Lonely in the chat rooms..
I really feel invisible and alone in the chat rooms, even when the chat rooms have many members. They don't care about me, they continue talking themselves and just ignore.. And about the mods, it's like they don't exist.. I don't remember any name so don't ask me which mod. The chat rooms are always going on its pace, and when I enter it's just some hi or hello or even not, if I say something it's like they don't receive it and just ignore, no one is talking to me or even acknowledge me that I am here in the chat, I just wanted to vent this out, don't take it seriously, I am always lonely.. No one there..
Hey moon, this is probably really rough, especially when you are coming to this app to talk to someone. I can't speak for others here, but I can say you are not alone even though it may feel like it sometimes. In this instance, you are alone in this feeling. I'm new to this app as of today but through experiences at school I know how this must feel. My tip to you would be to bring it up I'm the chat rooms! Sometimes people may not notice that they might be excluding you, and if you tell them your concerns they may respond well! I hope this works out for you!
@calmmoon2104
I relate to this so much. Honestly, I have no idea how conversation works in a chat. When I enter people are already talking about something and idk how to join the conversation and don't feel out of place. Also it feels like conversations are going super fast there.
Maybe it just doesn't work for everyone and private messaging is better for some people.
At least you should know you're not alone in that
Hey I know what you mean. I've tried other apps in the past and had this similar outcome, so I thought I'd give this one a go, but I still don't really know what I'm doing with it, but I can relate with you with the whole loneliness thing. Hope you're doing okay
I find it really hard to know how to jump in too. I thought maybe the new private longer term groups but I can't find them. The app is hard for me to figure out.
@calmmoon21
moon : i had some similar experiences in the chat rooms !
moon : please join me in the Sharing Circle chat room ! 😊
@hounddog2021
Of course, I will be happy to join you in the sharing circle! 😊
@calmmoon2104
moon : I will see you in the sharing circle
I don’t know you or what you’ve been through, but love isn’t bound by knowledge so when I say I love you and I see you I mean it. Loneliness can only exist in the illusion that we are separate from others. We’re not. What hurts you, hurts me too. When you are down, I am down with you. Don’t forget there’s at least one person on earth who loves you unconditionally.
Hello Good day, I am Ronan. I have these school project where i should listen to 10 people and I'm really interested listening to your rants and specifically to you. This is a school purpose only. Would you you help me?
Also just wanted to put it out here, there's like 41 upvotes on the original post when I'm seeing it, and so many replies, full of support, empathy, compassion, offer for friendship and company, and lots of kindness. A clear example for everyone here, that there's all kinds of people in the world, if there's some who don't make us feel included, welcomed, acknowledged and cared for or who trigger our loneliness and make us question our value in the world, there's also many many people like some here who take out time to reply compassionately and offer support to someone they barely even know, who try their best to make someone else feel less like a 'nobody' and more like a 'somebody'. I'm really proud of this particular set of people, who may be struggling themselves yet take the time to be there for someone else. The bestest part about 7 cups: shared compassion and hope, a reminder that we are never alone here.❤
Thank*you* to everyone who replied here offering acknowledgement and support, *you* are awesome, and you're exactly the kind of person, this world needs more of. So much love to everyone.❤
