Hiya @YougotthisNaush lovely to meet you!
And we can definitely share memes here, appropriate ones only though hehe!
I'm not sure what jaljeera ice means or the reference in this meme though, and gosh, asking for meme reference kinda downs the joke but if not too much a hassle, explainnnn pleasee XD I loove memes!
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Hi hi. Thanks for letting me know 😊
Jal jeera translates to roasted cumin. It's like a lemonade. I painted the bottle green like the colour of jaljeera so it would be censored instead of a bottle. Lol
@YougotthisNaush I'm not sure, but i think it's regional drink. Thanks for stopping by 😛 and it's lovely to meet you too 😊
@YougotthisNaush aw I see, that is so smart and creative lol! XD
Lovely to meet you tooo! 🤗
@YougotthisNaush
Hi Naush, welcome to 7cups. I wish you get all the support you need here. ☺️
About the post, I didn't understand the jaljeera ice reference to the meme.. And the question associated with it with respect to the child is Child will grow up with such parents.. I hope parent's personal traits are not transferred to that child hampering the growth.
I am remembering one short story here (I took lesson from it).
There were two brothers who were grown up with parents where father was a drunkard.
One day police caught one brother drunk jn street and brought to station. Another brother was called to take him out.
When the second brother arrived, police was astound to see that he was well dressed and a successful business man.
Curiously, police officer asked them you havr same parents yet are so different from each other in lifestyle and success.
For that the first brother responded, my father was a regular drinker so I learnt from it and followed.
Second brother told, I saw my father was a regular drinker and how my mother used to affected by it considering our financial bad condition. So I learnt from it never had any alcohol, did hard work to make our financial condition better.
Moral of the story is: Things are same in front of us. It is our perspective on what we learn from it. 🌈 🌞
@FaithMonk9473
You could say that I'm real life example of that story. My mom was bipolar, schizophrenic, narcissistic and with BPD. My Dad was a chronically depressed alcoholic. One of my brothers had a violent temper. The other one physically and sexually abused me. I was taken out of school at the age of 8, because the school psychologist said I would not develop beyond the level of a 6 or 7 year old. In reality, I was suffering from PTSD, was dyslexic and had ADHD.
Indeed, I was pretty much an emotional wreck for many years. However, I managed to get my life together and am functioning pretty well now.
As bad as my life was, I know that a lot of people have had it much much worse, and have transcended their negative circumstances to a far greater extent than I have.
One thing to be careful of, is to avoid judgment between those who have successfully transcended their negative circumstances and those who haven't. When it comes to putting in the hard work and managing to change in a positive way, it's entirely possible that the person who failed and remains in unfortunate circumstances could buy a far margin have put in a great deal more work than someone who also came out of similar unfortunate circumstances but managed to succeed.
Both myself and my brothers are extremely different people, even though we had the same parents. In the story of the two brothers, it seems apparent that one brother saw an opportunity for change and growth while the other brother remained numb with despair. Does that mean that one brother was "better" or had more virtue than the other? Absolutely not! Although it's human nature to pass judgment in such situations, doing so might actually be detrimental to a person who is struggling.
It reminds me of another story in which teachers were informed about students. Some of them were labeled as highly intelligent and well behaved. Another group of students was labeled as poor performers and with behavior problems. It turned out that those who were labeled as poor performers, were far more likely to live down to those negative expectations. Two more teachers were brought in, and the children's labels were reversed, meaning that the poor performers were labeled as intelligent and cooperative, and The students who were previously labeled as high performers, now had the label of being the opposite. The result was, those students who previously had performed poorly, were doing much better with the teacher who had positive expectations of them. The previously labeled "good" students performed more poorly, fulfilling the negative expectations they were subjected to.
We are the outcome of a genetic lottery. We are highly individual beings. It is good to appreciate when someone transcends negative circumstances. Still, it's important to avoid negative judgments of those who are still struggling. Both groups need to be treated as though you know they are doing their very best.
@YougotthisNaush hi sweetie welcome to 7 cups ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ what's happens to that kid, well he/she gets to be the adult they always needed ❤
