I think I am done of being nice with people
We feel tied...
Perhaps family restrictions, perhaps the long distances,
perhaps the opinions of others, perhaps the eyes and looks of others...
We want to do something else... We feel that there is something between us and ourselves, our freedom...
idk about you guys, but I'm the kind of person who knows exactly what he wants...
I know exactly the cause of my problems and I know exactly how to solve them...but I feel restricted...
I know I can remove the chains, the key is in my hand... But I don't know why I don't free myself...
Perhaps because prison is more merciful to me than the human monsters outside...
Which I am not afraid of... Rather, I am exhausted... And I am afraid that I may cause everyone who encounters me terrible psychological pain...
Maybe because there are so many out there who are lying, selfish, hypocritical...
They tell us not to change, but they change and leave us.
They tell us to be kind to them, but they slowly eat our souls...
They tell us we're the worst... I think I'm good at that thing at least.
I think I am done of being nice with people, until I see that they deserve that...
@Mustafa97e
It is hard to stay open when you feel like others do not return kindness. Being a good person can be a struggle, indeed. Being your best self is all that matters. Take care, and I hope that some very good souls cross your path very soon, those deserving the care you want to share.
@Mustafa97e
this..this is deep.
I can somehow relate to some of this.
@Mustafa97e Sounds excellent to me--being done with being nice. It may appear to sound negative on the surface, but to me, it seems like a good first step to building boundaries of safety, perhaps for an empathic person with porous boundaries. Go for it! I am cheering you on!
@Mustafa97e
Especially when it seems like they're not reciprocating your kindness or treating you with respect. It's important to remember that you don't owe anyone your niceness, but it's also important to consider the consequences of being unkind or rude to others.
It's alo important to remember that not everyone is the same, and it's not fair to judge everyone based on the actions of a few. There are still kind, genuine people out there who may be worth getting to know.
Ultimately, the decision to be kind or unkind is up to you, but it's important to consider the impact your actions have on yourself and others.
@TimewiseHeart
It's important