself, finding your strength, and learning how to embrace life with a clear mind and an open heart. 💪🏻💖 For the past 3 years, I’ve worked in the Recovery Field, and I’m currently blessed to be part of an amazing Recovery Center. I am incredibly passionate about being there for my fellow addicts, helping them reach their goals, and just letting them know that recovery IS possible. 🙌🏻Every day, I witness the power of change, and I believe with all my heart that no matter where you are in your journey, there is always hope. You are never alone in this. 🌈 To anyone here struggling, I want you to know that it gets better. It might not seem like it right now, but with time, support, and a commitment to your own healing, you can find your way out. I stand as proof that recovery is possible, and every small step forward is progress. The road ahead may feel long, but each day you stay sober is a victory. 🏆 Let’s continue supporting each other and sharing our stories because together, we are stronger. I’m here to listen, share, and support anyone who needs it. Let’s lift each other up and remind ourselves that recovery is a gift worth fighting for. 💫 Fun Check-In Before we wrap up, let’s do a quick check-in! If you could describe your recovery journey in one word today, what would it be? Drop your word below and let’s celebrate our progress, no matter how big or small! 🎉 @blueFan4699 @braveHuman6773 @jrk27 @Kitamean @PeanutButterMurph @texaswily @tommy @tornwillow @transurvivor @veronikamalik
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Rebuilding the Soul: Finding Purpose Beyond Addiction ✨💕☀️
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
Tuesday
...See more Rebuilding the Soul: Finding Purpose Beyond Addiction Introduction: Addiction is often viewed as a battle with substances, but its true impact runs much deeper. It isn’t just a physical or mental struggle—it touches the very core of who we are. Addiction can steal not only our health but our identity, our relationships, and our sense of purpose. However, recovery offers more than just an escape from addiction—it offers the possibility of rebuilding, healing, and discovering a renewed sense of self. The journey of recovery is one of profound transformation, a chance to reclaim the life and purpose that addiction obscured. 1. Understanding the Depth of Addiction: Addiction doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a gradual process that often stems from deeper emotional, psychological, or physical struggles. Many who struggle with addiction do so as a form of coping mechanism—a way to manage pain, trauma, or unresolved emotions. Alcohol and drugs may provide temporary relief, but they also deepen the sense of disconnect from the self and from others. Recovery, then, must address more than just the withdrawal symptoms. It requires confronting the root causes of addiction: childhood trauma, past hurts, mental health struggles, or a lack of emotional coping strategies. Understanding that addiction is a manifestation of deeper wounds can begin the process of healing on a deeper level. 2. The Physical and Emotional Toll of Addiction: Substance abuse takes a tremendous toll on the body. Alcohol and drugs alter brain chemistry, distort emotions, and drain the body of vital nutrients. They erode self-worth and cloud decision-making, making it difficult to see a future beyond the current struggle. But beyond the physical damage, addiction can leave emotional scars that are just as deep. It can create feelings of shame, guilt, hopelessness, and isolation—feelings that prevent the person from seeing themselves as worthy of recovery. Recovery, therefore, involves reclaiming one’s body and mind. It’s about restoring health through therapy, exercise, proper nutrition, and self-care. It’s about learning to nurture and love oneself again, recognizing that healing is a holistic process—body, mind, and spirit. 3. The Role of Support Systems in Recovery: One of the greatest challenges of addiction is the sense of isolation that comes with it. Addiction often isolates individuals from their loved ones, communities, and even themselves. In recovery, building a strong support system is paramount. This can include family, friends, support groups, mentors, or therapists—anyone who provides encouragement, understanding, and accountability. Support groups, such as 12-step programs, offer a unique sense of community. They help individuals connect with others who understand the struggle, share stories of hope, and provide a safe space to be vulnerable. The collective strength found in these groups can offer individuals the courage to keep moving forward when times get tough. 4. Rediscovering Purpose: One of the most transformative aspects of recovery is rediscovering purpose. Addiction strips away the person’s ability to dream, to set goals, and to see a future beyond the haze of substances. As the individual begins to rebuild, they also begin to ask themselves, “What do I want out of life? What is my purpose?” This process of self-discovery is not always easy, but it is essential for long-term healing. Recovery is about more than just abstaining from alcohol or drugs; it’s about finding what makes life worth living again. For some, this may be reconnecting with family or friends, pursuing a new career, developing new hobbies, or even engaging in volunteer work. Rediscovering purpose is about reconnecting with one’s passions and values, and giving back to the world in meaningful ways. 5. The Spiritual Journey of Recovery: Spirituality plays a significant role in the recovery process. This doesn’t necessarily mean religion; it’s about reconnecting with something greater than oneself, whether it’s nature, the universe, or a higher power. The search for meaning and a deeper connection to life can provide a sense of peace and direction that addiction obscures. For many in recovery, spirituality is the anchor that helps them navigate the storms of life. It’s the foundation on which they rebuild their lives, grounded in the belief that there is something greater guiding their journey. The act of surrendering to this higher power—whether it’s faith in God, the universe, or the power of the community—can provide strength and clarity, even in the most difficult moments. 6. Embracing the Process: Recovery is a process, not a destination. It is not linear—there will be setbacks, moments of doubt, and days when it feels impossible to move forward. However, it is in these moments that the most growth can occur. Recovery isn’t about achieving perfection; it’s about progress, resilience, and learning from challenges. Embracing the process means learning to be patient with oneself, celebrating small victories, and forgiving oneself for past mistakes. It means acknowledging that healing takes time and that every day of sobriety is a step closer to a fuller, more meaningful life. 7. Giving Back and Inspiring Others: As individuals find healing in their own lives, many feel called to help others on their journey. Giving back—whether through mentorship, volunteering, or simply sharing one’s story—can be incredibly healing. It creates a sense of purpose and reinforces the idea that recovery is not just about the individual but about contributing to the greater good. By offering support to others who are struggling, individuals in recovery can inspire hope and demonstrate that it’s possible to overcome even the most difficult of circumstances. In helping others, they reinforce their own healing, finding strength in community and the shared human experience. Conclusion: Recovery is not just about stopping the use of substances—it’s about reclaiming the life that addiction tried to steal. It’s about rebuilding the soul, finding meaning in the midst of pain, and creating a future full of purpose. The road to recovery may not always be easy, but it is always worth it. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory—a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of transformation. If you’re on this journey, know that you are not alone. The path to healing is one of courage, self-compassion, and renewal. There is a beautiful life waiting on the other side of addiction, and you have the power to reach it. This group post is designed to offer insight, inspiration, and practical steps for those navigating the challenging yet transformative journey of alcohol and drug recovery. Much love, Kayla 💕💫♥️
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Chasing the Light of the Sun Within ☀️💫
Positivity & Gratitude / by KaylaBella
Last post
January 29th
...See more Sometimes life feels like a whirlwind—a constant race from one thing to the next. But every now and then, it’s so important to stop and simply be. To let the world slow down for just a moment and realize how far you’ve come, how much you’ve grown, and how beautiful it is to simply exist. Life isn’t about perfection or getting everything right—it’s about embracing the journey, with all its twists and turns. It’s about the lessons we learn, the people we meet, and the moments that take our breath away. It’s about the strength we didn’t know we had and the love we never thought we deserved. Even on the hardest days, there’s something extraordinary about being alive. The way the sun rises each morning without fail, the way a small act of kindness can ripple through someone’s day, or the way a simple smile can remind us that we’re all connected. So today, let’s celebrate the little things. The warmth of a favorite sweater. The way music can lift your soul. The sound of laughter. The quiet moments that feel like magic when you look back on them. No matter where you are in life right now, remember that this moment is a part of your story—a story that’s uniquely yours and full of possibility. Be gentle with yourself, embrace the beauty in the ordinary, and never forget: you are enough just as you are. 💛✨ Much love, Kayla 💕💫
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Overcoming Fear of Failure💕
Addiction Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
January 26th
...See more Overcoming Fear of Failure:  1/26/2025 Welcome, everyone! I’m so glad you’re here today. Fear of failure is something we’ve all experienced at one time or another. Whether it’s in recovery, relationships, work, or pursuing personal goals, fear can hold us back from becoming the best version of ourselves. Today, we’re going to break down what this fear looks like, how it affects us, and—most importantly—how we can move forward in spite of it. Let’s approach this with curiosity, openness, and the understanding that every single one of us is capable of growth and resilience. ------------------------- 1. Understanding Fear of Failure Let’s start by unpacking fear of failure. This isn’t just about being afraid to lose or mess up—it’s often much deeper than that. Fear of failure can show up in our lives as self-doubt, procrastination, or avoidance. It can feel like a voice in our heads saying, “What if I’m not good enough?” or “What if I try and fail?” These feelings often stem from internalized pressure to meet expectations—our own or those of others. When we understand how fear of failure shows up in our lives, we can begin to address it. For example, some of us may avoid certain tasks because we’re afraid of not getting them right. Others may feel paralyzed by indecision or experience a sense of discouragement when things don’t go as planned. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward overcoming them. * Let’s discuss: How has the fear of failure affected your progress, whether in recovery or other areas of your life? * Think about your personal patterns when facing fear: Do you avoid tasks, freeze up, or feel overwhelmed? * How do you tell the difference between legitimate concerns and irrational fears that may be holding you back? As we talk about these patterns, remember that you’re not alone in this. Everyone experiences fear of failure—it’s part of being human. But just because it’s common doesn’t mean it has to control us. ------------------------- 2. Shifting Perspective: Failure vs. Setbacks Let’s take a moment to think about how we define failure. Many of us view it as the end of the road, a definitive “you’re not good enough” moment. But what if we started seeing failure differently? What if we saw it as a necessary stepping stone to growth? Failure doesn’t mean you’ve failed as a person. It’s simply a sign that you tried something that didn’t work out the way you expected—and that’s okay. In fact, setbacks are often where we learn the most about ourselves and how to move forward. Reframing failure as a temporary challenge rather than a permanent label can help us face it with less fear. * Let’s discuss: Can anyone share a time when they faced a setback and learned something valuable from it? * How can you remind yourself that failure isn’t a reflection of your worth, but part of the process of growing stronger? * How does viewing failure as a learning opportunity change how you approach challenges? When we shift our mindset, we start to see failure not as something to fear, but as a tool for building resilience and personal growth. ------------------------- 3. Practical Strategies for Overcoming Fear of Failure Now that we’ve talked about understanding and reframing failure, let’s dive into some practical tools and strategies for overcoming it. These strategies aren’t about avoiding failure altogether—that’s impossible. Instead, they’re about managing our reactions to it and building confidence to move forward. One powerful tool is self-compassion. Often, we’re our own harshest critics when we fail. But instead of beating ourselves up, we can practice treating ourselves with kindness and understanding. Think of how you would comfort a friend who’s struggling—then try to offer yourself that same grace. Another strategy is developing a growth mindset. This means focusing on improvement rather than perfection. For example, instead of saying, “I’ll never be good at this,” try saying, “I’m still learning, and that’s okay.” Positive self-talk is another important tool. When fear creeps in, remind yourself: * “This is just part of the process.” * “I’ve overcome challenges before, and I can do it again.” * “I don’t have to be perfect to make progress.” * Let’s discuss: How can you practice self-compassion the next time you feel like you’ve failed? * What are some positive affirmations you can say to yourself when fear of failure starts to creep in? * Reflect on past successes—no matter how small. What can they teach you about your ability to keep moving forward? It’s important to remember that overcoming fear of failure doesn’t happen overnight. But by practicing these strategies consistently, we can gradually build confidence and resilience. ------------------------- 4. Building Resilience in the Face of Failure Finally, let’s talk about resilience. Resilience is the ability to bounce back after setbacks. It’s not about avoiding failure; it’s about how we respond to it. Think about someone you admire who’s demonstrated resilience. Maybe it’s a friend, a family member, or even yourself. Resilient people don’t let failure define them—they use it as fuel to keep going. They adapt, learn, and try again. * Let’s discuss: How do you define resilience in your own life? * What are some qualities of resilient people that you’d like to develop in yourself? * Can anyone share a time when they overcame a tough setback? What helped you bounce back? One way to build resilience is by reflecting on the progress you’ve already made. Even if you’ve faced challenges, you’ve made it this far—and that’s something to be proud of. ------------------------- Thank you all for being part of this discussion today. Fear of failure is something we all face, but it doesn’t have to hold us back. By understanding it, reframing it, and using practical strategies to address it, we can move forward with confidence. Remember, failure isn’t the end—it’s just a part of the journey. Much love, Kayla 💕💖
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Recovering from Trauma: A Comprehensive Guide
Trauma Support / by KaylaBella
Last post
Saturday
...See more Recovering from Trauma: A Comprehensive Guide Trauma can be a deeply distressing experience that impacts the mind, body, and spirit. Whether it stems from a single event or prolonged exposure to difficult circumstances, recovery is a process of rebuilding a sense of safety, trust, and well-being. While the journey is unique to each individual, understanding trauma and adopting effective strategies can pave the way toward healing and resilience. What Is Trauma? Trauma is an emotional response to a deeply distressing or disturbing event. This can include physical harm, emotional abuse, loss, natural disasters, accidents, or any experience that overwhelms your ability to cope. There are different types of trauma: 1. Acute Trauma: Resulting from a single, intense event (e.g., a car accident). 2. Chronic Trauma: Prolonged exposure to harmful situations (e.g., abuse, neglect). 3. Complex Trauma: Multiple, repeated traumatic events, often in childhood. Trauma can affect your emotional state, relationships, physical health, and even your sense of identity. The effects might include anxiety, depression, flashbacks, emotional numbness, difficulty concentrating, or physical symptoms like headaches and fatigue. The Path to Recovery Recovery from trauma is not linear—it involves highs, lows, and moments of stillness. While the process takes time and effort, it is possible to heal and reclaim a sense of empowerment and peace. 1. Acknowledge and Validate Your Experience • Accept that what you went through was real and significant. • Avoid minimizing your experience or comparing it to others. Your pain is valid, no matter the circumstances. 2. Seek Professional Support • Therapy: Trauma-focused therapy, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), or Somatic Experiencing, can help process and release trauma. • Support Groups: Connecting with others who have had similar experiences can provide understanding and encouragement. 3. Create a Safe Space • Establish a sense of safety in your environment and relationships. • Surround yourself with people who support and respect your healing journey. 4. Practice Emotional Awareness • Allow yourself to feel emotions without judgment. • Journaling can help you express and process your feelings in a safe way. 5. Reconnect with Your Body Trauma often disconnects us from our physical selves. Rebuilding this connection can promote healing: • Mindfulness: Ground yourself in the present moment through breathing exercises or meditation. • Movement: Yoga, dance, or gentle exercise can help release stored tension. • Touch: Massage or even self-soothing gestures like placing a hand on your heart can be calming. 6. Develop Coping Skills Learning healthy ways to manage triggers and emotional overwhelm is essential: • Identify and avoid triggers when possible. • Practice grounding techniques, such as focusing on your senses (e.g., noticing five things you see, four things you hear, etc.). • Establish routines to create structure and stability in your life. 7. Foster Gratitude and Positivity • Gratitude practices, like listing three things you’re thankful for daily, can shift your focus toward the positive. • Celebrate small victories, no matter how insignificant they may seem. 8. Rebuild Trust and Relationships Trauma can often lead to feelings of isolation. Reconnecting with others at your own pace is a vital part of recovery: • Communicate openly with loved ones about your needs and boundaries. • Work on building self-trust by keeping small promises to yourself. 9. Reclaim Your Identity • Trauma can leave you feeling like you’ve lost a part of yourself. Engage in activities that reflect your passions and values. • Explore creative outlets like art, writing, or music to express your emotions and rediscover your strengths. 10. Be Patient with Yourself Healing takes time, and setbacks are normal. Treat yourself with compassion and remember that progress, no matter how slow, is still progress. The Role of Self-Care in Recovery Self-care is not selfish—it’s a necessary part of healing. Some ways to incorporate self-care include: • Prioritizing sleep and rest. • Nourishing your body with healthy food. • Spending time in nature to find peace and grounding. • Allowing yourself moments of joy, like watching your favorite movie or spending time with loved ones. The Power of Forgiveness Forgiveness can play a key role in letting go of the past, but it’s important to remember that forgiveness is for you. It doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior or forgetting what happened. Instead, it’s about releasing the grip of resentment and freeing yourself from the weight of anger. Signs You’re Healing Though recovery takes time, you may notice signs that you’re moving forward: • Feeling more present in daily life. • Reduced emotional reactivity to triggers. • Increased ability to trust yourself and others. • A growing sense of hope and purpose. When to Seek Help If you feel stuck in your recovery or overwhelmed by your emotions, reaching out for professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Therapists, counselors, and support groups can provide tools and insights to guide you through the healing process. Closing Thoughts Recovering from trauma is a journey of courage and resilience. Every small step you take toward healing is a testament to your strength. Remember, you are not defined by what happened to you—you are defined by the choices you make and the person you are becoming. Be gentle with yourself, lean on others for support, and trust that you are capable of creating a life filled with peace, joy, and empowerment. You are not alone, and brighter days are ahead. Much love, Kayla💕♥️
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Life is a Beautiful Gift
Positivity & Gratitude / by KaylaBella
Last post
January 28th
...See more Life is a beautiful gift, even in its most challenging moments. When you take a step back and focus on the good—no matter how small—it has the power to shift your entire perspective. Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and positivity reminds us that brighter days are always ahead. Every sunrise is a chance to start fresh. Every challenge is an opportunity to grow. And every small act of kindness, to yourself or others, is a ripple of goodness that spreads further than you can see. Be gentle with yourself. Celebrate your progress, no matter how slow it feels. And remember, there is so much to be grateful for—your breath, the laughter of a loved one, or even the quiet moments that remind you of your strength. You are resilient, capable, and worthy of all the joy life has to offer. Keep your heart open, focus on what fills it, and trust that the best is yet to come. Much love, Kayla 💕♥️
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She is the absolute best! She is such a great listener and always has some of the best advice and insi
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Listens and gives encouraging words
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amazing life saving kind and sweet
Good at giving advice
Best ever listener
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She was absolutely amazing. Super helpful and so compassionate.
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Okay, Bella20 is hands-down one of the most amazing, supportive and caring listeners I've had the pleasure of meeting on here. This is no exaggeration. Even though I've only known her for a short while, she's taught me so so much. She's incredibly kind and compassionate, and just has such a large and amazing heart. *hugs* You are amazing -- never doubt that. Thank you for everything. 💕
she is absolutely awesome! she's helped me get through so much and doesn't give up on trying to help. i know i have someone i can talk to without feeling judged or anything like that. all around a wonderful person
Love her! She always makes me feel better and has great advice when I ask her for help. Very kind and thoughtful. Couldn't tell her how grateful I am for everything she's done. 5 billion stars
Stay beautiful love. You are braver than you feel, smarter than you think, and more
Saved my life!!!! Thx Kayla ❤❤
very supportive always helps whenever i need
She is literally the best!
the most amazing listener!!!!! always supportive and never judges me. i love talking with her because she always makes me feel better! i give a million stars
All around great person, love talking with her. Has always helped me with my problems
I love her! She is incredibly helpful and is never judgmental. She is the best listener and has great advice.
she is very professional and a great listener, would give ten stars if i could
Kayla is amazing and so helpful!!!!
She is the best and I appreciate her so much. I love her as a human being, shes special and unique. 5 stars! - Jake
She's sweet and kind, despite me being a difficult person to talk to
Thank you
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She is such an amazing, kind, and very nice person. I am so glad that I found her, she was great at understanding me and listening, and just being there really. I felt like I was speaking to someone I could relate to as well, she listened really well and made me feel important and gave great advice. I would definitely recommend her as a listener for anyone out there who need someone to talk to, she's your girl. Stay awesome !! You're doing a great job.
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She's amazing! Very empathetic and I couldn't ask for a better person to talk to!
She's awesome I could never see me getting through wihout her
She stayed. She was determined to help me feel okay again. She was authentic in her reasons and I appreciate her so much.
Calmed me down ! Make me realize that my problem is just a little thing .
Very caring person
Very nice and genuine listener who really cares c:
This listener is very friendly and she is easy to trust. I will probably be back.
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Thanks Kayla for helping me feel understood and normal. And promising to keep what I say between us.
If ever in need she is the one to go to! Very helpful, full of motivation to help you become a better person, and also builds you as a person. Very thankful to have talked to her and gotten her help(:
She's a great listener and she looks fine aswell xD
She's a amazing, inspirational, fanstatic listener, Shes my favorite listener. she never fails to make me feel better. Thank you for helping me. She's so supportive and kind.
She was really nice! She has a baby to take care of but she still helps people at the same time! Kayla was helpful and I'm glad I could talk to her :)
thank you so much.
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Very helpful, kind, and understanding. Gave me hope.
This person is amazing and insperational, deserves 100 stars, thank you so much, by far the best listener i have ever had, thank you soooo much xxx
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Thank you. :)
Good person! She talked to me about her problems and allowed me to help her brilliantly! She was very open and trusting. I'm sure she can help people just as much.
Gave me good advice really helpful person
She was amazing and so helpful she didn't judge and was very understanding and helpful
She helped me through a lot and gave the best advice. I'll never forget her.
Good listener wish we could be friends 😄😊
thank you for being so lovely :)
Most helping girl on the plant
I had an amazing experience with her! She's mature, helpful and answers very quickly.
you are=very helfful
great help
Very sweet charming helpful girl
Very helpful and understanding listener :) I felt so much better after I talked to her, and she even offered to check in on me from time to time to see how I'm doing :)
She is a sweet young thing.
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