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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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MaeveTheBrave March 17th, 2021

I, MaeveTheBrave (name: "Maeve"), pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, including all Guests, Members, and other Listeners, making them my witnesses, that I have read and understand the community guidelines, and ensure my compliance with them during stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow Members and Listeners with: heartfelt compassion, kindness, patience, open-mindedness, respect, dignity, be non-judgmental, and provide any aid/support I can (within compliance of the 7Cups guidelines and Listener trainings) to the best of my abilities.

I will always remain respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations, and will take responsibility for my words and actions here.

I will use the proper channels and help services to address any (escalating) concerns I may have or face during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others, as well as sharing my experiences, and being willing to learn new things in order to hopefully help grow as an individual, as well as a supportive community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior, actions, and words within the overall 7Cups community, and I understand that how I react to any situation is my choice, and my choice alone.

I will follow the community guidelines and rules, and will do my best to support everyone here to help build a better, safer, and happier community for all of us.

Signed: MaeveTheBrave (Maeve)
Date: 03/16/2021

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Personal Note: Although I am signing this oath as a Listener, I am also a registered Member on this site as well, and have signed this oath on that account too. But mainly, I felt it was important for me to sign/write/post this oath as a Listener specifically (and feel the same for all Listeners here) for the added heartfelt dedication, benefit/betterment, and safety of the entire 7Cups community. Stay safe everyone <3

Humble777480 March 17th, 2021

I,Humble777480_, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //Humble//
Date: 3/17/2021

SatoriK March 18th, 2021

I SatoriK

pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

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SatoriK March 18th, 2021

I SatoriK

pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed SatoriK March 17 2021

P.s. Didn't know to sign it so did it again!

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tl51 March 18th, 2021

I, Tiffany, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups. I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental. I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. � I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support. I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. � I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. � I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. � I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice. I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone. Signed: Tiffany Date: 3/18/2021

snugglyDancer5348 March 21st, 2021

@Laura

I, @snugglyDancer5348 pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

snugglyDancer5348 March 21st, 2021

@Laura

I, @snugglyDancer5348, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //snugglyDancer5348//
Date: 3/20/2021

snugglyDancer5348 March 21st, 2021

@Laura

I, @snugglyDancer5348, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //@snugglyDancer5348//
Date: 3/20/2021

Optimisticempath March 21st, 2021

@Laura

I, Optimisticempath , pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //Optimisticempath//
Date: 21 /03 /2021

snugglyDancer5348 March 21st, 2021

@Laura

I, snugglyDancer5348, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //snugglyDancer5348//
Date: 3/21/2021

Studentnurse2021 March 22nd, 2021

@Laura

Listeners Oath

I, @Studentnurse2021, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community. �

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations. �

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community. �

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together. �

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: @Studentnurse2021
Date: 3/21/2021