TW: Was it sexual assault??
so today a friend told me that she was coerced after saying no many times to do stuff with a guy, and it got me thinking about my potential? assaults. I kind of think that something as big as what happpened to her didn't happen to me so its not as big of a deal.
there's three situations i can think of that i want to know if they are sa?
1. When i was maybe 8-9 this boy who was younger than me maybe 6-7? covinced me to kiss him under covers and play hide and seek but instead of playing the game actually going into a close and little by little, he coerced me into taking off my clothes and like showing parts of my body ( we later found out someone was doing the same thing to him, but as i got older i felt a lot of built and like cause i was odler i should have known better?)
2. I can't remember who initially initiated (most likely her), but me and a girl i knew would often kiss under covers, it happened many times- likely every time we saw each other, I can't ever remember any further touching but i don't know what to consider this
3. I had an older cousin maybe 13-14 while i was 8-9 who would also kiss me, i have one specific memory where he picked me up to kiss him because i was literally that much smaller compared to him ( in my body i feel like there were more times this happened that i don't have clear memories of) he would kind of touch my body while kissing me but nothing "sexual" (ex :like touching genitals)
my friend talking about her assault was kinda triggering and idk what to consider these things?